What is it with these BPD posts?
Really? Because either there is an unusually large number of BPD women running around, or a certain kind of man is attracted to the sense of importance, pedestal placing and sexual intensity that BPD women give them. Think about it - these women know how to play on the ego, making you feel like a big man, like you are everything to her and she can't live without you. Like she is blessed to have you. Of course that feels good right? Someone who treats you like you are the only man in the world. Until she does the complete oppposite the second you do one little thing that makes her feel abandoned, because people with BPD think in black and white there's no in between.
for those of you here who seem to 'attract' these kinds of women, ask yourself: Do I attract them? Or am I attracted to them, because of how important they make me feel?
So guys who want revenge on their ex BPD girlfriends: Instead of looking for revenge because she turned on you, take some responsibility for your part in keeping her around longer than you should have, perhaps to feed your own ego, and stop blaming everything on her.
Just move the f**k on like an adult and screen better next time.
