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Have any of you guys ever given a girl a shot who was not your type in significant ways?

bigdave17

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I've been talking about this bartender I met 2 weeks ago who is not my type (I like very classy, polished, professional, responsible women and she is not that) but I have crazy chemistry with her. I love being around her...I'm sure she is fantastic in bed. I can also tell she is a great person, super loyal and loving. I asked people there who know her really well and they all say she is a fantastic person

Physically, she has a really cute face and fat ass but she could probably stand to lose like 10 or 15 lbs. Is it worth giving this a chance?

Will she ever turn into the type of person I want to date? or is this strictly casual only?
 

wifehunter

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Why waste time? If she's not your type, you're ultimately leading her on. Cruelty sucks.
 

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I've been talking about this bartender I met 2 weeks ago who is not my type (I like very classy, polished, professional, responsible women and she is not that) but I have crazy chemistry with her. I love being around her...I'm sure she is fantastic in bed. I can also tell she is a great person, super loyal and loving. I asked people there who know her really well and they all say she is a fantastic person

Physically, she has a really cute face and fat ass but she could probably stand to lose like 10 or 15 lbs. Is it worth giving this a chance?

Will she ever turn into the type of person I want to date? or is this strictly casual only?
10-15 lbs isn't allot of weight to lose. That sounds like water weight/colon cleanse stuff and can shed off in like a few weeks. Yeah, go ahead and date her.
 

Stallionstud

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10-15 lbs isn't allot of weight to lose. That sounds like water weight/colon cleanse stuff and can shed off in like a few weeks. Yeah, go ahead and date her.
I agree just be prepared banging a bartender is like banging a plastic bag in the wind. At least in my experience
 

CMNILS87

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10-15 lbs isn't allot of weight to lose. That sounds like water weight/colon cleanse stuff and can shed off in like a few weeks. Yeah, go ahead and date her.
10-15 lbs is really 20-30. Everyone is different but a lot of people can carry chub well.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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