"Game" is all about validating women

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You are the one bragging about 1 year relationships with DC 5s(you call them "HOT WOMEN"). No one here has ever said LMS don't matter, in fact you learned the concept of LMS here you dolt.

Wait is this Naughty Ninja having an episode? Or Tenacity? Like clockwork they have circular BPD rages against weird PUA strawman that don't exist here.
I don't even live in DC.

Another impotent post about Urbanyst because you can't support your blue pill points for sh*t.
 

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can we all just agree that money/looks/social skills are all important in varying degrees?

I would say social skills are very important. I was good looking and successful for a very long time and still had no success with women because i was scared to approach or I was desperate
Why would a woman date a desperate guy with LMS when she can date a non-desperate guy with LMS? Everyone woman has her own unique LMS criteria.

Think about it.

Being desperate actually lowers your perceived STATUS. But desperate people end up in relationships anyway all the time. Why is that? Their "game"? F*ck no.

Lol.
 

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I'm right but you don't like my attitude?

Lol.

This place is snowflake city.
Then quit being a faggot and leave already. Walk away is one of the most touted advice given here. You should leave you know. No one really likes you here. It's a man's site after all, not a child's. Maybe you're gay or something. They call those types of people 'faggots', ya know.
 

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I'm right but you don't like my attitude?

Lol.

This place is snowflake city.
Where and when did I ever say you were right?

I don't know what you're smoking but I want some, it must be the good s***.
 

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Then quit being a faggot and leave already. Walk away is one of the most touted advice given here. You should leave you know. No one really likes you here. It's a man's site after all, not a child's. Maybe you're gay or something. They call those types of people 'faggots', ya know.
Don't tell me what to do.

You're like 15 years old.
 

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Urbanyst, I think I’ve finally understood. You mention red pills and blue pills a lot. You realise these are supposed to be metaphorical right?

The literal red and blue pills are your meds mate. You need to start taking those again and these threads will cease. There’s a good lad, eat those red pills up.

You have the honour of being my first Ignore List member, maybe this will add to your Status?
 

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Why would a woman date a desperate guy with LMS when she can date a non-desperate guy with LMS? Everyone woman has her own unique LMS criteria.

Think about it.

Being desperate actually lowers your perceived STATUS. But desperate people end up in relationships anyway all the time. Why is that? Their "game"? F*ck no.

Lol.

You understand your point is becoming more and more meaningless right?

we all know that its not hard to pick up women being a rich good looking man who is not afraid to approach women and is not desperate. Breaking news

not being afraid to approach and not being desperate is 90% of what "game" is anyways.
 

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You understand your point is becoming more and more meaningless right?

we all know that its not hard to pick up women being a rich good looking man who is not afraid to approach women and is not desperate. Breaking news

not being afraid to approach and not being desperate is 90% of what "game" is anyways.
Here is the thing.. the stuff I'm telling you guys is great news for you. But people are too busy having blue pill heart attacks and flaming me to see why its a good thing that "game" is total bullsh*t.

Here is why its a good thing: It frees you to be yourself. Imagine how CONFIDENT and RELAXED every guy would be if he knew his level of "game" around HOT women really doesn't mean sh*t. Women will pretty much go along with whatever if they consider you to be high SMV.

All problems men have with getting women stem from blue pill delusion of trying to talk women into being interested in you. Women are either into you from the start or not. Its all based on your SMV which is based on your LMS. You don't have to do sh*t other than show interest. If your success rate is sh*t its evidence your SMV is rock bottom. So instead of wasting your time on useless PUA voodoo, you should be raising your SMV.

Using "game" is like walking into a nice restaurant with a dress code in flip-flops and pajamas and talking to the chef for two hours to get him to like you and let you eat at his restaurant. In reality, all you have to do is walk in well dressed and have MONEY to spend. You don't need to kiss the chefs ass to eat there. Likewise, you don't need to "game" women or "act a certain way" to f*ck them. You don't have to do sh*t.

Idiots using "game" are wasting both their time and their energy. They are also making complete asses of themselves in the process lol.
 

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Here is the thing.. the stuff I'm telling you guys is great news for you. But people are too busy having blue pill heart attacks and flaming me to see why its a good thing that "game" is total bullsh*t.

Here is why its a good thing: It frees you to be yourself. Imagine how CONFIDENT and RELAXED every guy would be if he knew his level of "game" around HOT women really doesn't mean sh*t. Women will pretty much go along with whatever if they consider you to be high SMV.

All problems men have with getting women stem from blue pill delusion of trying to talk women into being interested in you. Women are either into you from the start or not. Its all based on your SMV which is based on your LMS. You don't have to do sh*t other than show interest. If your success rate is sh*t its evidence your SMV is rock bottom. So instead of wasting your time on useless PUA voodoo, you should be raising your SMV.

Using "game" is like walking into a nice restaurant with a dress code in flip-flops and pajamas and talking to the chef for two hours to get him to like you and let you eat at his restaurant. In reality, all you have to do is walk in well dressed and have MONEY to spend. You don't need to kiss the chefs ass to eat there. Likewise, you don't need to "game" women or "act a certain way" to f*ck them. You don't have to do sh*t.

Idiots using "game" are wasting both their time and their energy. They are also making complete asses of themselves in the process lol.
My cousin "has game" never really been productive always trying to make a quick come up. He be part of the groups who does party. He's bedded alot of females on this non financial status. Some of them don't like him much after he came across them cause he used them. His game is he stays in his position and knows what these females wants to hear.
 

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Game is anything you do to pick up women that doesn't come naturally to you.

