First Date At My House Tonight?

[devilkingx2]

I would've smashed to reward her for not making me take her on a date.

It's good that you stuck to your principles and have self respect, but i can't high five you for NOT getting laid my dude

 

[devilkingx2]

Thanks man.. To be fair, in her face she looks good, but the rest of the body, was bad news.

I rather jerk off, than bang a fatty, and then to be left with that awful feeling afterwards.

A man should set himself some standards.. It's amazing how many online chicks, have pics where they look slim, but turn out to be fuking elephants in the person!

The worse part of it is this... If you ask an online chick for a full pic, she gets fukin offended?

I give you an example.. Was talking to this mature hb8, looked seriously hot in her face pics, but no FULL BODY pics..

We talk for a little while, just a day or two... I suggest to her we meet up for a drink, she is VERY keen, and tells me she is free that very same week.

I tell her, how about you come over to my town and we go out here to some nice bars..

Her response goes like this..

I don't chase men, I'm a lady, you can't expect me to come over to a town I have never been to before, all on my own.. You should come to me!

I tell her ok fair enough, I can come to you.. Later that day I ask her... Can you send me a full pick of you? Only seen face pics, be good to see what you fully look like.

She responds, I don't have a full pic.. I tell her, can you take one then please.?

Her - I'm not a performing seal you know

My response...

"So let me get this right, you want me to drive over to your town, which is over an hour drive there, and the same amount of time back..

You want me to take time out of my busy week, to make this journey. You want me to fill my car with fuel to make this trip, which will cost me money.. You then will more than likely want me to be a "Gentleman" and buy you drinks on this date, which will again cost me...

And you want me to make this WHOLE effort in the HOPE that when I see you, HOPEFULLY you won't turn out to be some BIG FAT ****ing beached Whale?

Her response.. Look i'll send you a pic, if it means that much?

ME - No thanks, I'm gona give you a miss...

Blocked and deleted her. lol

You were pretty harsh here, but i can see the frustration in dealing with a girl that wants you to do everything but doesn't want to give anything. And there's like a 90% chance she was fat or something.

 

[Alvafe]

good for the op for keeping his standards, but a girl so keen to get on you kinda make you want do her what you always wanted but the others never wanted or let you

 

[soulforge]

I would've smashed to reward her for not making me take her on a date.

It's good that you stuck to your principles and have self respect, but i can't high five you for NOT getting laid my dude

I would've smashed to reward her for not making me take her on a date.

It's good that you stuck to your principles and have self respect, but i can't high five you for NOT getting laid my dude

Whats the point in a lay, when you feel disgusted with yourself immediately afterwards.. I can't imagine anything worse than banging a fattie, with all that flab hanging off her... eeeeeek!

 

[soulforge]

You were pretty harsh here, but i can see the frustration in dealing with a girl that wants you to do everything but doesn't want to give anything. And there's like a 90% chance she was fat or something.

Yes this is where gut instinct comes into play.. No full pics, pretty much guarantee's she will be a fattie.

Why make all that effort and travel a distance just to be disappointed.. NOBODY should be that desperate for a lay!

Chicks love attention.. If a girl has a reasonable good figure, trust me, she will not just have face pics on her profile.. She would be displaying that figure, for all the guys to admire!

Set yourself standards, this helps builds your character.

 

[devilkingx2]

Whats the point in a lay, when you feel disgusted with yourself immediately afterwards.. I can't imagine anything worse than banging a fattie, with all that flab hanging off her... eeeeeek!

Well i dunno how fat she was, I agree with your sentiment if she was like 250+ with 3 chins, literal rolls of fat and a gut bigger than her boobs.

But if she qualified as a bit chubby I wouldn't

 

[devilkingx2]

What i was gonna say when i had only read the OP is that it's a sure thing if she's coming to your house but if you want to be certain serve alcohol but be relatively light on the food (serve nachos not a 40 oz steak)

Unless a girl is super inexperienced (sheltered virgin tier) she knows not to set you up perfectly for sex unless she wants to have sex

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Yeah I don't get this whole popular culture thing of "A MAN MUST ADD NOTCHES TO HIS BEDPOST AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY!"

