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from this point on what should I do?

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ok finally to this girl out on a 1 on 1 date. went amazing. great chemistry. got drinks and went back to her place. didn't smash but we got pretty busy in other ways lol. we've known each other for about 2 months hung out casually always in a group setting. this chick is ltr material. what should I from this point on. I want to escalate this relationship.
 

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ok well let's say this one is
 
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Just be cool and don't push for anything, even if you want to be in a relationship with her, it doesn't matter. Always let women bring up the exclusive/relationship topic. A high status man has options and she's the one that should be trying to lock you down. You only went on 1 date, so just relax and get her out on a second date, then a third and a fourth... Women run from dudes that fall for them too quickly. She'll think your desperate with no options. If you don't have options just fake it until you make it and ACT like you do. Good luck
 

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Women run from dudes that fall for them too quickly. She'll think your desperate with no options. If you don't have options just fake it until you make it and ACT like you do. Good luck
This.
Not only do not SAY anything about exclusivity. Don’t ACT soft around her. I was way too cuddly and passionate with a girl I banged and she cut me off immediately.
 

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ok finally to this girl out on a 1 on 1 date. went amazing. great chemistry. got drinks and went back to her place. didn't smash but we got pretty busy in other ways lol. we've known each other for about 2 months hung out casually always in a group setting. this chick is ltr material. what should I from this point on. I want to escalate this relationship.
she's LTR material after 1 date and no sex? what the...?
 

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This.
Not only do not SAY anything about exclusivity. Don’t ACT soft around her. I was way too cuddly and passionate with a girl I banged and she cut me off immediately.
I’m guessing she just wanted a **** buddy. Started getting all cuddly and it wasn’t congruent with the player game you ran on her before
 

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Your goal should be to set up 2 more dates with other women this week.
 

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I’m guessing she just wanted a **** buddy. Started getting all cuddly and it wasn’t congruent with the player game you ran on her before
she's the cuddly one not me. she's not giving it up easy. we've messed around no still have not smashed. she invited me over last night to watch a movie with her.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just be cool and don't push for anything, even if you want to be in a relationship with her, it doesn't matter. Always let women bring up the exclusive/relationship topic. A high status man has options and she's the one that should be trying to lock you down. You only went on 1 date, so just relax and get her out on a second date, then a third and a fourth... Women run from dudes that fall for them too quickly. She'll think your desperate with no options. If you don't have options just fake it until you make it and ACT like you do. Good luck
i do have one other plate I'm working on
 

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ok well let's say this one is
(Sigh...) Okay, the only way she is going to want you is if you are in demand. So you are going to have to date other chicks. If she thinks you want a relationship.... you are finished.

But really I think you already blew it. When a chick invites you into her place she wants you to fvck her... and you didn't make that happen... she might already be having doubts about your masculine core. If you pushed for sex, and she pushed back and asked you to leave... well okay, you might still have a chance. But Jesus... if that is the case she's going to make things hard...

Just be aware of the fact that the harder you 'try' the weaker you appear.
 

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I pushed trust me but she wasn't havin it. she is already setting up later dates for us
 

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Don't even think about an ltr till 4 months after you've had sex.
 

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ok finally to this girl out on a 1 on 1 date. went amazing. great chemistry. got drinks and went back to her place. didn't smash but we got pretty busy in other ways lol. we've known each other for about 2 months hung out casually always in a group setting. this chick is ltr material. what should I from this point on. I want to escalate this relationship.
Is this the same chick that never wants to have sex with you but only wants to cuddle?
 

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well after our first 1 on 1 date we did everything but fvck I'm thinking after 2nd or 3rd it's a done deal. if not I'm gonna have to next.
 

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well after our first 1 on 1 date we did everything but fvck I'm thinking after 2nd or 3rd it's a done deal. if not I'm gonna have to next.
Next them If they don’t **** on the 3rd date lol. Whatever man your loss. Thank god I’m not a woman cause none of you players would get any of my ***** for 2 months. Make you give up thst exclusivity for *****
 

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should I not next after 3 dates if we don't fvck I thought was the general consensus? we get along amazing. I think she is worth the wait.
 

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get this notion of ltrs out of your soul and you'll be a much happier guy for the rest of your life.

you want to take a cute desirable girl off the market, away from other men, shack up with her and go to sleep. while crying and btxhing when she talks to other guys..

not cool
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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