I need some advice ASAP!

[da best]

So I need some advice. I want to get this girl that works at a fast food restaurant. I want to get her number but I can’t ask while she is working at her job. Plus everyone will see me asking her for it even the employees. And I don’t want to get her in trouble for asking for her number. I feel like the best thing to do is write a note saying I would love to take you out and put my phone number on a piece of paper and just slide it to her. Trust me if i could ask her for her number I would. Its just I want to keep everything professional. she is not a waitress. She is a cashier behind the counter! which makes it even harder. i feel like the employees will try to ****BLOCK if i ask for her number. And out of 1 through 10 I believe she like me 8 out of ten. I’m confident she is interested in me a lot. ANY other tips i can do. or should i just go along with my plan.

 

[Serenity]

You do know that she's paid to provide good customer service right? She's getting money for being nice. How can you be so sure she likes you specifically 8/10?

 

[da best]

You do know that she's paid to provide good customer service right? She's getting money for being nice. How can you be so sure she likes you specifically 8/10?

Yeah im aware she gets paid for customer sevice but im not a customer i pick up food and deliver it i do Ubereats. Everytime i go to her Restaurant she smiles at me. And she gets nervous sometimes when she is making the food when im there. Sometimes we would have conversations she would blush. I would also catch her looking at me when im looking at something else.

 

[Glassguy]

OP- chill out man. You are coming across as a little high strung over a chick that you know nothing about, other than she works at a fast food place. Its a little creepy to be honest.

Keep everything professional? She works at a fast food joint my man.

Chill out and just work up some convo when you go there again, but do not start going there everyday or it will be creepy.

 

[da best]

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OP- chill out man. You are coming across as a little high strung over a chick that you know nothing about, other than she works at a fast food place. Its a little creepy to be honest.

Keep everything professional? She works at a fast food joint my man.

Chill out and just work up some convo when you go there again, but do not start going there everyday or it will be creepy.[/QUOTE So just ask for her number during a conversation? I dont want to make her look bad doing that though.

 

[MrWood]

Sometimes we would have conversations she would blush.

then you have time to get her #

 

[Desdinova]

I want to get this girl that works at a fast food restaurant.

Then do it.

I want to get her number

Then get it.

I can’t ask while she is working at her job. Plus everyone will see me asking her for it

Who cares?

And I don’t want to get her in trouble for asking for her number.

She's the one who has to deal with it, not you. Again, who cares?

I feel like the best thing to do is write a note saying I would love to take you out and put my phone number on a piece of paper and just slide it to her.

Lame. That's how girls do it. Men take what they want and don't give a fvck about the opinions of others.

i feel like the employees will try to ****BLOCK if i ask for her number

Just deal with it if they try.

Stop putting roadblocks in your way and just fvcking ask for her number.

 

[sph21]

These words from Pook spoke to me today:

“Rejection is better than Regret”

It's implication is wider than I thought previously. It's better to be bold than to regret latter of not doing what you ought to do.

“When you find yourself hesitant, always yield to Action."

Always take the risk. Regret is far worse than rejection. If you got rejected by a girl, at least you know early on that she's not into you and you'll save time, money and energy for something else that is more important.

How did I realize this? Today, a girl I'd been dating for a few months rejected me because I showed her my weakness as a man which is not being man enough for her. I was hesitant to take action a few days ago, and she saw it. That was a big attraction killer.

Be bold. It's just a number. Ask her. By putting too much pressure over it, you've already put her on a pedestal.

I agree that doing the asking through note is so lame. You're a man and she is a girl. You're not trying to do business with her. So forget about trying to do it "professionally". If she likes you enough, then she'll give you her number and accept your invitation for a date. It's not that complicated.

 

[MrWood]

a girl I'd been dating for a few months rejected me because I showed her my weakness as a man which is not being man enough for her. I was hesitant to take action a few days ago, and she saw it. That was a big attraction killer.

this...

I balked abit when I took my last LTR (#3 if you seen the pics) to get marriage info/papers (we are both immigrants) and walked out empty handed.
(discussing of couse logic to her about the right way to go about it blabla) that was 1.5yr into relationship... she dumped me 4mo later.
She was my oneites that brought me to SS... she was my ghost... i dont believe in ghosts.

 

[The Duke]

I'd make a few visits, flirt a little, then put my number on a napkin and hand it to her.

Or if you don't like that then ask her if that was her car you about ran into? Find out which car she drives. Leave a note on it.

 

[Alvafe]

Then do it.



Then get it.



Who cares?



She's the one who has to deal with it, not you. Again, who cares?



Lame. That's how girls do it. Men take what they want and don't give a fvck about the opinions of others.



Just deal with it if they try.

Stop putting roadblocks in your way and just fvcking ask for her number.

topic end nothing else to discuss

 

[da best]

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[Spaz]

A young man at 22 is fearless, adventurous, highly s€xual, couldn't care less attitude, brave....

A man at 22 can afford to do the above.

So what's your reason of being a pvssy? It better be good or you'll be receiving tough love from us.