is telling her you know she has a bf a good move

[ZaCool]

Long story short iam 6'2 and a college student that 99% of girls i meet find me attractive, and very good looking, plus i take care of myself and have a pretty nice style and always smell nice , i can almost always find a girl so into me she cant keep her eyes off me or act right around me and is attractive, thing is there is no such thing as attractive single girls, they are very uncommon and hot girls are 90% of the time taken, either way i usually end up talking to the chick and slowly getting to know her but i reach a point where shes not responding as good anymore , and avoids the topic of going out ... i usually find out she has a bf but never tell her and just keep acting like i know nothing , but again i still dont get to go out with her, bang her or anything so basically we're just chatting and she is emotionally throwing herself at me but thats about it .

iam not like that, in fact iam assertive af and i hate this, i tell girls whatever i want from them, thats how i roll but when it comes to this issue i struggle, whats the best course of action to bang such chicks ? keep playing dumb hoping she will at some point come running to me , or ..... be straight with her and tell her i know about her bf and iam not playing that game, i either get something out of this or iam out .

i have been trying the first approach for a while ... playing dumb doesnt work ... on the other hand my friend who bangs chicks with bfs knows they have bfs and doesnt hide that he knows from the girl and it seems to be working for him , what are your thoughts ? what is the best approach ?

 

[sosousage]

just keep on fuvking her, if its not broken dont fix it

 

[ZaCool]

just keep on fuvking her, if its not broken dont fix it

but it is broken, these girls start drifting away and act like theyre smarter than me hiding their bf and keeping me as spare, iam not getting anything iam not f*Cking them nor even kissing them , i would much rather be upfront and tell her " i know you have a bf, know am i getting something or we just go our own seperate ways ?" cause being nice and playin dumb isnt working

 

[Chev.Chelios]

you'll start realizing how this whole bf thing is such a joke to these girls.. and how you shouldn't even be concerned about it.

read dis https://bristollair.com/2008/inner-game/nature-reality/the-truth-about-women/

 

[marmel75]

Girl: "I have a boyfriend."
You: " Thank God! I wouldn't want you to get too attached to me."

Girl: " I have a boyfriend."
You: "Well... I'm sure that must be a major accomplishment for you, but to the rest of us its not really something we feel the need to brag about."

Girl: "I have a boyfriend."
You: " Awesome! I'm sure you'll be able to come up with really creative excuses to tell him when you are spending time with me."

Girl: " I have a boyfriend."
You: "That's great. You need someone else to keep your mind occupied so you aren't thinking of me every minute of the day. Its not healthy."

Girl: "I have a boyfriend"
You: "Cool...hopefully that prevents you from stalking me."

Your reaction should be "and???". So what. Boyfriend, married, significant other...that doesnt stop women from fvcking a guy they want to fvck.

OP, if you are as good looking as you claim all you need to do is go to a bar or club and you will have women throwing themselves at you. If this isn't happening then you are not as good looking as you think. Hell, even at a college party...once alcohol is flowing women get horny and will basically tell you they want to fvck. This isnt hard bro.

 

[ZaCool]

Girl: "I have a boyfriend."
You: " Thank God! I wouldn't want you to get too attached to me."

Girl: " I have a boyfriend."
You: "Well... I'm sure that must be a major accomplishment for you, but to the rest of us its not really something we feel the need to brag about."

Girl: "I have a boyfriend."
You: " Awesome! I'm sure you'll be able to come up with really creative excuses to tell him when you are spending time with me."

Girl: " I have a boyfriend."
You: "That's great. You need someone else to keep your mind occupied so you aren't thinking of me every minute of the day. Its not healthy."

Girl: "I have a boyfriend"
You: "Cool...hopefully that prevents you from stalking me."

Your reaction should be "and???". So what. Boyfriend, married, significant other...that doesnt stop women from fvcking a guy they want to fvck.

