You're not supposed to be whipped right?

[Spidah]

Why are so many dudes whipped after the first or second date with a girl? You barely know the chick and you already want to lay out the red carpet for her? Like WTF.

Even before the first date a lot of you guys are whipped and nervous. Not spinning enough plates or what?

 

[wifehunter]

Yes, scarcity mentality...

It's rampant here.

People need to get out more.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Ignorance

 

[ohrein]

Pedestal.

Although sometimes when I find a woman worth my time I remember how rare a woman who has her sh1t together is (as much as women can) and have to remind myself that higher quality doesn't mean unicorn.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Pedestal.

Although sometimes when I find a woman worth my time I remember how rare a woman who has her sh1t together is (as much as women can) and have to remind myself that higher quality doesn't mean unicorn.

She could say her bills on time, great credit, career on point and be the most selfish relationship partner and a starfish in bed. An emotional and energy black hole for those close.

 

[greatsnake]

If you think you have no options/or can't do better, the behavior will follow.