I actually got a hot match on OLD. What to do?

[RichardTheFrog]

Hell froze over. No money is involved (maybe).

Should I use @guru1000 's line of...

"I was going to right swipe you earlier, but then I thought to myself, ‘Hmm, I don’t know about this one, she looks like trouble’ "

Or does anyone else have better suggestions?

 

[BeExcellent]

Do it.

 

[djthiago1]

You got a match or got a date?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You got a match or got a date?

Match.

 

[djthiago1]

Match.

Don't take it personal, she'll probably unmatch after 10 messages.

I get matched with babes daily, know how many dates i've gotten with these hotties? Around 0.

Like some guy said on this forum once (paraphrasing) : "Girls on OLD only want uberchads"

You'll have much better luck if you lower your standards juuuust a little a bit, i'm 23 and i'm nearly giving up on hot girls haha.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Don't take it personal, she'll probably unmatch after 10 messages.

I get matched with babes daily, know how many dates i've gotten with these hotties? Around 0.

Like some guy said on this forum once (paraphrasing) : "Girls on OLD only want uberchads"

You'll have much better luck if you lower your standards juuuust a little a bit, i'm 23 and i'm nearly giving up on hot girls haha.

But I'm rich, though. Or I will be.

I already know she's just a little girl. She's only 18. I don't take her too seriously.

I can't force myself to like ugly girls.

 

[djthiago1]

But I'm rich, though. Or I will be.

I already know she's just a little girl. She's only 18. I don't take her too seriously.

I can't force myself to like ugly girls.

Not saying ugly, just telling you to avoid the models.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Not saying ugly, just telling you to avoid the models.

Why? I'm in their league and it has nothing to do with looks.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/6dktty66w0bhxtn/Screenshot_2018-03-20-17-03-39.png?dl=0

That's an 18 year old kid.

 

[djthiago1]

Why? I'm in their league and it has nothing to do with looks.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/6dktty66w0bhxtn/Screenshot_2018-03-20-17-03-39.png?dl=0

That's an 18 year old kid.

She looks like easy sex, and a little nuts too, sadly, my kinda girl.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

She looks like easy sex, and a little nuts too, sadly, my kinda girl.

So how do I get the easy sex?

She doesn't look crazy to me. I'm crazy as fvck. I've been to State Mental Hospitals, etc. Which is another reason why I'm in the league of 10s

 

[sosousage]

Hell froze over. No money is involved (maybe).

Should I use @guru1000 's line of...

"I was going to right swipe you earlier, but then I thought to myself, ‘Hmm, I don’t know about this one, she looks like trouble’ "

Or does anyone else have better suggestions?

90% of matches even if you had hot profile are:
- bots
- attention whoring teens promoting instagram or not promoting
- girls that will even message u first but wont actually agree for date

I think i get only 10% matches to date

and recently much more than before.. before tinder just made me insecure af lol now its actually ego boost for me when i stopped autoswipping


but i have bad feeling the better looking girl is the more b1tchy she is. i hate it

 

[sosousage]

Don't get excited. Stay calm. Send the message later this evening. Expect nothing. See what happens. Move on to other things in the meantime.

Turning this into a 4-page thread about what to do before you even send anything is bad thinking.

imo hot girls on there look only for 10/10 men. the attention they get must be ridiculous. i get a headache if 10 girls are texting me in the same time. imagine about such hot girls.

i wouldnt even text 10/10 girl. in fact i swipe left all 9-10/10 girls

 

[djthiago1]

So how do I get the easy sex?

She doesn't look crazy to me. I'm crazy as fvck. I've been to State Mental Hospitals, etc. Which is another reason why I'm in the league of 10s

Go out, be positive and fun, and don't be all over them? Every 10 girl i go out with, at least 8 want sex for a second "date" and i don't even kiss or touch them on the first, EVER.

Conquer the head and the body will follow.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Don't get excited. Stay calm. Send the message later this evening. Expect nothing. See what happens. Move on to other things in the meantime.

Turning this into a 4-page thread about what to do before you even send anything is bad thinking.

Yea, and the reality is that I have tons of other things to do. Like that million dollar business I'm trying to get off the ground.

But I think I still come off as needy in these situations.

What would YOU send as the first message?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Don't take it personal, she'll probably unmatch after 10 messages.

I get matched with babes daily, know how many dates i've gotten with these hotties? Around 0.

Like some guy said on this forum once (paraphrasing) : "Girls on OLD only want uberchads"

You'll have much better luck if you lower your standards juuuust a little a bit, i'm 23 and i'm nearly giving up on hot girls haha.

Uberchads...hahaha that was my terminology I believe I'd say instead of lowering standards, go for cute girls in RL rather than OLD or Tinder/Bumble, whatever.

I'm only using OLD at the moment because I'm so bloody busy it's my only option. But it knocks your "attractiveness rating" down at least 5 points with most girls IMO. If you're 8/10 in real life, girls will treat you like a 3/10. Girls online are so unrealistic and tend to be damaged or narcissists in my experience.

Whereas in RL you immediately stand out just for talking to a girl, and you're going to come across as attractive if you've worked on your physique etc. regardless of whether the light is catching you right and all the BS that has to swing your way for a photo to look as good as you do in person.

 

[Bible_Belt]

If she turns out to be a tranny, don't beat yourself up too much about it. That sort of thing is common in Florida, and it could happen to anyone.

 

[Mazer]

Possibly a Bot brah.

 

[The Duke]

I'm crazy as fvck. I've been to State Mental Hospitals, etc. Which is another reason why I'm in the league of 10s

This should be on your dating profile. I once had one along these same lines. It was totally sarcastic and funny, but that didn't matter. It attracted a lot of women because they saw it as humorous and I think many could relate.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Instead of starting a new thread, I'll post about a different match I got.

I typed guru's opener... She responded with...

"Hey there. I'm Jo"

What would you say next?

I know this seems obvious, but I'm trying to break this down to the basics. This is Tinder. I'm used to SA where it's okay to be more forward. There's nothing in guru's texts that makes sense to say in this situation.