OP, if you are as good looking as you claim all you need to do is go to a bar or club and you will have women throwing themselves at you. If this isn't happening then you are not as good looking as you think. Hell, even at a college party...once alcohol is flowing women get horny and will basically tell you they want to fvck. This isnt hard bro.

bars and clubs arent free my friend they cost money, money that i lack, i can afford a one on one date with a girl but cant afford hitting the club and blowing money on drinks that cost twice my hourly salary ..... i have been to bars and clubs and i do get attention from the ladies, i have been hit on more than once and the last bar i've been to, two women were eye fvcking me all night but i was with a bunch of friends, didnt have a car so didnt approach, and a few days ago while paying at a clothes store a woman easily a 7.5/10 who has been eyeing me and a friend for a while, approached us and started talking to my buddy, ( i was paying and he was between me and her so she couldnt get to me, although her eyes were still locked on me and she smiled few times ), i let my buddy handle it and got out of the store ... turns out he blew it and didnt know what to say (i h ad a plan but again i was far from the chick and didnt wanna c0ck block him, even though as i already menitoned her eyes were on me all the time and it was obvious my buddy wasnt her target) .

iam as good looking as i claim i am, and you did give me some cool answer to the bf question, i can use that , in fact i have been thinking about throwing something like that at her if she says "yes i have a bf" when i ask her .... cause playin dumb isnt working anymore i need a spark to light up the fire of passion inside of her and hopefully throwing something as a dramatic as "you have a bf?" should do the trick and get her going .

 

[ohrein]

integrity
ɪnˈtɛɡrɪti/
noun

1. 
   the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.
   "a gentleman of complete integrity"
   synonyms: honesty, uprightness, probity, rectitude, honour, honourableness, upstandingness, good character, principle(s), ethics, morals, righteousness, morality, nobility, high-mindedness, right-mindedness, noble-mindedness, virtue, decency, fairness, scrupulousness, sincerity, truthfulness, trustworthiness
   "I never doubted his integrity"

 

[marmel75]

bars and clubs arent free my friend they cost money, money that i lack, i can afford a one on one date with a girl but cant afford hitting the club and blowing money on drinks that cost twice my hourly salary ..... i have been to bars and clubs and i do get attention from the ladies, i have been hit on more than once and the last bar i've been to, two women were eye fvcking me all night but i was with a bunch of friends, didnt have a car so didnt approach, and a few days ago while paying at a clothes store a woman easily a 7.5/10 who has been eyeing me and a friend for a while, approached us and started talking to my buddy, ( i was paying and he was between me and her so she couldnt get to me, although her eyes were still locked on me and she smiled few times ), i let my buddy handle it and got out of the store ... turns out he blew it and didnt know what to say (i h ad a plan but again i was far from the chick and didnt wanna c0ck block him, even though as i already menitoned her eyes were on me all the time and it was obvious my buddy wasnt her target) .

iam as good looking as i claim i am, and you did give me some cool answer to the bf question, i can use that , in fact i have been thinking about throwing something like that at her if she says "yes i have a bf" when i ask her .... cause playin dumb isnt working anymore i need a spark to light up the fire of passion inside of her and hopefully throwing something as a dramatic as "you have a bf?" should do the trick and get her going .

Bro, you dont need to spend a bunch of money in bars and clubs. You said you go to college do you live on campus? Back when i was in college we did one of two things...we either drank before going and walked to the bars near campus so we disnt spend much if anything or we took stuff with us and drank once we parked the car at the bar/club...

I feel like that Randy Jackson commercial..."I don't know dog...you got the looks...you got the clothes...you got the stance...I dunno man...I'm just not buying it...you gotta come a little harder, dog... you gotta figure it out.."

I mean these are simple solutions to your problem. Either one of those would allow you to spend little to no money when you are out. We were poor college studnents too...we got creative.

We drank Popov instead of Stoli...we drank Natural Light instead if Bud...

That doesnt even get to option 3 and that is to have the women buy you drinks...you see a woman eye fvcking you at the bar, stroll up to her and say "Hey its not free to stare at me all night, thats gonna cost you a drink..." And then give her your drink order and stand there til she replies. If you are that good looking 90% of the time she will buy you that drink.