Basically if you had never discovered the red pill, nor PUA, nor ever gotten tips on getting girls, nor developed any tactics all on your own, but you just hopped out of bed in the morning, said the first 5 sentences that came to mind and seduced a girl.

Chances are this describes nobody here. This probably doesn't even describe most naturals. Everyone is running some kind of game

If you have any response in mind for **** tests, you're running game, if you look for IOIs to capitalize/escalate you're running game, if you test compliance or break down ASD/LMR you're running game (the natural response to her not wanting to **** is to say okay and leave, not to get through her defenses and change her mind anyway)
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I define "game" as knowing when a girl is ready for the next level of interaction. She already made up her mind about you before you opened your mouth. All you have to do is know when to pull the trigger.
 

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Guys thinking they can "game" their way into being attractive are like fat women who think they can get a HOT guy by having good bedroom skills lol.
The weird implication that being hot is significantly more important than bedroom skills implies that you date girls only for the purposes of flexing on your social media friends/followers
 

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Nice.

Too bad LOOKS, MONEY and STATUS are still the keys to dating success.

So your little blue pill temper tantrum doesn't change jack sh*t in the real world lol.

Go sit in a corner.
Little manchild with small wee wee think like autistic boy. “I get money, girls like me hehehehehe” “I have money, y u no like?” Too bad man with milimeter peter just doesn’t get it. No autism. Just dumb. And scared.

Of what you say?

Of himself.
 

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Breaking news: Not being afraid to approach and not being desperate is 90% of what "game" is anyways.
And it would surprise you just how many men who HAVE the whole LMS thing act desperate and are afraid to approach/are afraid of rejection. Their deficit? GAME, aka being comfortable interacting with women they find attractive.

be yourself
This is what Urbanyst's advice boils down to. If "Be Yourself" worked, nobody would be here...SS would not exist. How's "Be Yourself" working for the technology geeks in their Teslas with all the LMS in the world and the social calibration of a 6th grader? It isn't. How's "Be Yourself" working for @bigdave17 or @RichardTheFrog or anybody else who has recognized that "Be Yourself" isn't enough to compete for the women men want? I mean Dave, by his own account, has LMS in spades. Richard has sufficient looks, and he's working on making money, and he's got his own business, so his LMS is improving. But you have to be able to talk to other people. You have to be able to relate. Both these dudes struggle with women but do not have trouble in business environments or other areas. So that means there is some degree of improvement they need to undertake (I'm not picking on y'all, but you are both very forthcoming with your struggles and your efforts to improve in a social sense, which comes back to a self-belief sense, which has nothing at all to do with the material in the videos). Kudos to both of you. You are each making progress. If LMS was all that mattered there wouldn't be lonely attractive rich guys all over Silicon Valley. I know a multimillionaire who lives on Billionaire's Beach in Malibu, CA. He's got LMS, but he's kinda nerdy and awkward with women. The dog dude I talked about in another thread has mad LMS. He *thinks* he's smooth with chicks...except he isn't. So he's single.

Women will pretty much go along with whatever if they consider you to be high SMV.
But newsflash...SMV isn't a fixed quantity. It expands and contracts as someone gets to know you. I've seen people who APPEAR to have high SMV crash by acting desperate, acting needy, getting all "in love" after a first meet or a first date, or if a girl didn't respond soon enough, etc. That is what many of the posts on SS are all about.

You don't have to do sh*t other than show interest.
Patently false. You can show too much interest, you can say the wrong thing, you can fail to read social cues, you can fail to escalate, you can escalate too agressively...and on and on ad nauseum. There are 1000 ways to screw it up EVEN IF THE WOMAN INITIALLY HAD HIGH INTEREST. This is where FRAME and GAME are important and closely related.

I don't date women. But I date men, and I am here to tell you, LMS is NOT the end all be all if you are creepy, socially inept, inappropriate or otherwise poorly calibrated. I've dated very good looking wealthy men who I liked at first who shot themselves out of the water with behavior that was a turn-off or a dealbreaker. Men who texted needy scroll down novellas, men who came right out and referred to me in public as their "future fiance'", men who got drunk and made racial slurs near a table full of people of the race they were slurring (I pulled that man aside privately and threatened to leave - then and there - if the behavior didn't cease immediately *it did*, and then I never went out with that man again.) The man who did that, by the way, was the retired pro hockey player who earns over 1M a month, and is funny, cool, and handsome (LMS out the wazoo)...but I dropped him after that incident. Cold.

You see women who are themselves high value are not going to tolerate idiot behavior, even from a man who has LMS or high SMV. She has plenty of other men to choose from who also have LMS and high SMV and so she isn't going to put up with dum b ass men who are embarassing.

A man's behavior can wreck his SMV irreversibly in a woman's eyes. GAME and FRAME help educate men to improve themselves not to make these sorts of mistakes when interacting with women.

Here's the absolute TRUTH:

LMS isn't going to do much for you if you're socializing in circles of people who have it as well, which is precisely what people who have LMS tend to do.

The playing field levels out.

Tell me, what do YOU do when you find yourself on a level playing field? Leave? Hang out with uglier people with no money so you can maintain the advantage?
Translation: In high value-land everyone has LMS. Let me say that again...Among HIGH VALUE people, EVERYONE has LMS. So GAME, aka personality and social skills and FRAME, aka how you exercise your leadership, boundaries and self-respect is what separates the more sought after from the less sought after. Period, end of story, mic drop.
 
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not being afraid to approach and not being desperate is 90% of what "game" is anyways.
How are you gonna come on here claiming that you know what "game" is when you post crazy nonsense multiple times per day. Show us a picture of a hot girl you've fvcked.
 
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