Is it too early to marry at the age of 25?

[El Payaso]

You're talking about women here.

Statistically proven that after 35, WOMEN'S chances of having a healthy child are decreased yearly.

Therefore I believe that early 30s are perfect for a guy to get married. But for a woman, I'd say mid to late 20s tbh.

No, I'm concentrating on men right now. For women, it's even worse waiting till 30s to have a child. Between 30 and 35, the chances of a man's sperm being as fit and normal as they were drops. 20s is the best age for both men and women.

 

[CBear]

No, I'm concentrating on men right now. For women, it's even worse waiting till 30s to have a child. Between 30 and 35, the chances of a man's sperm being as fit and normal as they were drops. 20s is the best age for both men and women.

"The production of sperm begins to decrease around 40 years, although it continues into the 80s and 90s. Testosterone production declines after age 30 but very gradually, so resulting physical changes are not evident until later in life"(Jarvis)

idk if you have a background in healthcare but this is my career and what I study 24/7. Men don't have to worry about this kind of stuff like women do, that is why I believe men can wait to marry until their 30s. Women obviously not.

 

[AJ84]

"The production of sperm begins to decrease around 40 years, although it continues into the 80s and 90s. Testosterone production declines after age 30 but very gradually, so resulting physical changes are not evident until later in life"(Jarvis)

idk if you have a background in healthcare but this is my career and what I study 24/7. Men don't have to worry about this kind of stuff like women do, that is why I believe men can wait to marry until their 30s. Women obviously not.

Woman definitely have less fertility years than men.

But it's not the low spern count that's the only concern for older men, it's also the sperm quality, which does decrease with age after around 40. There are ways to increase sperm count but not sperm quality.

Miscarriages are not always the result of a woman's egg or something in her uterus. Poor sperm quality can also cause miscarriages.

Many women wait longer to have kids, and they usually pair up with men older than them so theres a double whammy of her old eggs and his poor sperm.

Late teens early 20s for women and late teens to early 30s for men is ideal biologically. But for very young men and women it's not ideal economically or even socially. Most girls in their prime fertile years are not interested in starting families, and neither are most men in their age group.

So we see people putting this off and then struggling to get have a child.

 

[Ryan]

I joined a foreign dating event last January, which I considered to be very satisfying. At first, I was really focused on getting married whenever I found that special girl. But that thinking never lasts, is it worth it to get married this early? Given that I’m still 25? We all need that one special someone to be with us for the rest of our lives, but if age does really matter in tying the knot, when should be the right time? Please help!

Its not age that matters, its the person. 1) Do you have the financial wherewithal to support a family? 2) I would say that you do not know a person until you have lived with them ----> live with this woman for at least a year before you decide to marry them --->> Are you guys compatible? Same values? What is her family like? (because you are marrying the family too remember) Scrutinize her flaws --->> see if these flaws of hers will become a problem in the future.

I've seen high school sweethearts who got married, end up in bitter divorce, b/c they dont know each other.

Make the decision with a rational, logical clear head, not fluffly emotions or pressure from family.

lol ask the people on this forum who are divorced (or have multiple divorces) for advice.

#givingbacktotheforum

 

[zekko]

Most people in the west are now waiting until around age 30 (or close to it) to get married. I wonder if there is going to be an increase in babies born with birth defects because of this?

Although I wouldn't recommend marriage for men today, I kind of think it's better for a couple to get the children out of the way young, before they know what hit them, you might say. The earlier the kids are born, the earlier they're out of the house. And younger people have more energy for the task of raising children, which must be exhausting.

 

[Von]

Most people in the west are now waiting until around age 30 (or close to it) to get married. I wonder if there is going to be an increase in babies born with birth defects because of this?

Although I wouldn't recommend marriage for men today, I kind of think it's better for a couple to get the children out of the way young, before they know what hit them, you might say. The earlier the kids are born, the earlier they're out of the house. And younger people have more energy for the task of raising children, which must be exhausting.

Babies with birth defect are on a rise. Some "infant disease" that were 1 in 5 millions are now 1 in 1 millions...ex: babies born without intestine.

Babies with autism and trisomina are on the rise too. It was found that césarienne (the Doctor during to make the birth fast/clean) has négative effects on the babies (since they dont absorb bacterias like they would have through natural birth... They more likely to have health issues, autism)

Breast Cancer for young women who are pregnant is also on the rise... Due to disbalance in hormones, implified by oral birth control