If you don't find a girl attractive, don't have sex with her! Why would you have sex with a woman you don't find hot? It's self respect and integrity to turn that down (integrity because you're not leading her on falsely).

If someone comes to me with a big pile of cocaine, I'm not going to snort it because it's going to make me "feel good", because I don't do drugs and I don't want to. Similarly, sticking my kn*b in a girl will make me "feel good", but if I don't want to have sex with that particular girl why on earth would I?

The attitude that a guy should get laid at any cost is the same attitude that has given women a superiority complex on things like online dating.

I've turned down sex with some hot girls before out of lack of confidence or not 100% trusting them, and sometimes I regret that. But I'd regret f***ing a girl I don't even like and feeling degraded afterwards even more.

 

[devilkingx2]

Yeah I don't get this whole popular culture thing of "A MAN MUST ADD NOTCHES TO HIS BEDPOST AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY!"

Sometimes i force myself to go to events i don't want to, because letting myself stay home on the couch probably isn't ever going to be preferable to going out and socializing in the long run

Same concept, generally speaking you're not gonna say "man i wish i had less sex with less women in my life"

 

[soulforge]

Sometimes i force myself to go to events i don't want to, because letting myself stay home on the couch probably isn't ever going to be preferable to going out and socializing in the long run

Same concept, generally speaking you're not gonna say "man i wish i had less sex with less women in my life"

What's better, to sleep with 12 quality attractive chicks over a period of a year, or to sleep with 24 fatties, that leave you feeling disgusted and revolted with yourself afterwards..

Quality over quantity is always the way forward.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

This mate of mine is always telling me I should date this girl, I should date that girl.

I told him recently “I don’t find those girls attractive.”

And he was like “Well, I don’t find that’s a problem. It’s not a huge deal whether I’m attracted to who I’m with, it doesn’t matter.”

Personally my response to that is...wut? Why the heck are you dating people you don’t even like physically for months and sleeping with them?

He thinks he’s some sort of Casanova who’s miles above me with women because he’s had more sex and relationships than me.

The difference is that my lesser number of exes are all slim/athletic, very pretty and fun to be around.

In the last 2 years I’ve dated:

- A gorgeous nursing assistant with long tawny hair.

- A pole-dancing literature student with a beaut face and a great sense of humour.

- An absolutely stunning shy blonde 20 year old. Unfortunately it didn’t go anywhere because she was broken up over her ex still.

Whereas in the last few years he’s dated an underweight woman with serious mental issues, an overweight girl that was having group sex without him and about 5 other chicks that messed him about and he didn’t sleep with.

His current gf is good looking and nice, but this is the exception to all the girls he normally dates.

Has he had more sex than me? Yes. Is his relationship notch count higher? Yeah.

Would I ever trade places with him? Hell no.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Hide your valuables, credit cards, ipad.

 

[soulforge]

Hide your valuables, credit cards, ipad.

Great advice, online chick comes to your house, always hide your goodies.. Don't give away too much personal info about yourself..

I always follow these rules.

 

[Solomon]

OP can you post her pic or an example of how fat she was

I know some guys on her are on that "Misc" standard

But regardless OP can't knock for holding firm, the sad part is though the next guy is gonna have to take her on some dates like a sucker and will be lucky to sniff her buttcrack on the 4th date

 

[Alvafe]

Yes this is where gut instinct comes into play.. No full pics, pretty much guarantee's she will be a fattie.

Why make all that effort and travel a distance just to be disappointed.. NOBODY should be that desperate for a lay!

Chicks love attention.. If a girl has a reasonable good figure, trust me, she will not just have face pics on her profile.. She would be displaying that figure, for all the guys to admire!

Set yourself standards, this helps builds your character.

Yes this is where gut instinct comes into play.. No full pics, pretty much guarantee's she will be a fattie.

Why make all that effort and travel a distance just to be disappointed.. NOBODY should be that desperate for a lay!

Chicks love attention.. If a girl has a reasonable good figure, trust me, she will not just have face pics on her profile.. She would be displaying that figure, for all the guys to admire!

