Married Red Pill men, do y'all regret it?
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It's not possible to be red pill and hold the frame when your wife has financial and legal power over you, IMO.
Living together is another monster. The dynamic changes completely and people get comfortable.
My advice:
-Don't get married; you can do everything a married couple does, without getting married.
-Most people get married because of societal expectations and lack of planning, not true desire.
-Look up whether you live in a state (U.S.) that recognizes Common Law Marriage. Some states consider you married if you live with a woman for a certain period of time or more, even if you did not marry voluntarily.
-Look up the statistics on failed marriages, who gets awarded children, who is seen as the victim, who usually loses, and who usually gets ripped off.
-We are not the exception to the rules; statistics, although not 100% correct, are pretty accurate.
-Divorce and the legal system are each multi-million dollar industries.
Enough said.
Living together is another monster. The dynamic changes completely and people get comfortable.
My advice:
-Don't get married; you can do everything a married couple does, without getting married.
-Most people get married because of societal expectations and lack of planning, not true desire.
-Look up whether you live in a state (U.S.) that recognizes Common Law Marriage. Some states consider you married if you live with a woman for a certain period of time or more, even if you did not marry voluntarily.
-Look up the statistics on failed marriages, who gets awarded children, who is seen as the victim, who usually loses, and who usually gets ripped off.
-We are not the exception to the rules; statistics, although not 100% correct, are pretty accurate.
-Divorce and the legal system are each multi-million dollar industries.
Enough said.
Women r masters in the game of hearts.
Know this as a matter of fact; women r never truly satisfied. They always want more. It's their nature.
U cannot win.
However u can acknowledge their superior abilities to manipulate you and act accordingly.
I wish you luck.
Know this as a matter of fact; women r never truly satisfied. They always want more. It's their nature.
U cannot win.
However u can acknowledge their superior abilities to manipulate you and act accordingly.
I wish you luck.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
How is this even close to what the OP asked for?
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
R u married?
Used to be married.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Brought you here?
Took me 20 years to get here
Married women get fat so easily. So do men.
Being single forces me to go to the gym. I know I won’t get laid unless I’m busting my azz. If I knew I could get laid by being lazy, I would never go to the gym and just eat McDonald’s all day.
Overall, I’m thankful I’m not married. I can’t deal with petty arguments about money etc. most women in California are raging feminists who are not submissive at all.
Being single forces me to go to the gym. I know I won’t get laid unless I’m busting my azz. If I knew I could get laid by being lazy, I would never go to the gym and just eat McDonald’s all day.
Overall, I’m thankful I’m not married. I can’t deal with petty arguments about money etc. most women in California are raging feminists who are not submissive at all.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I imagine, the happily married, are exempt from the question.
Gamewise...I also imagine, scarcity and frame, also apply.
Gamewise...I also imagine, scarcity and frame, also apply.
I was married to a feminist. She wouldn't be too bad about it but it was there. I regret marrying her and having a child with her now that she ended the relationship. Still have a divorce and custody battle to go through and I don't expect to come out ahead.
Would I ever marry again? Yes, but I would have to truly find someone I just couldn't be without. I recommend men not get married early if at all.
Would I ever marry again? Yes, but I would have to truly find someone I just couldn't be without. I recommend men not get married early if at all.
I was married for five and a half years. And I've had living partners for a similar stretch.
Australia and New Zealand are common law marriage places so as soon as your co domiciled that's it.
I think the main thing is to try and stay interesting people. As my mate says if you're not careful it'll become socks and sainsburys. Similar to those Living Dead guys you see being dragged around by their wives in your malls.
Men love routine women hate it. And make damn sure you pick a woman who is self entertaining. If we are just hanging out and I'm preoccupied my girlfriend will pick up a book or start looking at her share trading. If she was attention whoring on Instagram instead believe me I wouldn't keep her around
Australia and New Zealand are common law marriage places so as soon as your co domiciled that's it.
I think the main thing is to try and stay interesting people. As my mate says if you're not careful it'll become socks and sainsburys. Similar to those Living Dead guys you see being dragged around by their wives in your malls.
Men love routine women hate it. And make damn sure you pick a woman who is self entertaining. If we are just hanging out and I'm preoccupied my girlfriend will pick up a book or start looking at her share trading. If she was attention whoring on Instagram instead believe me I wouldn't keep her around
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
sounds like a cool chick!
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Your post assumes sex is automatic in a marriage. It isn't. In fact, it's one of the biggest complaints men have about being married. Getting fat will greatly exacerbate that problem. If she gets fat and you don't at least there's some competition anxiety that kicks in so you hopefully get laid more often. The worst case scenario though is a woman who gets fat and stops having sex due to feeling insecure. Unless she just had my kid I would start cheating on her.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
FeelsbadmanTook me 20 years to get here
Just pulling ur leg
Ken Patric
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I think married life is better as compared to unmarried life due to some reasons:
They never nag you for being too old for toys.
They help you wrap the Christmas gifts.
They're spontaneous in the shower.
They're honest and there for you in times of need.
They'll let you know when you're just not respecting their dietary needs.
This is why marriage is the best because you can do this. The other stuff? Blah.
They make all your greatest desires and dreams come true.
Together you keep up on that list of chores, like refilling the toilet paper.
They love spending time with the kids.
They never nag you for being too old for toys.
They help you wrap the Christmas gifts.
They're spontaneous in the shower
.They're honest and there for you in times of need.
They'll let you know when you're just not respecting their dietary needs.
This is why marriage is the best because you can do this. The other stuff? Blah.
They make all your greatest desires and dreams come true.
Together you keep up on that list of chores, like refilling the toilet paper.
They love spending time with the kids.
