Confessions

[B0redandl0nely]

In high school my friends tried to set me up with this hot chick and when I tried talking to her I told her I had bad hygiene for some reason even though I didn't. When I was hooking up with this girl in the park a few months ago I expressed that I was fearful we would get a ticket from the police. On the way to a girl's house she texted me to come in when I got there and I rang the bell even though the door was open. I don't have problems??

 

[B0redandl0nely]

I was robbed of a life. I wish I could be on this forum talking about normal failures and successes with women but I can't because I was born extremely weird. There's no hope for me and I use this forum to vent. I also vent to my family and suicide hotlines. I'm a 26 year old full time student and I'm barely getting by because of how hard it is to stay focused and motivated. Having no social life and no chance of having one is terrible...

 

[marmel75]

Troooollllll

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Troooollllll

Dunno man, I think he genuinely has a few problems he needs help with. Not sure we have the expertise for it here though.

I was robbed of a life. I wish I could be on this forum talking about normal failures and successes with women but I can't because I was born extremely weird. There's no hope for me and I use this forum to vent. I also vent to my family and suicide hotlines. I'm a 26 year old full time student and I'm barely getting by because of how hard it is to stay focused and motivated. Having no social life and no chance of having one is terrible...

Mate, as I've said in other threads, you need to relax. You're 26, that's f***ing young!

There is no "normal" with women. Some guys get laid all the time from 16, others take it slower, some take ages (like myself actually). Some people have lots of relationships, others don't. Some people have sex every week with hot girls and yet they're deeply depressed and unhappy.

Failure and success with women is a tiny fraction of life, it's not important unless you spend all your time dwelling on it.

I read the other day about a guy who works as a super model - he didn't lose his v-card until he was 25 despite being ripped ASF and getting lots of female attention. It just didn't happen for him, and he didn't care. He's no less of a man for that; most guys would actually be envious of his physique.

You said you had Asperger's in another thread? There must be some counsellor or consultation service you can see for that, some sort of therapy to talk this through properly.

Decades of life lie ahead of you. You now have to realise that, and move on from the past to make your future something you will enjoy. If you dwell on "failures" you will just end up becoming a bitter 45 year old ranting about when you were 26 and lonely. If you go out there and go on dates you will meet the right person eventually.

F*** it, you said you were doing oral with a girl in another thread? That's more than I've done so far and I don't have Asperger's! Chill out man, you're nowhere near "foreveralone" status.

 

[devilkingx2]

OP stay with us, if you go all elliot rodgers this forum will get shut down just like PUAhate did

 

[B0redandl0nely]

Dunno man, I think he genuinely has a few problems he needs help with. Not sure we have the expertise for it here though.



Mate, as I've said in other threads, you need to relax. You're 26, that's f***ing young!

There is no "normal" with women. Some guys get laid all the time from 16, others take it slower, some take ages (like myself actually). Some people have lots of relationships, others don't. Some people have sex every week with hot girls and yet they're deeply depressed and unhappy.

Failure and success with women is a tiny fraction of life, it's not important unless you spend all your time dwelling on it.

I read the other day about a guy who works as a super model - he didn't lose his v-card until he was 25 despite being ripped ASF and getting lots of female attention. It just didn't happen for him, and he didn't care. He's no less of a man for that; most guys would actually be envious of his physique.

You said you had Asperger's in another thread? There must be some counsellor or consultation service you can see for that, some sort of therapy to talk this through properly.

Decades of life lie ahead of you. You now have to realise that, and move on from the past to make your future something you will enjoy. If you dwell on "failures" you will just end up becoming a bitter 45 year old ranting about when you were 26 and lonely. If you go out there and go on dates you will meet the right person eventually.

F*** it, you said you were doing oral with a girl in another thread? That's more than I've done so far and I don't have Asperger's! Chill out man, you're nowhere near "foreveralone" status.

I met the right person. Our relationship just got ****ed up because of my issues. My aspergers makes it very hard to form and keep relationships.

 

[Billtx49]

I was robbed of a life.

I was born extremely weird.

There's no hope for me.

I also vent to my family and suicide hotlines.

I'm barely getting by because of how hard it is to stay focused and motivated.

Having no social life and no chance of having one is terrible...

Do yourself a favor and get some professional psychiatric help.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

Do yourself a favor and get some professional psychiatric help.

I take meds and they don't help. That's why I'm looking for a different doctor

 

[Billtx49]

I take meds and they don't help. That's why I'm looking for a different doctor

Psychiatry is not about only meds…
Pills do not solve inner mental issues by themselves, they only temporarily partially block them at best.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I was robbed of a life. I wish I could be on this forum talking about normal failures and successes with women but I can't because I was born extremely weird. There's no hope for me and I use this forum to vent. I also vent to my family and suicide hotlines. I'm a 26 year old full time student and I'm barely getting by because of how hard it is to stay focused and motivated. Having no social life and no chance of having one is terrible...

Ha! If you think you’re weird, you should have seen me as a child. I was actually worse than RichardTheFrog, bigneil, and Tenacity. And now I fully get ****. It’s a miracle. I lucked tf out. I thank God for that honestly because it should not have been so at the rate I was going, but I guess He may have felt bad for me and let me have a little good luck at the time which changed my life forever. Long story. Not gonna go into it. It was definitely a hard change, as hard as getting off heroin or crack actually because the only people who are ever able to reprogram their minds like that have to use LSD (just like former heroin and crack addicts).

But if there was hope for me, there’s definitely hope for others. To this day, I still have not met a bigger lost cause than I was (socially anyways). But I survived. And improved light years ahead of everyone else now. Thank God.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I take meds and they don't help. That's why I'm looking for a different doctor

You said you're a student. Do you have options to get mental health counseling as part of your student health service? Counselors can be hit or miss, depending upon who you happen to get, but I think a good counselor would be very helpful. It sounds like you are using the suicide hotlines as a way to get that counseling, but I doubt whoever you talk to is as qualified as a real professional.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

In high school my friends tried to set me up with this hot chick and when I tried talking to her I told her I had bad hygiene for some reason even though I didn't. When I was hooking up with this girl in the park a few months ago I expressed that I was fearful we would get a ticket from the police. On the way to a girl's house she texted me to come in when I got there and I rang the bell even though the door was open. I don't have problems??

As a DJ I know what I'm doing. It's my neurological disorder that prevents me from acting on my knowledge