Help me save my friends marriage.

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A friend of mine, a female of over twenty years has her personal trainer liking old photos of her on instagram, going back two years and messaging her about video stories she posts of her and the kid. She was telling me that its weird.

I said ahemmm, (didnt surprise me) now that I am aware of the red pill. I wanted to see where she was going to go with the story. I told her as a "friend" that he wants to give you the D, like this bish doesnt already know that, why they play stupid is beyond me. She said oh she knows, they already had that "talk" whatever that ****in means. I didnt ask her to elaborate.

I told her its easy dont flirt, don't respond to his messages, keep the training sessions professional. If a 500 pound woman was contacting me I would do everything in my power to not give her the impression that she has a chance with me.

This is my good friend I hate to see her destroy her marriage with a new child. I am also good friends with her husband. I would probably tell him that his ***** cheated on him but what are my options from getting her not to cheat (guidance) on her husband.
 

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If she wants to do it she will do it. You have no real idea how things are actually going in their marriage. You may think you know but you don't really know.

Besides she probably already knows her husband would take her back
 

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after reading sex at dawn and began sperm wars, what she's doing is completely okay

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The ONLY people who can "save" a marriage are the two people involved in it.

I don't care what you say,how well you say it,or what good intentions you have.....if this woman's heart isn't with her husband,nothing you say or do will matter. In fact,you'll RUIN your friendship with her (or them both) before you help their marriage out.

You can't FORCE someone to be faithful to their spouse.

I told her its easy dont flirt, don't respond to his messages, keep the training sessions professional.
Ok,question......

Do you think she doesn't already know this? You think you revealed some GRAND REVELATION,some new wisdom,introduced some new thought to her that she'd ever thought of before? When you told her not to flirt with the guy and to keep everything professional,did she had some "ah ha" moment type expression on her face,where she went."Wow. I never thought about that before."?

The part of HER VOWS where she said "Forsaking ALL OTHERS"...did she not understand that? Or do you have to explain to her what it meant?

This is my good friend I hate to see her destroy her marriage with a new child.
Ok,well......so what do YOU plan to do about it? How do you plan to MAKE HER be faithful? I'm curious.


I am also good friends with her husband. I would probably tell him that his ***** cheated on him but what are my options from getting her not to cheat (guidance) on her husband.
Options for getting her to not cheat on her husband,hmm.... Well let's see......there's.......

ankle monitoring
a chastity belt
you could hire a detective to follow her around
put GPS tracking in her car
install spyware on her phone and computer

Those are just a few off the top of my head. I can come back later and edit this post if I think of anything else.
 

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Stay the hell out of it. Whatever your ‘friend’ tells you, your reply should be ‘stop right there. I am friends with both of you and don’t want to be put in between.’ Anything else and you could liable for the breakup, the cheating, the fighting.

But who can resist juicy gossip right? I blame the Kardashians. Instead of America fixing their airports, dams, roads and infrastructure, they are more interested if Kim K is pregnant.

o_O
 

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If she wants to do it she will do it. You have no real idea how things are actually going in their marriage. You may think you know but you don't really know.

Besides she probably already knows her husband would take her back
“Rings don’t plug holes”

Some bro
 

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The ONLY people who can "save" a marriage are the two people involved in it.

I don't care what you say,how well you say it,or what good intentions you have.....if this woman's heart isn't with her husband,nothing you say or do will matter. In fact,you'll RUIN your friendship with her (or them both) before you help their marriage out.

You can't FORCE someone to be faithful to their spouse.



Ok,question......

Do you think she doesn't already know this? You think you revealed some GRAND REVELATION,some new wisdom,introduced some new thought to her that she'd ever thought of before? When you told her not to flirt with the guy and to keep everything professional,did she had some "ah ha" moment type expression on her face,where she went."Wow. I never thought about that before."?

The part of HER VOWS where she said "Forsaking ALL OTHERS"...did she not understand that? Or do you have to explain to her what it meant?



Ok,well......so what do YOU plan to do about it? How do you plan to MAKE HER be faithful? I'm curious.




Options for getting her to not cheat on her husband,hmm.... Well let's see......there's.......

ankle monitoring
a chastity belt
you could hire a detective to follow her around
put GPS tracking in her car
install spyware on her phone and computer

Those are just a few off the top of my head. I can come back later and edit this post if I think of anything else.
Yes but all of us at the red pill know that the marriage vows are all about the in the moment feeling for women. It’s their grand day and their emotions and Feelzzzz are all over the place. Mass attention on her. Shot a whole day devoted to her, say the vows, then when she cheats on her husband it’s because he’s changed or she doesn’t feel the love
 

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if she's telling you about it then the worst thing she could possibly be is just a flirty attention ***** with a taste for drama, it's if she says absolutely nothing that she might cheat (why would she make it so obvious she's gonna cheat if she plans to get away with it?)
 
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