Online Dating is a Lost Cause

[MoreThanSmooth]

Dressing UP inflates your value x100 because it conveys status. Status = power, wealthy, importance, ambition = sexy to women. Buy some nice clothes and you'll see better results not only on dates, but reactions from women in public.

I have a smart looking black trench coat with a high collar, whenever I wear it I get literally 2 or 3 times the looks from girls when I'm out.

The weird thing is that wearing a nice leather jacket (which I think looks better and is my favourite personal style) doesn't usually draw so many looks. Maybe because it's more common? Dunno. Though when girls notice me in that, it tends to be quite intense interest.

It's true though, clothes do make a huge difference. I'm going to get a nice watch soon, I've got some neat expensive shirts but I usually avoid them because they're a bit baggy and it seems silly to put in all the gym work and wear a baggy duvet.

I've tried several times to get my friends to take a photo when I'm out. But it's always some crappy group selfie, poorly lit club photo or just a photo of me looking bloody awful (because your mates are not going to try to get you looking sexy). Bah. I'll keep trying but I'm not hopeful I'll nail it without a pro photographer like Guru recommended.

If I'm honest, my social life is f*cking dead right now which doesn't help. Going to be at home writing a huge report for at least 4 more months...

 

[TheProspect]

Their women. They're not very bright.

The irony

 

[TheProspect]

They're women, they're not very bright. Honestly your a big f@ggot of you're so eager to discredit someone for making a typo. Maybe you need to look more at yourself and less at my grammar you sh1Tbag.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

man you look like a nice person. I could tell right away by looking at your face.

The brazalian hooker, who will be back in miami in about three days, straight up told me my photos are not on point. She sent me some examples of whats more... you know like catches womens attention. You gotta be care free, easy going, and look happy. Doesn't matter if you're alone in the pictures or not.

Let me see if i can upload the examples she sent me from my phone. At least it'll give you an idea.

Ha, thanks dude. Well, we know what women think of "nice guys" but I appreciate it anyway

Amusingly, I saw a girl on a dating site today that I know in RL. She's cute but extremely shallow and ditzy in person.

I found it amusing when she states on her profile that she's a "sapiosexual incredibly attracted to intelligence" into all this sophisticated stuff and then she finishes with "Also tall guys only please." LOL

Literally every guy she's been out with all she ever goes on about is "tall, has abs". She's been cheated on tons of times because she always goes for tall d*uchebags.

Also, she's been single for f*cking AGES, lives alone with hardly any social life and is 29 now...you'd think she'd relax her impossibly high BS criteria merely for first dates, but NO. No, she is a princess and requires her tall, intelligent Adonis while at the same time only offering reasonably good looks and practically nothing else.

I will try the recommendations Guru suggested, but as someone said in another thread...OLD is demeaning men in general, and I think I will end my time with it soon.

 

[sosousage]

I know right?

he said about how you spell dude. "Their women" whose women?

 

[wifehunter]

If more guys quit OLD, ladies would be fighting for orbiters, instead of collecting them like shoes.

 

[guru1000]

Two types of men in this world: The first type orbits and takes abuse by women and complains about the state of the market, in whatever market they are shopping. The second type gets orbited by women and has his pick of the litter. Be the second type.

Every man here has the potential to be at least 7, no matter where he is today. It requires social intelligence (interaction, inner game), and physical intelligence (work out, diet, hair style, skin care, wardrobe).

When you are pointing outward instead of looking inward, this means you have more work to do on yourself.

 

[MrWood]

any DJ's in London next week?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Ha, thanks dude. Well, we know what women think of "nice guys" but I appreciate it anyway

Amusingly, I saw a girl on a dating site today that I know in RL. She's cute but extremely shallow and ditzy in person.

I found it amusing when she states on her profile that she's a "sapiosexual incredibly attracted to intelligence" into all this sophisticated stuff and then she finishes with "Also tall guys only please." LOL

Literally every guy she's been out with all she ever goes on about is "tall, has abs". She's been cheated on tons of times because she always goes for tall d*uchebags.

