On first date, place matters a lot.
When I think of ALL my past dates they successful ones have one of these things in common:
- either woman was desperate or thought im way above her smv and it just happened regardless place
- we were alone, it was evening, dark, cold. we were in park on a walk. woman would probably agree or recommend a walk anywhere and then say there was no spark and block you.
- that park has a good place where we could sit without anyone interrupting us and barely who seeing us.
Unsucceful ones had this thing on common:
- were in public places with many people, for example coffee date (it can work but it has less win ratio than dates in dark, isolated, but beatiful places)
- since it was public, any form of escalation seemed weird to her (and maybe you). you wont rub her vagina in cafe. so dont waste time going there
if you are alone she will let you do various things to her like kiss, put hands under her clothes, she will sit on your laps, meanwhile the same chick will be mad that you have your arm over her shoulder in other, more public place. she might be affraid of seeing some friend, etc.
I literally pull SAME STUFF in the same PLACE every date now and i always close date with kiss (almost banged one in her car but she said she had period). I closed with kiss last 3 chicks in the same place.
Meetings looks like that:
1. I come from behind a girl, I loudly say her name in asking tone, its important to ask it loudly, but without screaming, so she doesnt think you are wimp.
2. We go straight, entering the park, I grab her arm by shoulder and say that we go this way. Its a KINO method BUT it doesnt look weird because you are basically telling her where to go just using an arm in case she didnt hear you.
3. I still have my arm on her, IMO this is the moment she will say some weird things or try to make jokes out of 'panic' or 'excitement' or to not appear as boring/not talking much person. THis is often what women do on date at first, they panic and start talking quick till they feel a bit more comfortable. Usually she wont say anything about your arm on her because you are isolated so she doesnt feel awkward.
4. She usually says its cold, if she doesnt, then I force her to say it, by using sarcasm,something like "oh its very hot today, why would you need that jacket for" then she will say its cold for 99%.
5. When she says it, I say that she doesnt have enough meat so she feels cold
6. Most girls will say they are fat at this point even if they are slim (chicks logic) I say "let me see" and i touch her belly a bit (more kino).
7 I say she doesnt weight too much anyway, I ask her how much, she wont say it (they never say), then I say "let me check" again when we are next to lake (looks very exotic), i grab her body and lift her, while circling QUICK and STRONG so it appears like some "amusement park activity". You know what I mean.
8. I put her down, ask if she didnt lose any of her items. At this point you are in different category than ALL of her coffee dates. she knows you are more interesting, has bigger balls, etc. You also demonstrated your physical strength, chicks love it.
9. We go to that isolated place I mentioned above. we sit, i tease her lips and nose, but dont kiss. Let her want it. After a while she will crave your tongue so her tongue will be out all the time while your still inside your moth. She will be inpatient at this point.
10. I grab her body and place her on my laps. More lips teasing, touch her body also.
11. You can kiss her now, as well as put hands under her clothes (but not vagina, you can try under her pants later but she will probably reject it to not appear as total wh0re)
12. In fact from point 9 to 11 and further she will be saying same things over and over like "am I slut to u?" "I think im too easy for you" "oh jeez what im doing?! with a younger guy.." "i behave like a teen"
I also say near point 11 that park is closed (truth) so she feels more comfortable because even less
people are there.
Since its cold, she will say it all the time and try to cuddle you more.
You should be making jokes and some fluff small talk between all points.
This place is absolutely perfect for me, I've set 4 dates on Sunday and trying to set more. I suggest you strongly to find same place.
This is how first date should look like.
TLDR: you can either be one of 10-20 guys from tinder (or somewhere else) who invited her for boring coffee date that doesnt let you escalate, or you can be her ONLY date that invited her to isolated, chill, good looking place, and escalated so much that she felt extremaly comfortable with you but also attracted to you.
