Explain to me how you get girls when you are broke or even homeless

[ZaCool]

I dont have my own place or car and iam looking for a job, cause iam a broke a$$ college student and iam trying not to lose all my money before finishing college, now girls dont usually ask how rich you are but its quite easy to see while they dont want money itself they still long for that lifestyle that money can buy ... as college students we are expected to be poor af ( in reality many are either rich or doing pretty well cause of their rich daddy ), and usually girls notice looks first and are drawn to hot college guys and enough money to buy some beer, hit the bar or hang out should be enough to get you a chick while in college .... yes you can get a gf or get laid in college even if youre far from rich but you need money, even if a little bit, you need to be able to go out, you need to spend money even if the amount is like 20$-30$ a date ... which is really cool and means poor guys can still score girls .


but then you have guys saying they can pull chicks and get laid without having anything ,literally nothing no house, car, money or job and some claim they are homeless and getting laid often with plenty of women .... idk if i should believe that, in my two years of college iam yet to meet a girl ready to bang a dude with nothing, the closest thing to nothing was probably this dude with a job making 1500$ a month (he spends half of that on chicks and his car) and sharing his car with his brother .... but i have never met a guy with literally nothing (even if hes hot ) and still getting laid .

so all the "alpha" dudes out there who dont have anything and still manage to pull chicks ... teach me your secret , teach me how you can pull and bang chicks when you cant even afford to blow 20$ on a date, teach me what no dating site, article or anyone in life has taught me before or even done himself ( i had women pay for me before, but it was clear i had some money and not broke af like iam now ) .

 

[zekko]

They're banging single moms and welfare chicks.

 

[ZaCool]

They're banging single moms and welfare chicks.

I had a hunch but from all the talking such guys do you'd think they are banging model like chicks that only allow men in once a year, but nope they bang chicks that have kids from 3 different dads and change men like socks

 

[wifehunter]

We don't get to decide who we are attracted to.

A homeless guy with frame, will destroy the rich orbiter drones. No contest, no challenge.

 

[skinnyguy]

We don't get to decide who we are attracted to.

A homeless guy with frame, will destroy the rich obiter drones. No contest, no challenge.

Having money is a disadvantage for many guys because you only attract the gold diggers. I got way more puss when I was a broke college student. Those girls actually wanted me and not my money.

 

[bigdave17]

I dont have my own place or car and iam looking for a job, cause iam a broke a$$ college student and iam trying not to lose all my money before finishing college, now girls dont usually ask how rich you are but its quite easy to see while they dont want money itself they still long for that lifestyle that money can buy ... as college students we are expected to be poor af ( in reality many are either rich or doing pretty well cause of their rich daddy ), and usually girls notice looks first and are drawn to hot college guys and enough money to buy some beer, hit the bar or hang out should be enough to get you a chick while in college .... yes you can get a gf or get laid in college even if youre far from rich but you need money, even if a little bit, you need to be able to go out, you need to spend money even if the amount is like 20$-30$ a date ... which is really cool and means poor guys can still score girls .


but then you have guys saying they can pull chicks and get laid without having anything ,literally nothing no house, car, money or job and some claim they are homeless and getting laid often with plenty of women .... idk if i should believe that, in my two years of college iam yet to meet a girl ready to bang a dude with nothing, the closest thing to nothing was probably this dude with a job making 1500$ a month (he spends half of that on chicks and his car) and sharing his car with his brother .... but i have never met a guy with literally nothing (even if hes hot ) and still getting laid .

so all the "alpha" dudes out there who dont have anything and still manage to pull chicks ... teach me your secret , teach me how you can pull and bang chicks when you cant even afford to blow 20$ on a date, teach me what no dating site, article or anyone in life has taught me before or even done himself ( i had women pay for me before, but it was clear i had some money and not broke af like iam now ) .

money is nowhere near as powerful as you guys think it is. I was making 150K at 24-25 and I still had zero dating life... I had a house at 25 and a 70K car at an age where most guys were living at home with parents or sharing a sh**t apartment with 6 roommates

 

[RichardTheFrog]

money is nowhere near as powerful as you guys think it is. I was making 150K at 24-25 and I still had zero dating life... I had a house at 25 and a 70K car at an age where most guys were living at home with parents or sharing a sh**t apartment with 6 roommates

Yet it has the power to make a girl with student loan payments want to put your d1ck in her throat.

 

[marmel75]

This thread was made for people with your mindset

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/just-stop-the-whining-and-figure-it-out.247708/

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I think most of them are people that just get lucky when they are younger.

Or, like you said, deal with low quality girls.

 

[fastlife]

Easy. I always had a car, but there were times when I was super broke & was still doing fine. Not having a car would be an obstacle. Does she have a car? Good. Obviously, having your own place is a huge advantage. Having your own place, close to the bars, even more so.

