It's unbelievable how much harder it is to get women in 23-30 range than 33-40+

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I consistently get approached by decent looking women over 30...I consistently see women over 30 who smile at me and clearly want to meet me. When I approach one, my success rate is huge


Females around 24 - 28 (which is what I want - I'm 29)...holy moly. It's like almost dealing with a different subspecies of people. I never get any approaching me...never see any giving me any signs of interest and never see any scenarios where an approach is easy. When I do approach one (which is very rare), they're never into me.


What's the deal with this? It's not like I look old...I look about 30 but I still have perfect complexion. I dress very trendy
 

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I consistently get approached by decent looking women over 30...I consistently see women over 30 who smile at me and clearly want to meet me. When I approach one, my success rate is huge


Females around 24 - 28 (which is what I want - I'm 29)...holy moly. It's like almost dealing with a different subspecies of people. I never get any approaching me...never see any giving me any signs of interest and never see any scenarios where an approach is easy. When I do approach one (which is very rare), they're never into me.


What's the deal with this? It's not like I look old...I look about 30 but I still have perfect complexion. I dress very trendy
BigDave, how old are you? Your like 35 or something? The 23-30's will hang in their general age range and general groups. They will get an older guy for a few reasons:

1. they prefer older more mature men
2. they like the money
3. they know a older one will "take care" of her.
4. he's got a status job such as promoter, dj, bar tender, bouncer
5. actor or celebrity

23-30's will tend to not want to break the herd. So unless you got serious LMS or a Job that gives status it's going to be harder.
 

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Dude, get a 31-33 years old who is in excellent physical condition, a good job and a good head on her shoulders. Thank me later. Older ones even ONE year older will tend to "take care" of the younger man.
 

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BigDave, how old are you? Your like 35 or something? The 23-30's will hang in their general age range and general groups. They will get an older guy for a few reasons:

1. they prefer older more mature men
2. they like the money
3. they know a older one will "take care" of her.
4. he's got a status job such as promoter, dj, bar tender, bouncer
5. actor or celebrity

23-30's will tend to not want to break the herd. So unless you got serious LMS or a Job that gives status it's going to be harder.
I'm 29 and I make nearly 200K, I have my own house that's nearly paid for, a $70,000 car ,etc...so I'm the best of both worlds
 

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Dude, get a 31-33 years old who is in excellent physical condition, a good job and a good head on her shoulders. Thank me later. Older ones even ONE year older will tend to "take care" of the younger man.
here's my problem...women age very hard and fast around 40-50, especially white women

You date a 33 year old white woman and you're going to basically have 10 years of her still being attractive. I'm an ethnic man (I'm Armenian and look basically Spanish/italian/Greek)...men in my family look 35-40 at 55. When I'm 50, it will look like I'm dating my grandma

I would maybe consider dating a really hot black woman who is 34 but very few black women are in shape, smart, well educated, etc...
 

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here's my problem...women age very hard and fast around 40-50, especially white women

You date a 33 year old white woman and you're going to basically have 10 years of her still being attractive. I'm an ethnic man (I'm Armenian and look basically Spanish/italian/Greek)...men in my family look 35-40 at 55. When I'm 50, it will look like I'm dating my grandma

I would maybe consider dating a really hot black woman who is 34 but very few black women are in shape, smart, well educated, etc...
Someone that doesn't smoke/drink, takes great care of their self, good nutrition isn't going to age as bad, that's all "colors". But I hope you hear what I'm saying when I say even 1 year older will treat you better. The younger ones want to be taken care of.
 

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Someone that doesn't smoke/drink, takes great care of their self, good nutrition isn't going to age as bad, that's all "colors". .
bull****. White women age horribly even if they do everything perfectly

I was smashing a decent looking Yoga MILF instructor last year who was 46. She did everything perfectly - worked out, great diet, never smoked, didn't drink much, everything perfectly. She still looked like she was 46. My uncle who is 53 has much much better skin than her.


But I hope you hear what I'm saying when I say even 1 year older will treat you better. The younger ones want to be taken care of
What do you mean taken care off?

Any woman I date, I'm going to pay for everything and I'm going to take care of them. I'm in a phenomenal position financially and in life overall
 

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I'm 29 and I make nearly 200K, I have my own house that's nearly paid for, a $70,000 car ,etc...so I'm the best of both worlds
They'll still try to pigeon hole you into "provider" status because of your $$$. Have your boundary being you won't give $$$ and you will only deal with those who WANT to give you puzzy from
bull****. White women age horribly even if they do everything perfectly

I was smashing a decent looking Yoga MILF instructor last year who was 46. She did everything perfectly - worked out, great diet, never smoked, didn't drink much, everything perfectly. She still looked like she was 46. My uncle who is 53 has much much better skin than her.




What do you mean taken care off?

Any woman I date, I'm going to pay for everything and I'm going to take care of them. I'm in a phenomenal position financially and in life overall
And if you keep spending your money you won't have any left. Provider game is dead because women work and can make the same as or more than men. By taken care of I mean they will adore you, cook for you, add to your happiness. The younger ones will not. The only exception is when they prefer and love older men but don't like ones their age.
 

