guru1000
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I know plenty of men with significant LMS that are self-confident in their achievements but not confident with women. Why? Because they don't have a track record with women that has produced results, either because they are socially awkward or have not put themselves out there. See most Silicon Valley techs.This is what I believe too. But I wouldn't call it "game." I would cal it self confidence. When you express yourself without any state friction, you are at your most attractive. I don't know about you, but all of mu state friction disappears when I work out, have status, and make money.
Confidence in one facet <> Confidence in an alternate facet
Michael Jordan is a confident basketball player (based on his track record/success that reinforces his confidence), but put him in a room full of investment banker "talk," he would not be so confident.
Confidence in any facet is founded on a track record of success in that facet. Any other type of confidence reinforced without the track record backing is not authentic, and will be sniffed out immediately by a socially savvy individual.
You cannot captivate the emotions of a woman until you deal with them successfully, and learn to captivate their emotions. This has nothing to do with your hard work at medical school, will, or achievements.hitmanwalking said:I can't captivate the emotions of women unless I am captivated by my own sense of self worth based on my hard work, will, and achievements.