Set yourself standards, this helps builds your character.

then I need to point out one single thing, online dating, tell me serious would a really hot girl try to sell herself over the internet so she could finally get laid? if she is hot the only act of her to get a guy come on her is she going outside, online dating is for uglies and people who want validation, if you really want quality over quantity, you will need to stop the whole online dating and try go on real life

@MoreThanSmooth

on your question you will after some time wish for having more lay counts, because the only way for you get good is doing it, myself sometimes I really wonder if I should have nailed some girls I was not interested, but here is the thing nail ,not ltr, not dating, just having a good fun and see if you can get a quick lay.

for the whole serious dating then you "casanova" friend is really ****ed because I really don't know what is worse, you never be seen with a girl on be seen with only uglies

 

[soulforge]

then I need to point out one single thing, online dating, tell me serious would a really hot girl try to sell herself over the internet so she could finally get laid? if she is hot the only act of her to get a guy come on her is she going outside, online dating is for uglies and people who want validation, if you really want quality over quantity, you will need to stop the whole online dating and try go on real life

@MoreThanSmooth

on your question you will after some time wish for having more lay counts, because the only way for you get good is doing it, myself sometimes I really wonder if I should have nailed some girls I was not interested, but here is the thing nail ,not ltr, not dating, just having a good fun and see if you can get a quick lay.

for the whole serious dating then you "casanova" friend is really ****ed because I really don't know what is worse, you never be seen with a girl on be seen with only uglies

Well let's just clarify something.. Two plates I have right now are REAL World chicks, I met and approached, and currently bang.

As for online chicks, anyone with half a brain knows, most of those chicks, are either fat or damaged.. However lucky for me, I have managed get some good looking chicks off the ONLINE world..

Do I want a relationship with them.. Nope!

That being said, whether real world chicks or online chicks.. A man should be selective about who he bangs!

If she is not attractive to you? Then why even bother, how a dude can fuk a chick he doesn't even find attractive.. is beyond me!

 

[devilkingx2]

What's better, to sleep with 12 quality attractive chicks over a period of a year, or to sleep with 24 fatties, that leave you feeling disgusted and revolted with yourself afterwards..

Quality over quantity is always the way forward.

As far as I'm concerned nobody i would rate below a 5 even exists, a street full of 3s is as empty as a ghost town to me

But if you were to ask me if i would choose 12 HB9's or 24 HB6's, I'd sleep with 36 women that year.

This mate of mine is always telling me I should date this girl, I should date that girl.

I told him recently “I don’t find those girls attractive.”

And he was like “Well, I don’t find that’s a problem. It’s not a huge deal whether I’m attracted to who I’m with, it doesn’t matter.”

Personally my response to that is...wut? Why the heck are you dating people you don’t even like physically for months and sleeping with them?

He thinks he’s some sort of Casanova who’s miles above me with women because he’s had more sex and relationships than me.

The difference is that my lesser number of exes are all slim/athletic, very pretty and fun to be around.

In the last 2 years I’ve dated:

- A gorgeous nursing assistant with long tawny hair.

- A pole-dancing literature student with a beaut face and a great sense of humour.

- An absolutely stunning shy blonde 20 year old. Unfortunately it didn’t go anywhere because she was broken up over her ex still.

Whereas in the last few years he’s dated an underweight woman with serious mental issues, an overweight girl that was having group sex without him and about 5 other chicks that messed him about and he didn’t sleep with.

His current gf is good looking and nice, but this is the exception to all the girls he normally dates.

Has he had more sex than me? Yes. Is his relationship notch count higher? Yeah.

Would I ever trade places with him? Hell no.

Yeah but on the other hand we all know people who are too picky and only screw themselves by turning down pvssy for BS reasons.

I've known guys who were like "i can't date a girl that's 2 years younger than me" (but still legal) or i can't date her she's too fat (but she's like 20 pounds overweight and it mostly went into DD boobs), my personal favorite is "i can't date a girl still in high school she's too young and just a kid" note that we graduated HS in June 2015 and he said that in september 2015 lmao.

And I'm like, if i can maintain a boner i will smash.

One time I picked a girls best friend over her because her best friend is slimmer and more attractive. I ended up regretting it because her best friend was sexually boring and the first girl was a total freak that wanted me to buy a whip