Im sensing the problem is lack of action which might be tied to a lack of confidence ...next time make it easy on yourself and juat hang out by the bar and strike up small conversations with women that come up there..."Now that's an interesting drink...what do they call that?"

 

[ohrein]

you'll start realizing how this whole bf thing is such a joke to these girls.. and how you shouldn't even be concerned about it.

read dis https://bristollair.com/2008/inner-game/nature-reality/the-truth-about-women/

This guy is so full of shyt. We all know most women can and will cheat under the right circumstances but this dude's ego is insane. Any woman at any time? Delusions of grandeur.

 

[ZaCool]

Bro, you dont need to spend a bunch of money in bars and clubs. You said you go to college do you live on campus? Back when i was in college we did one of two things...we either drank before going and walked to the bars near campus so we disnt spend much if anything or we took stuff with us and drank once we parked the car at the bar/club...

I feel like that Randy Jackson commercial..."I don't know dog...you got the looks...you got the clothes...you got the stance...I dunno man...I'm just not buying it...you gotta come a little harder, dog... you gotta figure it out.."

I mean these are simple solutions to your problem. Either one of those would allow you to spend little to no money when you are out. We were poor college studnents too...we got creative.

We drank Popov instead of Stoli...we drank Natural Light instead if Bud...

That doesnt even get to option 3 and that is to have the women buy you drinks...you see a woman eye fvcking you at the bar, stroll up to her and say "Hey its not free to stare at me all night, thats gonna cost you a drink..." And then give her your drink order and stand there til she replies. If you are that good looking 90% of the time she will buy you that drink.

Im sensing the problem is lack of action which might be tied to a lack of confidence ...next time make it easy on yourself and juat hang out by the bar and strike up small conversations with women that come up there..."Now that's an interesting drink...what do they call that?"

well iam kinda poor with no car and dont live on campus, but i almost got a new job and will be making some money in the next few weeks/months, so thats a good thing, i do however agree on the action part, i am confident af one moment and kinda aloof and not in the mood in a little while later, but iam working on that, i have dated before and went out with girls and you are right about the paying part, women did pay for me without even complaining and we met more than once, you can get away with so many things when they are physically attracted to you .

at the moment iam trying to detach the parts of my personality that are not ideal for attracting women, it wont happen over night and i have worked hard to reach where iam now, but iam looking for more success with minimal effort and logistics (since thats all i have) ... back when i had a car, money and was always around women at work it was very easy to date and have some fun, even in my first year of college i had the money and car and could afford having some fun ... now in my 3rd year iam broke af, no car or place so iam resorting to creativity, iam playing the emotions game, iam trying to be creative on one hand when it comes to going on dates and trying to spark some deepr and stronger feelings in girls .... basically being passive and playing dumb doesnt work, i tried it, and it never works, when i was honest i was slayin, my friend is honest af, he tells it the way it is and if she has a bf he asks to know and proceeds with whatever he was doing and ends up getting the chick, iam reverting back to my original strategy ..... or more accurately no strategy and just pure old honesty .

I read on this site and other sites that if a guy is good looking his job is not to attract but to maintain the attraction, and that he can afford to be very honest and get away with lots of sh*t with women and doesnt need game per se but the smoothness and confidence that game provides without the mind f*Cks and tricks to attract women .
( dont get me wrong though iam not saying iam a 10/10 or that personality is useless, you need to be able to hold a convo and talk to chicks or it wont happen i do realize that part ).

 

[wifehunter]

"is telling her you know she has a bf a good move"

She probably has 8 boyfriends so saying she has 'only one', could be considered an insult.

 

[ZaCool]

"is telling her you know she has a bf a good move"

She probably has 8 boyfriends so saying she has 'only one', could be considered an insult.

lol yeah iam aware of that, iam probably not the first nor the last, but i saw her, she saw me, and we both know i know so playing dumb isnt really making me get anything i want, iam trying to play on the emotional part here and spark some interest and risky behaviour in her, if shes thrilled then great if not then .... i just end it and find another chick