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And all white women don't age horribly. Jennifer Aniston and Christie Brinkly are example.
 

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If you like ethnics get a Brazilian. They have great figures and are raised to be feminine.
 

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They'll still try to pigeon hole you into "provider" status because of your $$$. Have your boundary being you won't give $$$ and you will only deal with those who WANT to give you puzzy from
I'm not looking to just smash, I'm looking for a relationship


And if you keep spending your money you won't have any left. Provider game is dead because women work and can make the same as or more than men. By taken care of I mean they will adore you, cook for you, add to your happiness. The younger ones will not. The only exception is when they prefer and love older men but don't like ones their age.
I want somebody who will take care of me and I will take care of her

I am very very generous. I want a woman who makes decent money herself and will appreciate how well I treat her and how I take care of her. I'm not gonna date a gold digger

BTW I don't think I would count as an older man looking for a younger woman. A 29 year old man wanting to date a 26 year old is basically my own age.
 

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If you like ethnics get a Brazilian. They have great figures and are raised to be feminine.
yes I love Brazilian... I love my own women too (Armenians)

it's just very difficult to date a foreigner when I live in America

And all white women don't age horribly. Jennifer Aniston and Christie Brinkly are example.
that's tons and tons and tons and tons of surgery
 

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I'm not looking to just smash, I'm looking for a relationship




I want somebody who will take care of me and I will take care of her

I am very very generous. I want a woman who makes decent money herself and will appreciate how well I treat her and how I take care of her. I'm not gonna date a gold digger

BTW I don't think I would count as an older man looking for a younger woman. A 29 year old man wanting to date a 26 year old is basically my own age.
Your right 26 is about your age. Be patient. Don't force anything or work too hard searching for it. It's probably around you already.
 

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Your right 26 is about your age. Be patient. Don't force anything or work too hard searching for it. It's probably around you already.
my problem is I hate cold approaching. I hate approaching in general but if they give me strong signs before...makes it a little easier

There are a ton of women I would love to date at my gym for example but none of them give me any signs of interest so I know, going into it, my chance of rejection is extraordinarily high.
 

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Thays funny.

I consistently get approached by decent looking women over 20....I consistently see women over 20 who smile at me and clearly want to meet me. When I approach one, my success rate is huge

Females around 34 - 38 (which is what I want - I'm 39)...holy moly. It's like almost dealing with a different subspecies of people. I never get any approaching me...never see any giving me any signs of interest and never see any scenarios where an approach is easy. When I do approach one (which is very rare), they're never into me.

What's the deal with this? It's not like I look old...I look about 40 but I still have perfect complexion. I dress very trendy.
 

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I'm 57.... I'm literally invisible to them young ones... lol
 

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Thays funny.

I consistently get approached by decent looking women over 20....I consistently see women over 20 who smile at me and clearly want to meet me. When I approach one, my success rate is huge

Females around 34 - 38 (which is what I want - I'm 39)...holy moly. It's like almost dealing with a different subspecies of people. I never get any approaching me...never see any giving me any signs of interest and never see any scenarios where an approach is easy. When I do approach one (which is very rare), they're never into me.

What's the deal with this? It's not like I look old...I look about 40 but I still have perfect complexion. I dress very trendy.
The 34-38 age range are the most jaded and bitter group. Really, around 33-39 IMO. I don't get approached by too many in real life. Also in real life most of my approaches I initiate are 23-30 range. It just happens to be that way because of circumstance/surroundings/opportunity. On the other hand, with online game I kill it with the older ones 35+. If they are on an online dating site then it means they have already done their cheating and divorcing and are realizing that their value isn't what it once was before they took that beta BF or hubby to the cleaners. I've seen it time and time and time and time (insert really big number) here.
 

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Thays funny.

I consistently get approached by decent looking women over 20....I consistently see women over 20 who smile at me and clearly want to meet me. When I approach one, my success rate is huge

Females around 34 - 38 (which is what I want - I'm 39)...holy moly. It's like almost dealing with a different subspecies of people. I never get any approaching me...never see any giving me any signs of interest and never see any scenarios where an approach is easy. When I do approach one (which is very rare), they're never into me.

What's the deal with this? It's not like I look old...I look about 40 but I still have perfect complexion. I dress very trendy.
"Trendy" as in your fashion is up to date? Your probably dressed more like the 20-29 years olds are. That shows how powerful that dressing a certain way is.
 

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"Trendy" as in your fashion is up to date? Your probably dressed more like the 20-29 years olds are. That shows how powerful your dress style is.
dude he is mocking me, that was not a serious post

I dress very sharp/trendy and I still have zero success with women my age










I don't have the heavy facial hair anymore. I know I look way older with it
 

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dude he is mocking me, that was not a serious post

I dress very sharp/trendy and I still have zero success with women my age










I don't have the heavy facial hair anymore. I know I look way older with it
You look fine. It's probably your thinking. I bet once you get to a point where you are not mad at women, but you understand them for who they are, and you don't want one or don't even care any more that you will be beating them off with a stick.
 
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