But you don't have a place. So let's start from there:

• You go out to a bar or club. Or the mall. Or anywhere you do day-to-day life that might have hot girls. Avoid places with covers. Beer adds up. Water is free Typically, I buy one beer when I go out & just hold onto the bottle or buy a coke at the bar. So, plus tip (and always tip well if you ever plan on frequenting a place!), that's $6.
• Talk to girls. Sexualize convo early. Push-pull. Tease. Have fun.
• Build enough attraction that she isn't trying to escape & wants to know more about you. Be mysterious & a little evasive. Tell her you're a stripper or a drug dealer or you work the fry station at McDonald's. Tongue in cheek, obviously. Riff of that & if she pushes harder, tell her she's being weird. Wait, are you going to try and rob me or something? Have to be careful around girls with dark eyes. You're trouble. Etc.
• Once she's hooked, just plant a seed to hangout. You seem chill. If you weren't so stuck up, I'd invite you to [Denny's, Starbucks, take a walk around this cool park that's a couple blocks away]. Coffee for two is like $4; splitting a waffle is like $3; parks are free. But the point is to get her hanging out 1 on 1. From there, your best move is to either have her drive or walk her to her car or start talking about how her dorm is probably super messy & you'd come over but your shoes are spotless & you don't want to mess them up from all the gross sh1t on her kitchen floor. (Notice that all of the convos are structured to get her to qualify to fix your impression of her. She will try to prove you wrong, so if she does, verbally, just say, Oh, yeah? Prove it.)
• Once you're in her car, tell her you want her to drive you somewhere quiet & look at the night sky or whatever. By the time you get to this point, she wants it to happen without feeling slvtty. Get where you're going & escalate.
• These days, I typically just meet a girl, sometimes at a bar, sometimes during the day, sometimes when I'm out to eat, sometimes through social circle & I invite her over for a glass of wine if she promises to behave. Wine is cheap, I only ever do one glass, we usually don't finish. Sometimes we never get around to pouring it. But I'd guess for the last 10-15 girls I've been with, excluding gas money, I probably average around $3-$4 per girl from meet up to my place. I don't do dates until I've seen a girl for about a month & actually like her. First dates are sh1tty to test her interest level. From there, I like nice dinners from time to time.
• Of course, these girls must be 'low quality,' but I guarantee every guy here wants girls like the ones I pull. Granted, some of them aren't great people. Others are. Externally, all of them are pretty high end.
• Remember, you're dealing with sh1t-tier logistics. You will lose some pulls. Expect it & start working to fix it. At least get a restaurant job, serving or bar-tending. One, it's a great place to meet girls, especially in a college town. Two, you need to save up for a car ASAP. Even if you only work 2 nights a week, and even if it's a sh1tty serving job, you should pull about $100 dollars a week. Five mos of that, and you should have enough for a decent car.

 

[zekko]

Having money is a disadvantage for many guys because you only attract the gold diggers. I got way more puss when I was a broke college student. Those girls actually wanted me and not my money.

People expect college students to be broke though. At least you were being productive, learning or building toward a degree.
Not the same as being homeless.

 

[Spaz]

Haha, this made me reminiscent my youth, some of the ****ty things I did. I'll share some;

I was dirt poor at 17, staying in random houses because i was homeless, a 24 year old Japanese expatriate who worked at Yaohan took me in. Gave me a cheap run down mitsubishi and shared her small apartment.

Thought me how to use a chopstick and motivated me to further my studies.

I've always wondered what was her angle, all the freebies, surely she wanted something in return.

Turns out she was a Virgin.

After a few months I got comfortable to ask her why, she just shrug her shoulders and said she was drawn to me. I figured it's the tribal tattoos I had as a child and she just got curious, perhaps attracted, as i used to play soccer shirtless in a park opposite her apartment prior to meeting her.

I had other girls my age at that time who would support me financially too. Some bought me gold necklace or a ring. Some gave me cash. Their daddies were well off. I was sleeping with all of them, at 17 my hormones were on hyper drive.

So yes, those friends of yours getting laid is not fictional, and yes it does happen. Back then my society was rather conservative and even so it was possible to get laid. Should be easier for you.

On further reflection, the science, the knowledge or whatever, till today i don't really know how I did it. I just took for granted that every girl wanted s€x and love back then. All I wanted was just s€x to release some tensions.

I get gifts of gold and even pocket money from the girls, even a few of their mothers gave me some cash.

All I know is I was carefree, had passion for life, an ambitious motherfvcker and a bit of a rebel. So maybe that's the secret.

 

[ZaCool]

Haha, this made me reminiscent my youth, some of the ****ty things I did. I'll share some;

I was dirt poor at 17, staying in random houses because i was homeless, a 24 year old Japanese expatriate who worked at Yaohan took me in. Gave me a cheap run down mitsubishi and shared her small apartment.

