Why so many men refuse to see a girls true nature

[ZaCool]

I have this friend i think he is kinda above average even though he tells me he gets approached by coworkers all the time (excepet they flirt with everyone ... literally), He recently met this girl who works with him shes about a 7, cute and nice body but has a bf, he chats with her sometimes and tells me how they're "close" and she likes him ... when i tell him to smash he looks at me like iam crazy and tells me shes not a sl*t and iam dumb for thinking what shes doing is wrong or bad (Obviously he has feelings for her) .

and all i can think of is " shes a girl with a bf who according to you is inappropriately touching you and sharing lots of intimate details about her life with you and even hinted at going out with you ", I am very logical and i have dated before and get a lot of attention from girls often, iam far from perfect but i can easily distinguish right from wrong and spot red flags and non-gf material girls .

He's a friend and i tell him exactly the truth as it is i dont paint it or lie , i told him she is someone who cant be trusted as a gf, if you want her (Which i dont suggest doing) then shes only good for sex, dont go after her or try dating her because such girls will leave you for someone else like they left someone else for you ... or even worse cheat on you while getting everything they can from you .

I am not the most experienced guy but i can easily spot bad gf material chicks, something so many guys seem to overlook whether it be on purpose or not is kinda my question, why so many men ignore the red flags and choose to get with a woman who will hurt them or use them .

 

[wifehunter]

why so many men ignore the red flags and choose to get with a woman who will hurt them or use them .

They just want to get their d!ck wet. That's all.

If they really wanted an LTR they'd back off because:

1. women need time and space to fall in love.

2. most red flags appear during this time.

IOW, they put screening on a lower priority to instant gratifcation.

Therefore, failure is imenent.

Then they come on this forum, crying like little b!tches.

 

[Urbanyst]

Most guys these days are DESPERATE.

Also BLUE PILL. Being blue pill is like driving your car with two flat tires.

LOL.

 

[Billtx49]

In quite a few cases it’s in being completely illiterate about female behavior in general, a very high male ego, and not even knowing what red flags are leading to disregarding those as mere quirks of her desire.
Any man can recognize cheating though, unless he’s completely desperate for some snatch and ignores it…

 

[soulforge]

This is the generation of males bought up by single mothers.. Offcourse they don't have a clue about what the fuk is going on!

 

[wifehunter]

This is the generation of males bought up by single mothers.. Offcourse they don't have a clue about what the fuk is going on!

I fail to see the difference between that, and having an orbiter drone for a father.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Great question.

I had a friend I confided in for the duration of a relationship, including the fact that my ex at the time had cheated and I took her back. I told him these things as they happened so absolute credibilty. Even her relatives told him she was garbage and she left her husband for more sex. Even to this day he believes I cheated on her and we broke up because I'm an azzhole, it's like his brain cannot allow the thought that a woman would be sketchy.

They can accept a shady and scummy dude but can't accept a lady can be shady and scummy and her outer appearance maybe very pretty.

 

[devilkingx2]

and she left her husband for more sex.

what does that mean?

 

[devilkingx2]

It means the reason she left her husband was to fvck other guys and no other reason

Damn. Sounds like a great FWB if she's so obsessed with sex, terrible to commit to though.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Damn. Sounds like a great FWB if she's so obsessed with sex, terrible to commit to though.

She not obsessed with sex she obsessed with "the new". Cause she could've fvcked her reliable man. I bet each escapade is very short even down to one night stand and she's off to the next.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

One true nature of females I was not respecting was how they behave like a flock of birds. So if their group is all into you so is she. If they don't like you you could be together, physically attractive, etc she won't mess with you. Also game. Game works because it deals with the world as they see it their matrix.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

One true nature of females I was not respecting was how they behave like a flock of birds. So if their group is all into you so is she. If they don't like you you could be together, physically attractive, etc she won't mess with you. Also game. Game works because it deals with the world as they see it their matrix.

They will often not violate game. Like it's the laws of physics.

 

[RangerMIke]

Most guys these days are DESPERATE.

Also BLUE PILL. Being blue pill is like driving your car with two flat tires.

LOL.

That'd s nice way to put it. I'll say they are pvssy starved jak@sses. I have seen men do the stupidest sh!t for pvssy....

True story, when I was a junior officer in the Army and stationed at Fort Ord me and some buddies of mine went to a club in San Jose. I got separated from my friends, but linked up with these two chicks and another dude I thought was the BF of one of the chicks. We left the place in the other dude's car... which was a new (in 1989) Lexis LS 400. We were all too drunk to drive, but the chick with the other dude said she was okay... so off we went.