Also, she's been single for f*cking AGES, lives alone with hardly any social life and is 29 now...you'd think she'd relax her impossibly high BS criteria merely for first dates, but NO. No, she is a princess and requires her tall, intelligent Adonis while at the same time only offering reasonably good looks and practically nothing else.

I will try the recommendations Guru suggested, but as someone said in another thread...OLD is demeaning men in general, and I think I will end my time with it soon.

Not sure why you care or bother to post about said woman.

You could have saved the time, the all of text, and posted a pic of the crazy cat lady.

A playboy put it best. New girls are turning 18/19/20/21 everyday!

COME @ ME BRO!

 

[ubercat]

Guru said it. Do the basic work on looks. Once you are a 7 in looks you can learn a little bit of game to raise yourself to an 8.

At that point learn a little bit of online game. And you should be able to download any number of HB 7s. And then you run them through the usual rotation system just scream out the b****** and the crazies.

That s exactly what I have done and I've had LTRs with 4 attractive sane women. And by ltr I mean over 2 years.

Of course TINSTAAFL. If you want an hb8 plus prepared to do a lot more wish

 

[guru1000]

View attachment 1324 here she is with much less make up. You see even just her attitude can make her sexy.

You gotta step up your game son.

9s only or GTFO.

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/pno7nhjskr9wsooc_zpssjkklgqu.jpg.html?sort=3&o=0

 

[Masculinity]

You gotta step up your game son.

9s only or GTFO.

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/pno7nhjskr9wsooc_zpssjkklgqu.jpg.html?sort=3&o=0

I'd like to see what your profile and pictures look like. You can post them here--if you feel comfortable with that--or send me a private message. I'm looking to see what works!

 

[Solomon]

You gotta step up your game son.

9s only or GTFO.

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/pno7nhjskr9wsooc_zpssjkklgqu.jpg.html?sort=3&o=0

mmmh no diss but this is my "9"

 

[Solomon]

Fat a$$. Love it

yes sir no diss too Guru but I like a woman with phattie and some tits. nothing like seeing my penis going in and out of her ass

 

[guru1000]

yes sir no diss too Guru but I like a woman with phattie and some tits. nothing like seeing my penis going in and out of her ass

I date curvy girls too, as long as they are lean with a beautiful face. A 9 is a 9, regardless of your type.

Your girl posted scored 92%:
http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3421_zpsv5eimrsc.png.html?sort=3&o=2

Mine, former Ford model, scored 100%:

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3418_zpsjjtwgx8d.png.html?sort=3&o=1

If you are going with curvy, beautiful face should be part of the package also:

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3420-1_zpsisbiw3j3.jpg.html?sort=3&o=0

 

[sosousage]

I date curvy girls too, as long as they are lean with a beautiful face. A 9 is a 9, regardless of your type.

Your girl posted scored 92%:
http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3421_zpsv5eimrsc.png.html?sort=3&o=2

Mine, former Ford model, scored 100%:

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3418_zpsjjtwgx8d.png.html?sort=3&o=1

If you are going with curvy, beautiful face should be part of the package also:

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3420-1_zpsisbiw3j3.jpg.html?sort=3&o=0

i went with 'probably many men ran away from bed because of these eyes" as opener, and one said "**** you" and removed me probably with reporting.

other time i said that her boobs are so big that probably she killed many men with it, and after a while she said she wont give me number because i am offending her.

are all these girls really that insecure? or maybe I am at fault? or they are normal but they are projecting insecurity for attention?

 

[ubercat]

Well those openers are upfront sexual. So if a girl likes your pics and wants a casual hook-up she might go for it. But most of them don't want to look like the s**** they are so won't bite.

 

[guru1000]

How much money do you make every year? Money helps a lot. Without it you think you'd still be confident?

I've always been a confident, arrogant azzhole, at times.

Money didn't make me who I am. Money was made as a result of who I am.

 

[Masculinity]

I'd like to see what your profile and pictures look like. You can post them here--if you feel comfortable with that--or send me a private message. I'm looking to see what works!

@guru1000 Still haven't responded to the question as to what your profile looks like.

 

[Masculinity]

Hanging the gloves.

I tried giving OLD a chance, y'all. I'm staying with what works: real-life approaches.