How much do good looks help with women and are there any disadvantages

[ZaCool]

I have been a college student for the past 2 years ( a little more) and even before getting into college i was getting a lot of attention from women ... iam gonna talk about college since its more relevant to my qustion, iam a 6'2 guy with average build and great style i make sure to look my best when out, iam smart (book and street smart) witty, funny and laid back .

I will talk a little about how things usually work for me :
girls show a lot of interest in me, i get stared at often, i get eye contact with a lot of women, many check me out when they think iam not looking, iam almost friends with every girl in my major ( easily 80-90 girls and around 50 guys whom iam friends with) a lot of girls in my major knew me way before i even knew they existed(so do other girls on campus), two girls even told me once iam the most good looking guy in the entire major, if me and a girl have a mutual friend she jumps on the opportunity to talk to me when she sees me hanging with our mutual friend, i got approached by some girls, i even got some phone numbers without even asking, just a few months ago at work (i work part time) this super hot girl easily 8/10 who every dude in a 10 miles range was thirsty for (including my coworkers) said hi out of no where (never talked to her) invited me over and handed me her number (had something urgent so couldnt go) .... i can easily walk into a room and have all the girls stare at me, i get compliments often from all sorts of girls especially the hot ones, talking to girls is easy and i can get away with a lot of things .

with that being said, some people seem to consider me arrogant even though iam nice and like to have fun and crack jokes, all of my friends think iam dumb for not approaching every girl in sight since all of them according to my friends show interest in me, but what they dont know is that i am used to attention from women and i have approached a great deal of them and usually girls just want me to acknowledge their existence then they ignore me (many have bfs btw) ... and its not cause iam boring, because the moment i ignore them back they are back at trying to attract me .

Iam expected by everyone to be doing well with women everyone thinks i have 5 gfs lol ,but ... iam poor af, no car or place and sometimes not time to waste on girls even, girls go out with me and are very happy and excited when we're out but the moment i start getting even a little bit sexual its game over no matter how long i've known the girl, in short sluty women that sleep around want to date me, decent and hot girls with standards like me a lot but for some unknown reason pull some serious b*tch shield with me but not with other men despite them being less attractive (shouldnt it be the other way around ? ) ... also no free stuff ... well i mean i more likely to get if i ask but unlike hot women i was rarely offered free stuff .

basically i described how life is like for me, you are free to call me a liar if you want to its okay, but iam more interested in what you have to say about the subject, how much easier is dating for good looking guys in your opinion/experience and are there disadvantages (not that being hot is bad but you know, everyone has to understand the pros and cons of their situation )

 

[skinnyguy]

Do you go to frat parties?

 

[ZaCool]

Do you go to frat parties?

no frats at my college, but i do go to parties 2-3 times a year, cause i live 40 mins away from campus and i i have no car or place so ....

 

[Spaz]

Girls/single/married/taken women r always attracted to handsome men. 100% fact.

They subconsciously go abt trying to seduce him through their body language. 100% fact.

What turns any of these chances into a s€xual relationship is how you react and how you portray your s€xuality; confidence, mystery, knowledge, etc.

Start off reading the DJ Bible and other threads here. Some good stuff written by experienced men.

 

[devilkingx2]

Good looks are subjective so not everyone will have the same opinion, but generally the same range.

But good looks work on every woman (not equally on every woman, but there's no woman that doesnt like a good looking man)

 

[ZaCool]

Good looks are subjective so not everyone will have the same opinion, but generally the same range.

But good looks work on every woman (not equally on every woman, but there's no woman that doesnt like a good looking man)

This statement does ring a bell not gonna lie, you described it in a really good way ... I never met a female who thought i was unattractive, cause every girl i meet does, now the way they act shows how attractive they find me, I would say 50-60% sater at me, eye me and basically are aware iam there and keep looking at me sometimes, 10-15% steal few glances but dont seem particularly interested ...

and the remaining 20-25% , usually these girls are my target, ranging from 6.5-9/10 in terms of looks, some cute others very attractive and they eye my and hold eye contact like their life depends on it, smile at me sometimes and as long as iam near no other guy matters to them, they act like they have a huge crush on me which in my first year of college could never understand or pinpoint but iam getting better at this.

despite this i have to agree looks while all work on all women they work to different degrees, the funny thing though is that the hotter she is the more likely she likes me and shows it .

 

[RangerMIke]

Chicks will open the door to a good looking guy and give you a shot... but you have to walk through the door and do something. The advice of your friends is spot on... get some phone numbers and make dates... be fun, build rapport, then seduce. If at any point you get resistance... dump and move onto the next one.