At the end of date (or near end) i help her do le parkour through the fence (i catch her) because park is closed, so she has even more things/memories to think about
When I think of ALL my past dates they successful ones have one of these things in common:
- either woman was desperate or thought im way above her smv and it just happened regardless place
- we were alone, it was evening, dark, cold. we were in park on a walk. woman would probably agree or recommend a walk anywhere and then say there was no spark and block you.
- that park has a good place where we could sit without anyone interrupting us and barely who seeing us.
Unsucceful ones had this thing on common:
- were in public places with many people, for example coffee date (it can work but it has less win ratio than dates in dark, isolated, but beatiful places)
- since it was public, any form of escalation seemed weird to her (and maybe you). you wont rub her vagina in cafe. so dont waste time going there
if you are alone she will let you do various things to her like kiss, put hands under her clothes, she will sit on your laps, meanwhile the same chick will be mad that you have your arm over her shoulder in other, more public place. she might be affraid of seeing some friend, etc.
I literally pull SAME STUFF in the same PLACE every date now and i always close date with kiss (almost banged one in her car but she said she had period). I closed with kiss last 3 chicks in the same place.
Meetings looks like that:
1. I come from behind a girl, I loudly say her name in asking tone, its important to ask it loudly, but without screaming, so she doesnt think you are wimp.
2. We go straight, entering the park, I grab her arm by shoulder and say that we go this way. Its a KINO method BUT it doesnt look weird because you are basically telling her where to go just using an arm in case she didnt hear you.
3. I still have my arm on her, IMO this is the moment she will say some weird things or try to make jokes out of 'panic' or 'excitement' or to not appear as boring/not talking much person. THis is often what women do on date at first, they panic and start talking quick till they feel a bit more comfortable. Usually she wont say anything about your arm on her because you are isolated so she doesnt feel awkward.
4. She usually says its cold, if she doesnt, then I force her to say it, by using sarcasm,something like "oh its very hot today, why would you need that jacket for" then she will say its cold for 99%.
5. When she says it, I say that she doesnt have enough meat so she feels cold
6. Most girls will say they are fat at this point even if they are slim (chicks logic) I say "let me see" and i touch her belly a bit (more kino).
7 I say she doesnt weight too much anyway, I ask her how much, she wont say it (they never say), then I say "let me check" again when we are next to lake (looks very exotic), i grab her body and lift her, while circling QUICK and STRONG so it appears like some "amusement park activity". You know what I mean.
8. I put her down, ask if she didnt lose any of her items. At this point you are in different category than ALL of her coffee dates. she knows you are more interesting, has bigger balls, etc. You also demonstrated your physical strength, chicks love it.
9. We go to that isolated place I mentioned above. we sit, i tease her lips and nose, but dont kiss. Let her want it. After a while she will crave your tongue so her tongue will be out all the time while your still inside your moth. She will be inpatient at this point.
10. I grab her body and place her on my laps. More lips teasing, touch her body also.
11. You can kiss her now, as well as put hands under her clothes (but not vagina, you can try under her pants later but she will probably reject it to not appear as total wh0re)
12. In fact from point 9 to 11 and further she will be saying same things over and over like "am I slut to u?" "I think im too easy for you" "oh jeez what im doing?! with a younger guy.." "i behave like a teen"
I also say near point 11 that park is closed (truth) so she feels more comfortable because even less
people are there.
Since its cold, she will say it all the time and try to cuddle you more.
You should be making jokes and some fluff small talk between all points.
This place is absolutely perfect for me, I've set 4 dates on Sunday and trying to set more. I suggest you strongly to find same place.
This is how first date should look like.
TLDR: you can either be one of 10-20 guys from tinder (or somewhere else) who invited her for boring coffee date that doesnt let you escalate, or you can be her ONLY date that invited her to isolated, chill, good looking place, and escalated so much that she felt extremaly comfortable with you but also attracted to you.
At the end of date (or near end) i help her do le parkour through the fence (i catch her) because park is closed, so she has even more things/memories to think about
