Urbanyst has a Point?

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So I’m just now catching up on these Urbanyst threads. Hilarious. Blue Pill shyt. But I’m not gonna lie, he kinda has a point. LMS are definitely important. On the other hand, so is game. I don’t see why so many people think these two have to be mutually exclusive? Why can’t we have both?
 

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because that's not real life.

is it better to be rich but work 70 hour weeks so you have no time to do anything with your money or to be broke but have plenty of free time to enjoy life? obviously it's better to be both rich and have the freedom to fly to paris for lunch on a wednesday, but in real life you're definitely not gonna live some perfect dream life where both is an option.

likewise, chances are you're not in a position to have high LMS and high game unless you already have one, you need to dedicate a lot of time and attention to both, so you'll need to figure out which is more worth your investment for you in your situation right now
 

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So I’m just now catching up on these Urbanyst threads. Hilarious. Blue Pill shyt. But I’m not gonna lie, he kinda has a point. LMS are definitely important. On the other hand, so is game. I don’t see why so many people think these two have to be mutually exclusive? Why can’t we have both?
Most agree you need both.
 

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I fished my plates on abs. Will game help you if you are obese?
I know of some men who is plain ugly, out of shape but games so well that they are banging uni students on a consistent basis.
 

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Because if you focus on anything else other than LMS, then you’re a blue pill faggot who is full of horse****. That’s why. You can learn SOOO much from reading some of his threads, especially the earlier ones too. But not because of him. Just because people have explained step-by-step reasoning as to why LMS isn’t everything, and why other factors are more important. You can learn some real wisdom from those who argued with him, just not from him by himself.
 

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I know a lot of ugly guys who do well too. They don't have the egos of handsome guys and can take rejection all night until they finally catch a bit fish. I don't know too many good looking guys who can play the numbers game, but if you do, you have the best of both worlds. You have high value and very little ego to get in the way of your own successex.
 

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I don't go to the gym, I do have free weights at home and do pushups, but I'm not a gym guy, my body could be much better.

I've never let that get in the way of approaching and gaming women. Don't get me wrong it would help, but it's never one thing that will attract a women, it's the full package. Including personality and presence, confidence and charm.
 

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I know, but I see this LMS stuff everywhere lol. Wanted to have another discussion about it
It's ur right to bring the discussion further.

Pretty harmless topic.

It's just the very mention of the name @Urbanyst brings out some form of emotional response from other users here.
 

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I have seen mack daddies with no LMS too speak of swim in pvssy....urbanyst is just a blow hard...I doubt he gets laid much.
 

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I have an answer... You need both!

LMS + Game = DJ

Now you need to frame it well to have a balance life (have it all like they say)

So the math (LMS+Game) Squared = Balanced DJ Life (have it all).

Remember, when you die.. You'll be able to catchup sleep
 

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Ugly guys can pull stunners with social circle game. I’ve seen this happen all the time.

Watch some RSD Luke videos on YouTube. He stresses having a big social circle.
 

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I have an answer... You need both!

LMS + Game = DJ

Now you need to frame it well to have a balance life (have it all like they say)

So the math (LMS+Game) Squared = Balanced DJ Life (have it all).

Remember, when you die.. You'll be able to catchup sleep
All of those things won't hurt BUT looks and money are not required for DJ status IMO..Game and frame are all that is needed along with an award winning personality :) patience is also a must have.
 

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Urbanyst doesn't have a point. Everyone agrees LMS is important. Urbanyst claims it's all that matters and that game is a myth. He is wrong. I know from personal experience over a decade of testing all this stuff that game is the most important part of the equation, especially if you want a long term relationship. You mostly hear of beta guys or AFC's in the context of dating a girl and that's because LMS can only get you in the door. Even a guy would get bored of ****ing the hottest woman on earth if she was boring. A guy with no game is just that, boring. Even if their looks, money and status can capture some initial interest, it will never last without the fundamentals of being a man.

Conversely, it may be harder to get attractive women without LMS and impossible to get shallow women who are looking for their equal, but it's not impossible. All of us have seen dudes pull women waaaay out of their league physically and that's because they are creating strong emotional attraction with game.

I get what Urbanyst is saying when he points out PUA tricks are bull****. If you're a wimpy beta who goes to try and neg a super model, yeah, that's not gonna work. Game has to be internalized and congruent with who you are. You have to live and breath confidence and self-assured behavior. You have to be a man. But if I had to choose one thing to take with me into the future of my dating life it would be knowledge of game without any hesitation. I'd rather be an ugly and broke loser with game than a rich and famous wimp.
 

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So I’m just now catching up on these Urbanyst threads. Hilarious. Blue Pill shyt. But I’m not gonna lie, he kinda has a point. LMS are definitely important. On the other hand, so is game. I don’t see why so many people think these two have to be mutually exclusive? Why can’t we have both?
Nobody said he doesnt have a point. Most of us say he has a one track mind that LMS is the cure all for every man's problem with women and that is undoubtedly false
 
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