Dating app matches since I uploaded new pics...

[CMNILS87]

I think your pics needs some rework. Your pictures look professional, but I still see middle class guy, makes decent money, boring... post some pics of your hobbies, you out partying, show them your life vs pro photos. I mean I met a girl on bumble yesterday saying she’s looking to serious date, little push pull and I have a 24 year old sending me pics of her DD breasts....

 

[CMNILS87]

Problems with that in this instance:

1. The girl was too ugly and fat for me to want to meet.

2. My d1ck is in bandages from plastic surgery.

3. My dates are usually very boring. Am I gonna aggressively ask someone out just to sit across from them and bore them to tears struggling to make even the smallest of small talk?

Unfortunately, I think most (99.9%) of girls would require a date before they'd want to have sex with you. You consider the date to be my "audition," which I believe I would routinely fail due to being quiet and boring. I don't know how to make it exciting. It's really not that fun to me. Not necessarily something I even enjoy.

Rich let me ask you a question. If you’re at home and a classic rock song comes on. Do you get up and play air guitar, gyrate your hips, and act goofy as ****? Now take that mentality and on a date she’s not even there, just be funny to yourself and amuse yourself. Women want that goofy, confident, slightly *******ish guy.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I think your pics needs some rework. Your pictures look professional, but I still see middle class guy, makes decent money, boring... post some pics of your hobbies, you out partying, show them your life vs pro photos. I mean I met a girl on bumble yesterday saying she’s looking to serious date, little push pull and I have a 24 year old sending me pics of her DD breasts....

I don't party.

My hobbies include work and hookers.

I don't have time for such things and I don't even know what hobbies would even be fun. If I wasted a day on a "hobby," I would feel like I wasted a day that I could have been working. It even pisses me off that people will only work for me 5 days/week instead of 7 days/week. I work 7 days/week, but I also go out and get drunk sometimes.

I basically have no friends, and I don't really care to change that. That's not to say that I'm not friendly sometimes, but I just don't have people that I hang out with. I did all that in the past. To me, it's everyone for themselves and I'm in survival mode 24/7.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Rich let me ask you a question. If you’re at home and a classic rock song comes on. Do you get up and play air guitar, gyrate your hips, and act goofy as ****?

No, I don't do that, and I don't want to start. I take life seriously.

I used to play guitar when I was younger, but I broke my neck and paralyzed my left hand partially in a car accident.

I don't have time for games. And that's another thing that posses me off about females is that they think everything is a fvcking game.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I think your pics needs some rework. Your pictures look professional, but I still see middle class guy, makes decent money, boring... post some pics of your hobbies, you out partying, show them your life vs pro photos. I mean I met a girl on bumble yesterday saying she’s looking to serious date, little push pull and I have a 24 year old sending me pics of her DD breasts....

What is "push pull" exactly?

 

[CMNILS87]

No, I don't do that, and I don't want to start. I take life seriously.

I used to play guitar when I was younger, but I broke my neck and paralyzed my left hand partially in a car accident.

I don't have time for games. And that's another thing that posses me off about females is that they think everything is a fvcking game.

Because life isn’t about being serious 24/7/365.

 

[corrector]

What is "push pull" exactly?

Interest and Disinterest towards a woman rather than interest until you lose her because you are boring and predictable. It's a common thing in the book "The Game" back 10 years ago.

 

[Roober]

And now I'm back to getting nothing.

What are you gonna tell me? Spend the next 12 months in the gym?

See that picture of me smiling in a suit. That's not me at all.

I don't like smiling and I don't like wearing suits. I would rather stick a knife in somebodies throat. But that's my highest rated pic.

Your head is in the wrong place. If the quoted is your inner thoughts, then you have to find a way to fix that.

A couple ideas...
1. You don't have to work 7 days a week, 12 hours a day to make good money.
2. Try to enjoy your interactions with people. Don't try, just do it! You sound terribly lonely, and you use your work to disguise that.
3. If you rub people here wrong, and women are masters at reading body language, how do you think they feel?
4. Go meet people in real life, not just OLD. You have money. Sit at a restaurant bar every night and strike up a conversation with a stranger, man or woman. Let them talk 80%.
5. If you don't like interactions with people, what is the point of all of this? What do you hope to gain? Your business will be far more successful if you maintain great relationships.

 

[corrector]

I don't party.

My hobbies include work and hookers.

But you can't really talk about hookers with any serious women you want to meet.

I don't have time for such things and I don't even know what hobbies would even be fun. If I wasted a day on a "hobby," I would feel like I wasted a day that I could have been working. It even pisses me off that people will only work for me 5 days/week instead of 7 days/week. I work 7 days/week, but I also go out and get drunk sometimes.

That is a good mind-set to have. So, you must meet different lady Realtors or women with money who are interested in investing in homes?

I basically have no friends, and I don't really care to change that. That's not to say that I'm not friendly sometimes, but I just don't have people that I hang out with. I did all that in the past. To me, it's everyone for themselves and I'm in survival mode 24/7.

That's right, there are no such thing as real friends. Everyone wants to take from you, and if you don't have then they are gone. It's either a mutually beneficial business or someone gets the short end of the stick. Even people giving you advice here is probably to stroke their ego and make them feel good about themselves while you make a spectacle of yourself. At the end of the day, everyone is self-interested in one way or the other.

Why aren't you just happy seeing hookers then? Why not just resign to the fate that you won't get the type of hot women you want unless you are paying for it rather than go through all that bother, otherwise you have to settle for some 40 year old woman that's showing interest, or someone less than what you want after all that investment?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

But you can't really talk about hookers with any serious women you want to meet.



