Fidelity

[Fruitbat]

My GF is from the Far East. I’m currently on holiday with her folks.

Before I came here, she said she would be super jealous because it’s chock full of hot girls who like western men.

She was not wrong. My girl is a 9 for me, much younger, pretty, my friends think I scored the jackpot.

I really love her and she has a decent, wealthy family who really like me.

Usually when dating East, it comes at a price but I am certainly up on this deal financially.

However, everywhere I go, I have the most gorgeous girls smiling at me. They are stunning, feminine and dress great. They don’t drink, smoke and are soft and so monunetally different to the West, I’d definately advise all western men come here - you don’t have to be wealthy and fat and old. Any half decent western guy is in paradise.

So, now I see how western women have it. I start doubting - have I got the best deal? Some of these girls are even hotter - my girls a 9 back home for me, but here she is average (although she is a great girl
And I love her folks)

We are thinking of moving here and I have no idea how to keep fidelity with literally a sea of fine fillies. I always had a thing for Far East girls anyway.

The best I can do is tell myself that once I bang them, I’ll end up in the same place.

Not sure on social attitudes towards a harem but I doubt it’s acceptable!

Just wanted to observe this is why western women are so fickle. They have the choice. When it’s you getting it, the same **** happens
To us.

 

[btownbuck2012]

If you feel this way you shouldn't be stringing your gf, or her family for that matter, along.

 

[Fruitbat]

I’m not. I am just saying when you have multiple options it’s harder. I don’t want to stray, I love her and her fam. I’m just saying we judge women in the West but what I am experiencing is what they have, and it encourages a bad attitude.

The harem thing isn’t serious. It’s just going to very hard saying no to girls who want my #.

She did say a lot of western guys are fine at home then cheat in Asia. I can see how. Average dudes don’t know this kind of thing, it’s like starving to death and then being locked in a supermarket.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

run in there fast, hit the poosy, and run.

/thread

 

[Spaz]

When in an LTR it's always best to remain faithful.

All that drama shiet is not worth it.

What's most important for a man; is a woman treating him like a King and respects him as such.

That's when you know you have a keeper.

 

[glass half full]

Yeah man I can imagine how hard it is, but you've got it better than 7/8 of the men here in the west.

Just remember that...keep her love and spoil her a bit differently on occasion, and she will likely do the same for you. Hell I'm envious...might head there myself someday soon.
Got a book on Thailand game, very interesting. Sure will never see women that respectful here in the West anymore, those days are long gone. Went out the window not long after we put a man on the moon lol.

 

[Fruitbat]

When in an LTR it's always best to remain faithful.

All that drama shiet is not worth it.

What's most important for a man; is a woman treating him like a King and respects him as such.

That's when you know you have a keeper.

I’m not treated like a king, but I note that she asks permission to do things - can I buy this? Etc

Unless you get the poorest Asian girls, it’s not like some insane worship thing. However, weird things happen. I mention in passing a chick has a nice dress and lipstick mix. Much conversation with mum. She wears this the next day. I also buy her stuff she likes.

It’s just like being with a western chick, but one who hasn’t had “making your partner happy is demeaning” drummed into them.

Unlike here, a lot of them see being an “average joe” looks wise as a bonus - faithfulness ensues. They have no issues with a belly within reason and don’t seem to appreciate the ripped look. Every dude in Asia is thin. They like bulky guys, big strong shot putters, like me

They also seem to really value a steady guy who puts money on the table.

I would seriously advise any guy to try a far eastern girl. They don’t drink or smoke, they really work hard on beauty and their view on men is a good one. Arseholes are not loved, if you’re a dude getting beaten by alphas in the West, of you’re not a natural piece of **** and “too nice” you’ll be very pleasantly surprised in Asia. They genuinely want a charming man, not a prison rapist with tattoos. You don’t have to demean yourselves with hours of tanning and gym work for these girls.

Globalism is a good thing. Keep choosing Asian and western women will eventually stop their bad attitude

 

[Spaz]

I’m not treated like a king, but I note that she asks permission to do things - can I buy this? Etc

Unless you get the poorest Asian girls, it’s not like some insane worship thing. However, weird things happen. I mention in passing a chick has a nice dress and lipstick mix. Much conversation with mum. She wears this the next day. I also buy her stuff she likes.

