just focus on making them feel extremely comfortable around you while you socialize with them.
how to do this
- don't try to impress them
- be extremely genuine (go in wanting nothing from the interaction)
- pay 100% undivided attention to them
- feel very comfortable yourself around them.
its crazy how powerful this is. This is what I've been focusing on at my job recently and I close customers at a crazy rate because people feel super comfortable around me. This triggers all their positive mental mechanisms to say "yes" because they trust me and like me immensely
I don't think this works around females because they're basically a mutant subspecies and none of their behavior works based on any logic but at least you can make friends very easily and have great success at work if your job is based on sales or relationship building of any kind.
how to do this
- don't try to impress them
- be extremely genuine (go in wanting nothing from the interaction)
- pay 100% undivided attention to them
- feel very comfortable yourself around them.
its crazy how powerful this is. This is what I've been focusing on at my job recently and I close customers at a crazy rate because people feel super comfortable around me. This triggers all their positive mental mechanisms to say "yes" because they trust me and like me immensely
I don't think this works around females because they're basically a mutant subspecies and none of their behavior works based on any logic but at least you can make friends very easily and have great success at work if your job is based on sales or relationship building of any kind.