 

[marmel75]

It helps a lot. The only disadvantage is they can assume they have no shot at you because you are too good looking or not want to date you because they feel intimidated or that they aren't good enough for you and you will just bang them and dump them. But really that is their problem not yours.

Women will give you a chance much faster and more often than lesser looking guys and you will get "extended chances" ie, it will take more for you to get the door shut than an average looking guy. That said, the same rules apply...if you act like a doormat or wimp or desperate needy dude the turnoff will be so great that no amount of looks will save you.

 

[Stephen89]

It helps a lot.

Going to the gym, wearing good clothes, having good chances can increase your attractiveness.

It will open doors and you need game to back it up-conversation skills etc.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Its a game changer. At the same time there are some women that will avoid the type of guy they think is vain and has too many other options

They will still eff him though. Might do a pump and dump on them so they feel better about themselves.

 

[ZaCool]

They will still eff him though. Might do a pump and dump on them so they feel better about themselves.

In a club/bar setting, yes absolutly i can walk into any bar and catch some girls eyeing me wanting some fun, but day to day college girls ? they choose not to no matter how sexual iam or how i approach the subject ... from where i stand i feel that girls want to be close to me but at the same time prefer to keep their distance, i went out with a lot of girls and only lucked out once ! keep in mind i actually went out with 2 chicks who have slept with dozens of men, girls that everyone told me jump on anything that moves , and i acted accordingly, was sexual and acted like i just want sex and nothing more yet they wanted a relationship ... like wtf ?! I feel that something is stopping girls from sleeping with me its like they are afraid of something, something about me is mkaing them keep their distance, its not me being boring or an ass

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Only disadvantage is that some people will be jealous of you and automatically resent you or think of you as arrogant. But that’ll happen even if you’re average looking but have super high confidence levels so who cares really. It’s just whatever. If you have it, good for you. You got an advantage most guys don’t. If you don’t, focus on what you can control. That’s it really. No real downside imo.

 

[guru1000]

automatically resent you or think of you as arrogant.

Hehe, I always called arrogant by women. I respond, "Thank you."

 

[devilkingx2]

In a club/bar setting, yes absolutly i can walk into any bar and catch some girls eyeing me wanting some fun, but day to day college girls ? they choose not to no matter how sexual iam or how i approach the subject ... from where i stand i feel that girls want to be close to me but at the same time prefer to keep their distance, i went out with a lot of girls and only lucked out once ! keep in mind i actually went out with 2 chicks who have slept with dozens of men, girls that everyone told me jump on anything that moves , and i acted accordingly, was sexual and acted like i just want sex and nothing more yet they wanted a relationship ... like wtf ?! I feel that something is stopping girls from sleeping with me its like they are afraid of something, something about me is mkaing them keep their distance, its not me being boring or an ass

If you're too far out of their league the smart ones will realize that you're obviously just gonna pump and dump

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Hehe, I always called arrogant by women. I respond, "Thank you."

I sometimes say “nothing wrong with being your own biggest fan” haha

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That depends on how into casual sex she is, really.

I know a 5 that gets the 7's and up men.

If you're too far out of their league the smart ones will realize that you're obviously just gonna pump and dump

Like I said the one I know would reverse it and pump and dump him first. And she expected not to be called for at least a week after sex. If you called within a week she thought you was needy. I'm sure that's what her brain did to turn pumping and dumping around.

 

[Solomon]

Either OP is a troll or awkward AF, if you're good looking as you say you are Gaming girls is like playing "Pokemon Go" you just go to the right spot and Boom chicka wah wah

But OP of course is not gonna mention that he may be an awkward guy or a trollo dolo

 

[ZaCool]

Either OP is a troll or awkward AF, if you're good looking as you say you are Gaming girls is like playing "Pokemon Go" you just go to the right spot and Boom chicka wah wah

But OP of course is not gonna mention that he may be an awkward guy or a trollo dolo

I get what youre saying and its cool iam no troll .. awkward... well idk never been considered that by anyone .i have good social skills 5-6 close friends and many aquantinces ... i hate being in the center and prefer to have a more laid back approach , i would say thay my smaller social is contributing to some of the issues (less women less results) but aside from that everything i mentionrd is 100% , iam not the kind to lie no matter how harsh the truth ... my friend used to think like u that iam full of **** till he saw how women treated me .... its cool though its the internet after all and some things are harder to believe .