It’s just like being with a western chick, but one who hasn’t had “making your partner happy is demeaning” drummed into them.

Unlike here, a lot of them see being an “average joe” looks wise as a bonus - faithfulness ensues. They have no issues with a belly within reason and don’t seem to appreciate the ripped look. Every dude in Asia is thin. They like bulky guys, big strong shot putters, like me

They also seem to really value a steady guy who puts money on the table.

I would seriously advise any guy to try a far eastern girl. They don’t drink or smoke, they really work hard on beauty and their view on men is a good one. Arseholes are not loved, if you’re a dude getting beaten by alphas in the West, of you’re not a natural piece of **** and “too nice” you’ll be very pleasantly surprised in Asia. They genuinely want a charming man, not a prison rapist with tattoos. You don’t have to demean yourselves with hours of tanning and gym work for these girls.

Globalism is a good thing. Keep choosing Asian and western women will eventually stop their bad attitude

I am in Asia, am Asian, I date mostly Asian girls, I have tattoos but it's not art - tribal thingy.

I have dated Western women, I've concluded that women are in essence mostly the same all over the world. The only difference I detected is that both male and females from the western world are confused with their gender roles. The men are soft - overly emotional whilst the women comes across as more manly, its like the mindset has switched.

I believe that western women has had no choice but to take up a more manly role mainly because western men has become more feminine.

 

[ubercat]

+1 I voted with my feet long time ago.

 

[glass half full]

I am in Asia, am Asian, I date mostly Asian girls, I have tattoos but it's not art - tribal thingy.

I have dated Western women, I've concluded that women are in essence mostly the same all over the world. The only difference I detected is that both male and females from the western world are confused with their gender roles. The men are soft - overly emotional whilst the women comes across as more manly, its like the mindset has switched.

I believe that western women has had no choice but to take up a more manly role mainly because western men has become more feminine.

I'm sure you're right...however Feminism has blossomed our traditional male/female roles right to where we are today.
They have all the power, we submit and often fail because of that.
Which is exactly why things are so screwed up today.

 

[Spaz]

Feminism exist because men gave in to women's demands even when it was unreasonable and not practical.

 

[glass half full]

Feminism exist because men gave in to women's demands even when it was unreasonable and not practical.

That may be, but American society in general pretty much forced us to take it and accept it. I don't think we really had a choice, since we didn't know how to respond. And any attempt at response, as I recall was considered misogynistic before any of us knew what the **** that term even meant.

 

[Spaz]

You mean you want to be part of the herd?

I get it. Being part of the herd makes one feel safe and wanted. It's all an illusion.

Around these herd a few select predators are constantly nipping at the weak and basically setting the pace on which where the herd moves.

Think about it.

 

[Fruitbat]

I think it’s pretty insulting to assume western men have become “more feminine”, especially when you look at the realities of dating between Asian and western people. Western men do very, very well. Western women aren’t seeing the masculine nature of Asian men are they?

Plus, as far as I can see Asian men don’t fight, argue or do any of these kind of behaviours. They’re mainly
Shy and quiet. I really like that, and I dislike western machismo.

It’s the small quantity of fertile females in the West which causss issues. Hot women are everywhere in Asia and are easily replaceable - and it shows. In the West, quite the opposite.

People are people, I wouldn’t start having a go at western men on their masculinity. You’re watching TV shows, real people tend not to act like this.

 

[Spaz]

I mix mainly with Germans, Swedes and British. Maybe the Americans are different.

I'm not insulting you per se. I'm just toying around with a hypothesis about the balances of nature.

When a male species drifts towards feminity then the female will pick up whats lacking. I believe women will be drawn subconsciously to follow mens lead.

So when men started to display their feminine side, being more emotional etc, they disrupt the natural order and unknowingly women pick up what's needed to provide the balance.

 

[ubercat]

Sure but just because you have a theory that you think explains the situation don't assume that it is proven. There may be alternative theories that also fit the facts. There's a lot of historical and economic research which suggests let the rise of woman in the west dates from World War 2. The corporations noticed the economic power of woman while the men were away. They targeted that in the 50s. And in the 60s they support of women entering the workforce so that's family incomes would rise and they could sell them more. .