Say you topped her ‘High Score List’. Would she still test you?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Something that I’ve thought about is if a woman will give you ****tests because it’s their nature or because you aren’t their #1. Part of me thinks that if she tests you, it’ll be because she’s measuring you up against her actual #1 guy. But if you are and she's madly in love with and just completely head over heels, would she still do it. Me thinks that if she has been traumatized in the past or really hurt in the past by men, then she will do it no matter what even if you did top her list. But that if she hasn’t, then she won’t. But I don’t have a large enough sample size to draw this conclusion though so I am wondering on all of your guys’ thoughts.

 

[ohrein]

There's no woman who won't **** test you. That's how they figure out if you're a man worth keeping around. Always watch for them and always remain calm. Your job is to be the man who's ready for anything.

 

[The Duke]

-They are all schitt testers to some extent. There is likely a correlation between the degree of schitt testing and their personal issues(trauma, insecurity, drama).

-Everyone of them will judge their current partners against their #1. I've seen evidence of this many times.

-Most women have a difficult time moving forward. They have a hard time ridding themselves of the negative emotional situations they've been in. Its why girls that have been on the cahk carousel too long have so many issues and have difficulty pair bonding. With every cahk they have, the lose the ability to connect to a man.

I'm going to say its next to impossible to be on a girls high score list that has had more than 10 guys. Its probably lower than that.

 

[Desdinova]

That's a really interesting question, and I've never really thought about it.

I don't think 5hit testing would be an issue. Women won't generally go for weak men, so a 5hit test won't be necessary if she's in love with an alpha. She also wouldn't be as spoiled by AFCs because she hasn't dated enough men to become accustomed to it. However, most girls get spoiled to some degree as children simply because they're "cute little princesses", so there would likely be some tenancy to 5hit test.

I think in this case, it really depends on the chick. Women who have been around the block will unquestionably be 5hit testing their men. But in this case, I'd say it depends on their upbringing.

 

[Roober]

Women's emotions are like waves in the ocean. Are waves easy and predictable?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Of course they would. Even girls who blatantly find a man attractive do the same BS s*** tests every time. I was blind to it before but since coming on here, I realised pretty much every woman I've ever been with has thrown me s***.

Even if she considers you "perfect" she's still going to try and push the boundaries. Every relationship has moments like that. It's like when you gently test her to see if she's willing to do something adventurous in bed for you. You're going to push that boundary because it gives you something you want.

On the other hand, she pushes the boundaries to test your control over the relationship with her. If she starts eroding that control with you failing s*** tests, she's going to start seeing you as less of a man.

If you're a hulking 10/10 sexy beast, she's still going to want to throw you curveballs to see if you're a man at heart who can deal with it.

 

[jboyd5]

Something that I’ve thought about is if a woman will give you ****tests because it’s their nature or because you aren’t their #1. Part of me thinks that if she tests you, it’ll be because she’s measuring you up against her actual #1 guy. But if you are and she's madly in love with and just completely head over heels, would she still do it. Me thinks that if she has been traumatized in the past or really hurt in the past by men, then she will do it no matter what even if you did top her list. But that if she hasn’t, then she won’t. But I don’t have a large enough sample size to draw this conclusion though so I am wondering on all of your guys’ thoughts.

Usually if a women can see you are alpha and are able to hold frame they won't test as often as they would a beta. But remember it is still your job to recognize said ****tests and pass them. When you pass with ease, she will not see a need to test you because she sees that you are THE MAN

 

[ohrein]

Women will always test you. Don't fall for it and be a man.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Women's emotions are like waves in the ocean. Are waves easy and predictable?

What does this have to do with the question?? And yes, you actually can predict a woman’s emotion. I’ve done it numerous times before. If you’ve had any sort of success with them, then you have. You probably just don’t look at it that way.

and pass them.

Or not play then at all.

When you pass with ease, she will not see a need to test you because she sees that you are THE MAN

Or she will test you more just for fun and just because she knows you’ll pass. That’s her way of leveraging control over you because in the end, you are still playing the game which is her natural expertise. That’s why some guys say that playing ‘the game’ in general is still putting you in her frame. Can’t do too much of either.

 

[Roober]

What does this have to do with the question?? And yes, you actually can predict a woman’s emotion. I’ve done it numerous times before. If you’ve had any sort of success with them, then you have. You probably just don’t look at it that way.

Basically all women have highs and lows, times when they will "test" you. It is completely unavoidable because they are highly emotional creatures who often make decisions solely on emotions. When a woman doesn't feel a man's strength or is too closed off, she will test much more frequently and with greater severity.

You can guess what they are going to do and often be correct, but unless you have a Crystal ball, it is nothing more than a guess.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Basically all women have highs and lows, times when they will "test" you. It is completely unavoidable because they are highly emotional creatures who often make decisions solely on emotions. When a woman doesn't feel a man's strength or is too closed off, she will test much more frequently and with greater severity.

You can guess what they are going to do and often be correct, but unless you have a Crystal ball, it is nothing more than a guess.

You’re looking at it waaaayyy too scientifically dude. It’s really not that hard.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I believe we should stop talking about tests as if they are all the same, we have test to measure your value and we have test to measure your commitment.

A girl you are dealing with before sealing the deal will test you for your value, your plates/dates/girlfriend will test you for your commitment.

Usually your d1ck inside her moves her from tests A to tests B.

I take for granted of course that women have sex with the same guys they consider worth of a relationship, they dont have a fvck/not fvck cathegory like we do.

They have generally a friend-utility/lover-boyfriend division so once you are in group 2 you already passed the value tests.