I was making out with chick #2 in the back seat when a cop started pulling us over. What happened next I still find hard to believe. Chick #1 driving turns to the dude who owns the car to switch places with her, since she didn't 'think' she had her licence with her. This DUMB MOTHERFVCKER, did it.... Keep in mind that he had already told her that he was too drunk to drive. I sat in the back seat thinking "Damn... that's an awesome BF to take a bullet like this."

Predictably the dude was arrested for a DUI, during his field sobriety test he actually fell down. The cops asked us if anyone was okay to drive, and we all said no, and I paid for a cab to take the girls back home. This is when I found out the DUI dude was NOT THE BF, he was like me, just picked these chicks up at the club. When we got to their house Chick #1 got this little pout face and said "Well, now I don't have anyone to fvck me, so I guess we are going to have to share."

Then we had a three-way, while that poor stupid bastard sat in a drunk tank. I'm sure this idiot did this because he was only thinking of banging this chick, and believed it was going to help his chances by White Knighting for her.... don't be that dude. Because the only thing that is going to happen is you will be used and another dude will be fvcking your dream girl.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

That'd s nice way to put it. I'll say they are pvssy starved jak@sses. I have seen men do the stupidest sh!t for pvssy....

True story, when I was a junior officer in the Army and stationed at Fort Ord me and some buddies of mine went to a club in San Jose. I got separated from my friends, but linked up with these two chicks and another dude I thought was the BF of one of the chicks. We left the place in the other dude's car... which was a new (in 1989) Lexis LS 400. We were all too drunk to drive, but the chick with the other dude said she was okay... so off we went.

I was making out with chick #2 in the back seat when a cop started pulling us over. What happened next I still find hard to believe. Chick #1 driving turns to the dude who owns the car to switch places with her, since she didn't 'think' she had her licence with her. This DUMB MOTHERFVCKER, did it.... Keep in mind that he had already told her that he was too drunk to drive. I sat in the back seat thinking "Damn... that's an awesome BF to take a bullet like this."

Predictably the dude was arrested for a DUI, during his field sobriety test he actually fell down. The cops asked us if anyone was okay to drive, and we all said no, and I paid for a cab to take the girls back home. This is when I found out the DUI dude was NOT THE BF, he was like me, just picked these chicks up at the club. When we got to their house Chick #1 got this little pout face and said "Well, now I don't have anyone to fvck me, so I guess we are going to have to share."

Then we had a three-way, while that poor stupid bastard sat in a drunk tank. I'm sure this idiot did this because he was only thinking of banging this chick, and believed it was going to help his chances by White Knighting for her.... don't be that dude. Because the only thing that is going to happen is you will be used and another dude will be fvcking your dream girl.

Reminds me of a story I had just with out cops (well sort of technically) I enjoyed a personal night out at the casino, won a few hundred bucks, took an uber to a bar a few miles on the way back. Grabbed a corona and had this one white chick gothic chick started talking to me, she was all over me, but I kind of wanted to go home she was a HB5, average she had a friend with her who said she was a cop who was in training and they were with some dude who said he was in the army. Well the chick all over me kept asking me if I heard this band, and I should listen to them at her house. This was too easy, I'm a mixed guy and was suprised how easy this gothic motorcycle chick was coming on to me. The army vet dude who was with them came up to me with a smirk and was like you ruined my 3-some, I laughed and he was like don't worry I banged both of them earlier today. Anyway she tells her friend to drive me to her place, the girl all over me hops on the vets motorcycle and we're off their place. Long story short I banged both chick, I went out randomly not expecting anything and had a great night, I love midwestern chicks

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Reminds me of a story I had just with out cops (well sort of technically) I enjoyed a personal night out at the casino, won a few hundred bucks, took an uber to a bar a few miles on the way back. Grabbed a corona and had this one white chick gothic chick started talking to me, she was all over me, but I kind of wanted to go home she was a HB5, average she had a friend with her who said she was a cop who was in training and they were with some dude who said he was in the army. Well the chick all over me kept asking me if I heard this band, and I should listen to them at her house. This was too easy, I'm a mixed guy and was suprised how easy this gothic motorcycle chick was coming on to me. The army vet dude who was with them came up to me with a smirk and was like you ruined my 3-some, I laughed and he was like don't worry I banged both of them earlier today. Anyway she tells her friend to drive me to her place, the girl all over me hops on the vets motorcycle and we're off their place. Long story short I banged both chick, I went out randomly not expecting anything and had a great night, I love midwestern chicks, dude was cool he could of **** blocked, but he didn't. he did his thing with the females I did mine

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That'd s nice way to put it. I'll say they are pvssy starved jak@sses. I have seen men do the stupidest sh!t for pvssy....

