Condoms and erections

Paradiddle

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Hey guys,

I wanted to know if it's normal to lose erection after putting on a condom? I'm banging a chick in a week but I know I will lose my erection when I put on a condom. I bought a couple of condoms and tried putting them on as a test after watching porn and the erection was intact but when I put it on before doing it with a chick, I lose erection. I know this from the past experiences with my girlfriends. One of them was really scared of pregnancy and wanted me to put the rubber on but I could not maintain the erection as soon as I put it on. Sometimes, I feel it's psychological but I need some advice.

Thanks.
 

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  1. Putting on a condom increases the odds of losing an erection for me too.
  2. If I use a condom, I don't feel anything anyway. Might as well not have sex.
 

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If it's a new girl I never banged before it's not much of an issue. But after a couple times with her I can longer maintain an erection with a condom. Or I will lose it while putting it on, then I'm left with a limp noodle and the girl asking me whats wrong. Sometimes you lose an erection cause your mind is playing tricks on you.

Porn is messing up your head. Lay off it till after you hook up with said girl. It's also normal to lose sensitivity down there as you get older. Being the age I am I feel almost nothing down there when wearing a condom.
 

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Erections are lost because a condom is not a normal biological physical mating procedure. i.e., it’s not what your body says is normal. It’s all psychological.
 
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Erections are lost because a condom is not a normal biological physical mating procedure. i.e., it’s not what your body says is normal. It’s all psychological.
So how do I deal with it?
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So how do I deal with it?
Not the safest route when it comes to stds and pregnancy prevention, but what if you fvck the girl until you've worked yourself up and then put it on?
 

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Lmfao did you really just ask that?

I don’t mean to be a dlck but are you a virgin?
It's a simple tactic to fvck a girl for a while and then to stop and put a condom on before you cvm. I did it with my wife a bunch to avoid a second pregnancy.
 

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Lmfao did you really just ask that?

I don’t mean to be a dlck but are you a virgin?
Actually, that works. If I go in and out for a while and put the rubber on, I don't lose my erection but that's risky when STD's are concerned. I should start meditating. Lol.
 
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