That is a good mind-set to have. So, you must meet different lady Realtors or women with money who are interested in investing in homes?



That's right, there are no such thing as real friends. Everyone wants to take from you, and if you don't have then they are gone. It's either a mutually beneficial business or someone gets the short end of the stick. Even people giving you advice here is probably to stroke their ego and make them feel good about themselves while you make a spectacle of yourself. At the end of the day, everyone is self-interested in one way or the other.

Why aren't you just happy seeing hookers then? Why not just resign to the fate that you won't get the type of hot women you want unless you are paying for it rather than go through all that bother, otherwise you have to settle for some 40 year old woman that's showing interest, or someone less than what you want after all that investment?

When I see the boyfriends of hot girls, most of the time they are not impressive at all. I can remember a Hooters girl recently talking about how she broke up with her boyfriend because he had no job, yet he had aspirations of being an uber driver.

Making tons of money flipping houses (which WILL happen for me), gives me a higher value than any Hooters girl, stripper, etc. no matter how hot she is.

There is a gray area between paying for sex and attracting girls based on financial/business success.

My personality isn't really that bad when I actually talk to them, unless they did something to rub me the wrong way initially. I am now having fun "interviewing" girls over Skype that I meet on MissTravel.com for trips to Dubai, Brazil, etc. We talk for 30-60 minutes on Skype and we can talk about anything, but I still have the problem of...

Not knowing how/when to bring up sex without bringing it up too soon and scaring them away. I mean obviously if they're going to fly across the world with me, 99.999% chance they would fvck me, but I still need to know how to bring it up in conservation and get them all hot and horny.

 

[guru1000]

Show me one man here who despite his herculean efforts could not get one girl for free, and I'll show you a bitter man.

Richard, I blame you not. I believe you do have social skills. You are just dealing with much rejection and no success, which spawns your attitude about women.

Once you start to succeed in getting dates with women, your attitude will improve and you will be in a higher state of mind. Focus on the physicality objectives ... for now.

How is your workout and diet regimen coming along?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Show me one man here who despite his herculean efforts could not get one girl for free, and I'll show you a bitter man.

Richard, I blame you not. I believe you do have social skills. You are just dealing with much rejection and no success, which spawns your attitude about women.

Once you start to succeed in getting dates with women, your attitude will improve and you will be in a higher state of mind. Focus on the physicality objectives ... for now.

How is your workout and diet regimen coming along?

Well I've actually had lots of girls attracted to me over the years. Too many to even count when I used to do acid before I was arrested. But even also since I've been out.

I got back on the diet, but have to alter it slightly for my plastic surgery aftercare. They have me drinking 4 cups of cranberry juice and eating 2 cups of mixed nuts per day.

Also I decided to wait to start working out until the bandages are off. I would be limited in what I'm allowed to do, anyway.

I think I come across as desperate at times, when all I want is sex, anyway. And I very likely would get bored of them in a short time, anyway.

 

[CMNILS87]

Well I've actually had lots of girls attracted to me over the years. Too many to even count when I used to do acid before I was arrested. But even also since I've been out.

I got back on the diet, but have to alter it slightly for my plastic surgery aftercare. They have me drinking 4 cups of cranberry juice and eating 2 cups of mixed nuts per day.

Also I decided to wait to start working out until the bandages are off. I would be limited in what I'm allowed to do, anyway.

I think I come across as desperate at times, when all I want is sex, anyway. And I very likely would get bored of them in a short time, anyway.

You can’t sexualize the conversation too early. The game is up then. Besides if you push and sexualize like crazy, you get blinders on and only see the *****. You ignore the red flags because you want the lay. That’s the beta way. Gotta carve out that abundance mentality

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You can’t sexualize the conversation too early. The game is up then. Besides if you push and sexualize like crazy, you get blinders on and only see the *****. You ignore the red flags because you want the lay. That’s the beta way. Gotta carve out that abundance mentality

Problem is, I don't know when to bring it up. If I never bring it up, then nothing will ever happen.

 

[MrWood]

couldnt pay me to fvck a Hooters waitress

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

And now I'm back to getting nothing.

What are you gonna tell me? Spend the next 12 months in the gym?

See that picture of me smiling in a suit. That's not me at all.

I don't like smiling and I don't like wearing suits. I would rather stick a knife in somebodies throat. But that's my highest rated pic.

You look good in that pic mate, far more natural than the mirror selfies you've posted previously. Why do you dislike smiling and suits? Both are generally a symbol that you're carefree, successful and have your s*** together.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

couldnt pay me to fvck a Hooters waitress

Ummm. Okay?

https://www.google.com/search?q=hoo...droid-verizon&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

 

[ERB]

Ummm. Okay?

My thoughts exactly

 

[bigdave17]

No, I don't do that, and I don't want to start. I take life seriously.

I used to play guitar when I was younger, but I broke my neck and paralyzed my left hand partially in a car accident.

I don't have time for games. And that's another thing that posses me off about females is that they think everything is a fvcking game.

how the hell do people compare me to this guy?

he's a complete social retard/borderline sociopath. He has no social skills/complete inability to make friends - I make friends everywhere I go. He would be horrible on any date - I've made the vast majority of women I've been out on dates with want to be with me long term (none of them were in my league though)

Richard, how have you made it this far in life with zero development of social skills? I just don't get it dude. Can you carry on a fun conversation with anybody?