True story, when I was a junior officer in the Army and stationed at Fort Ord me and some buddies of mine went to a club in San Jose. I got separated from my friends, but linked up with these two chicks and another dude I thought was the BF of one of the chicks. We left the place in the other dude's car... which was a new (in 1989) Lexis LS 400. We were all too drunk to drive, but the chick with the other dude said she was okay... so off we went.

I was making out with chick #2 in the back seat when a cop started pulling us over. What happened next I still find hard to believe. Chick #1 driving turns to the dude who owns the car to switch places with her, since she didn't 'think' she had her licence with her. This DUMB MOTHERFVCKER, did it.... Keep in mind that he had already told her that he was too drunk to drive. I sat in the back seat thinking "Damn... that's an awesome BF to take a bullet like this."

Predictably the dude was arrested for a DUI, during his field sobriety test he actually fell down. The cops asked us if anyone was okay to drive, and we all said no, and I paid for a cab to take the girls back home. This is when I found out the DUI dude was NOT THE BF, he was like me, just picked these chicks up at the club. When we got to their house Chick #1 got this little pout face and said "Well, now I don't have anyone to fvck me, so I guess we are going to have to share."

Then we had a three-way, while that poor stupid bastard sat in a drunk tank. I'm sure this idiot did this because he was only thinking of banging this chick, and believed it was going to help his chances by White Knighting for her.... don't be that dude. Because the only thing that is going to happen is you will be used and another dude will be fvcking your dream girl.

Wow she played him.

 

[ZaCool]

damn these stories seem to be quite common, more than i thought , i always knew it was bad to take the blame for a chick who wasnt your wife or so madly in love with you she can even bring herself to like ther men, but so many men seem to mess that, so many men seem very desperate for girls they are ready to ignore all the bad and imagine there is some good (even when it doesnt even exist) i cant even begin to tell you how many times i warned my friends , theyre smart till a chick shows up then its all over, they suddenly turn dumb , lose all logic and reason and do anything to get her ... like okay men do stupid **** to get women, but some **** should never be done, some **** is not just stupid and funny its harmful and will usually land you in some serious trouble while your chick is enjoying herself with another dude ... so many chicks sleep around and bang dudes who arent really showing an interest in taking care of them while using others that truly love them as personal servants, sad really but i guess just like smart men exist so do stupid ones .

 

[wifehunter]

damn these stories seem to be quite common, more than i thought , i always knew it was bad to take the blame for a chick who wasnt your wife or so madly in love with you she can even bring herself to like ther men, but so many men seem to mess that, so many men seem very desperate for girls they are ready to ignore all the bad and imagine there is some good (even when it doesnt even exist) i cant even begin to tell you how many times i warned my friends , theyre smart till a chick shows up then its all over, they suddenly turn dumb , lose all logic and reason and do anything to get her ... like okay men do stupid **** to get women, but some **** should never be done, some **** is not just stupid and funny its harmful and will usually land you in some serious trouble while your chick is enjoying herself with another dude ... so many chicks sleep around and bang dudes who arent really showing an interest in taking care of them while using others that truly love them as personal servants, sad really but i guess just like smart men exist so do stupid ones .

What's funny is... the worse it gets, the more obvious it gets.

Guys with weak frames, will get owned by a women. Destroyed. Then dumped.

Sounds like fun right?

These days, all I see are weak framed men. They should not go anywhere near a women until they attain a decent attraction level.

When it comes to game, attraction is King.

Building attraction = Having a life, passions, goals, interests and a mission. Etc. Etc. Etc.

Without these things, a man is a pathetic worm.

 

[JohnChops]

Most guys these days are DESPERATE.

Also BLUE PILL. Being blue pill is like driving your car with two flat tires.

LOL.

This. They think that pu$$y is like the fountain of ****ing youth, instead of smashing goals, working hard, and improving themselves, they just want to be lazy and expect to be a captain save a hoe and get a girl.

Fvcking pathetic.