Thought me how to use a chopstick and motivated me to further my studies.

I've always wondered what was her angle, all the freebies, surely she wanted something in return.

Turns out she was a Virgin.

After a few months I got comfortable to ask her why, she just shrug her shoulders and said she was drawn to me. I figured it's the tribal tattoos I had as a child and she just got curious, perhaps attracted, as i used to play soccer shirtless in a park opposite her apartment prior to meeting her.

I had other girls my age at that time who would support me financially too. Some bought me gold necklace or a ring. Some gave me cash. Their daddies were well off. I was sleeping with all of them, at 17 my hormones were on hyper drive.

So yes, those friends of yours getting laid is not fictional, and yes it does happen. Back then my society was rather conservative and even so it was possible to get laid. Should be easier for you.

On further reflection, the science, the knowledge or whatever, till today i don't really know how I did it. I just took for granted that every girl wanted s€x and love back then. All I wanted was just s€x to release some tensions.

I get gifts of gold and even pocket money from the girls, even a few of their mothers gave me some cash.

All I know is I was carefree, had passion for life, an ambitious motherfvcker and a bit of a rebel. So maybe that's the secret.

iam sorry no offense but i dont believe a single word .

 

[Spaz]

iam sorry no offense but i dont believe a single word .

Haha that's fine. No one in their right mind would.

But it happened.

And even in my 20's, 30's and 40's women have been giving me $$$$. Even the Samsung I'm using right now to respond to this thread was a gift from a woman

 

[Spaz]

The frame of his mind is blowing the girls away. Hes carrying too much burden and it's showing up in his mojo...

 

[The Duke]

had passion for life, an ambitious motherfvcker and a bit of a rebel. So maybe that's the secret.

That's the category I fall into and it has always worked wonders on women. Its very masculine and not as common as it used to be.

 

[marmel75]

Thr difference between people who get women under these circumstances and you is as simple as them believing they deserve to have these women and you believing you don't.

Your self limiting beliefs are hurting you far more than the reality of your situation would.

 

[Spaz]

OP, chill down a notch or two.

I left my village (population 300-400) at the age of 14, and travelled alone to the city, abt 200km away. The reason I left was because there was no secondary schooling there. I no longer wanted to wake up at 4am to wade through rivers, walk through valleys and forested hills just to reach a run down primary school, i no longer wanted to hunt in the jungle for food, nor plant tapioca for sustenance or set traps in the rivers for fish. I wanted to study, I had ambitions to be greater then my forefathers.

I wanted to be a doctor. It was my dream. Ended up being an engineer.

The moral of my story is, you are having it good right now, many others are not as fortunate as you are. Don't just see the negatives in your life, open your eyes and see all the good around you. When you go home from school or work, you get to see your family, there's love. There's roof over your head, there's protection. You still have a school to go to, there's friends and education. You have plenty to be grateful.

Your life is good.

 

[ZaCool]

OP, chill down a notch or two.

I left my village (population 300-400) at the age of 14, and travelled alone to the city, abt 200km away. The reason I left was because there was no secondary schooling there. I no longer wanted to wake up at 4am to wade through rivers, walk through valleys and forested hills just to reach a run down primary school, i no longer wanted to hunt in the jungle for food, nor plant tapioca for sustenance or set traps in the rivers for fish. I wanted to study, I had ambitions to be greater then my forefathers.

I wanted to be a doctor. It was my dream. Ended up being an engineer.

The moral of my story is, you are having it good right now, many others are not as fortunate as you are. Don't just see the negatives in your life, open your eyes and see all the good around you. When you go home from school or work, you get to see your family, there's love. There's roof over your head, there's protection. You still have a school to go to, there's friends and education. You have plenty to be grateful.

Your life is good.

I do appreciate the stuff i have and realize not everyone has that, so you are right its not 100% bad, but in regards to women and dating i need to improve i need new skills cause what i have doesnt cut it anymore .

I have one question though that i have never gotten a straight answer for, how truthful should i be ? men lie, like they Bullsh*t women every second of the day but when i was honest i was getting better results, maybe i should just tell women what i want.

for example a chick who has show a lot of interest in me and we talked a lot and she seems interested has a bf, she knows i know but we never talked about it and i feel she only talks to me when shes bored of her bf, i am not the kind of guy who accepts that, youre either giving me something or you can fk off and i have said it to women before, and iam planning on telling this chick as well, that whatever her story with her bf is thats her business, but i am not someone she uses for a confidence boost .

 

[zekko]

There are some women who are "caretaker" types. I know some guys who can't keep a job, but they live with women who support them. It happens. Doesn't mean I would change places with them.

Do you need to have money or a job to get girls? No.
Does not having money or a job make you more attractive? Ah, hell naw.