Hello guys, this girl once ****blocked me, she was staring me all the night than one day she saw me in the library and we chat about 30 min for nothing, these are happened about 2 months ago. Than I decided to take my chances so I started to hanging out with her, we were pretty close. She invited me for dinner, I invited her for breakfast but nothing sexual happened, than I asked her out. However, she found an excuse and about 1 week she was so cold towards me ????? After that I stopped being close her, just hi to hi. Now its been about 1 month that I asked her out,but what I realized is if I talk her properly (face to face), she also talks with me like nothing happened, the cold girl becomes a warm girl???? I don't get what is she trying to do? Do you think is it a good idea to ask her out second time?
Asking her out second time?
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wifehunter
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You backed off, good job.
Let her qualify herself. Warmness isn't a qualification.
Let her qualify herself. Warmness isn't a qualification.
I don't think she need me. I don't really like to use terminology, but she is so beautiful, I can clearly say that she is HB9-10. Boys are orbiting around her. She was qualifying herself when we were close but now I don't see any reason her to qualify herself to me. She has lots of ego boosters...
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Step back, and see what happens. Keep busy.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I am not sure about that. She was always sitting next to me or talking with me when we were in a group. I can clearly say that she was behaving different towards me than others. She was always like " do you have plans for the weekend, what are you going to do bla bla bla..." Unfortunately, I am so busy that I did not propose anything when she asked those questions. Then one day I asked her out and it was a bit awkward...
why didnt anything sexual happen? It should have, or at least you should have pushed for it.
Also, an invite for breakfast...? You need something more conducive to sex to happen, and that is mostly during the evening.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
The only way i'd go out with a girl after getting rejected the first time, is if she begs and tells me she finally sees the light. Guess what; that never happens.
She's probably just lonelly. When they're into you, they don't miss the opportunity to be with you.
She's probably just lonelly. When they're into you, they don't miss the opportunity to be with you.
marmel75
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Trust me bro. She isnt interested in you like that. Justify it anyway you want to but you should be working on dating more women rather than wondering about this one.
Ironically your best chance to ever have something happen with this one is when she starts seeing you with other women.
The Diver
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Man , She invited you for a dinner in her place, she was interested in you then, she maybe even waited for you to sexsualey escalate somehow, but you didn't , you proved to her you don't have balls, you put yourself in a friendzone, and now she's lost interest.
From my own experience in the last two months, with two different women who invited me over to their place , their comment for me sexsualey escalated very quickly was:
"I love the way you're so confidant with your sexsualety!
From the The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon:
X. Ignore her beauty
The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his desire.
XI. Be irrationally self-confident
Self-confidence, warranted or not, triggers submissive emotional responses in women. Irrational self-confidence will get you more pu*ssy than rational defeatism.
XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little
Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. Don’t let a woman’s faux indignation at your boldness sway you; they secretly love it when a man aggressively pursues what he wants and makes his sexual intentions known. You don’t have to be an ass*hole, but if you have no choice, being an inconsiderate ass*hole beats being a polite beta, every time.
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Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
MrWood
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her pvssy dried up son.. because you did not let your sexual intentions known
@The Diver Diver +1 is exactly whats up
Yes be bold and take your chances to sexually escalate ASAP or it becomes awkward to pull off down the line.
First date yesterday, met her at the train station after I’d finished work and had a few drink, the walk to the bar I told her she smelled gorgeous and smelled her hair and smelled deep into her neck. Touched her back, guided her around. She reminded me this morning I had my hands down her bra playing with her nipples on the dance floor. I kind of cringed, apologised but asked her if she like it and she said yes. I apparently bit her shoulders too (she had them out).
Women love being escalated on, do it with confidence and you will get away with so much. I was thinking today I went a bit too far as I’d had a bit to drink, but she called me this morning telling me she’s horny. Fvck #metoo go for gold.
First date yesterday, met her at the train station after I’d finished work and had a few drink, the walk to the bar I told her she smelled gorgeous and smelled her hair and smelled deep into her neck. Touched her back, guided her around. She reminded me this morning I had my hands down her bra playing with her nipples on the dance floor. I kind of cringed, apologised but asked her if she like it and she said yes. I apparently bit her shoulders too (she had them out).
Women love being escalated on, do it with confidence and you will get away with so much. I was thinking today I went a bit too far as I’d had a bit to drink, but she called me this morning telling me she’s horny. Fvck #metoo go for gold.
Yes, my bad. I did not want to be creepy from the start and I am in a social circle, university, we have dozens of mutual friends. Any suggestions about how to show my sexual intentions without being creepy-obvious? You'll say I don't have balls, but the girl is in my social circle...
MrWood
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imho: your only chance to recover is to start with light flirting during these "normal" interactions.
flirting = talk as you always do, but interject a comment or observation, get her to laugh, kino by reaching to the back of her upper arm, and speak more softly but direct... "oh yea blah blah" as you walk away.
If you just straight ask her out again without getting some frame, rapport and HER INTEREST, you will get shot down and labeled a creep.
flirting = talk as you always do, but interject a comment or observation, get her to laugh, kino by reaching to the back of her upper arm, and speak more softly but direct... "oh yea blah blah" as you walk away.
If you just straight ask her out again without getting some frame, rapport and HER INTEREST, you will get shot down and labeled a creep.
The Diver
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This is when you should have started to "Be bold and take your chances to sexually escalate, and kino her, as @Murkserious said ,or "it becomes awkward to pull it off down the line",(and feel creepy) and that probably that what have happened to you in the dinner.
If you already had strong kino with her when you started to hanging out with herbefore the dinner, it'll just feel neutral to coninuing sexsualey escalate at her place, like caress her body, her lower back and arms, lifting her shirts from behind and feel her skin,kiss her back and neck, KISS HER,,, ( Alternate between firm and gently touch), and by reading her reaction (She reciprocate your kisses and not avoiding or pushing you away ) ,you'll know if you can escalate higher and higher as the evening progress,,,
On a side note: women are much much more sexsual being than we , the men, think they are, they enjoy, want and desire sex more than we are.They appreciate and desire a man who know what he want , go for it boldly, confidently and without fear or shame.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
This is all it takes to get a girl, qualify a girl and judge her interest.
Her slvt shame is offest only by your confidence and lack of fear... she needs to FEEL this, to free herself
going about that is not the same with all DJ's or women, but this is a large piece of the inner workings of actual attraction of WOMEN to MEN
I am going to try.
