I'm consistently meeting women who like me but none of them fit what I want

[bigdave17]

I was hanging out with this bartender who works at this dive bar I go to and at first, everything seemed great. She is 22, cute, nice body, super fun personality and she was very heavily into me. As the night went on, more and more I found out about her, she is nothing close to what I could consider dating - likes to smoke, big pothead, etc... She tried to kiss me at end of the night, I just gave her one awkward peck and told her good night. My dating madness continues

My basic problem is that the women who like me are never what I want (cute face, nice body, good personality, successful/mature/responsible/goal oriented/etc...). The women I want are almost always in situations where an approach scenario is very very difficult and the chance of rejection extraordinarily way - for example, a cute girl working out at a gym with headphones on, a cute girl at a bar with 8 of her friends.

I absolutely despise rejection so I go for the women who are actively looking to meet someone and they never end up being what I want. I get approached a lot also but again, nobody I could consider dating

I don't understand the guys in here who are okay approaching 50 women in a night and getting rejected 49 times. Doesn't that destroy your confidence and morale?

 

[devilkingx2]

I don't understand the guys in here who are okay approaching 50 women in a night and getting rejected 49 times. Doesn't that destroy your confidence and morale?

It does, that's why you should be calibrating better so you don't have a 2% success rate.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I was hanging out with this bartender who works at this dive bar I go to and at first, everything seemed great. She is 22, cute, nice body, super fun personality and she was very heavily into me. As the night went on, more and more I found out about her, she is nothing close to what I could consider dating - likes to smoke, big pothead, etc... She tried to kiss me at end of the night, I just gave her one awkward peck and told her good night. My dating madness continues

My basic problem is that the women who like me are never what I want (cute face, nice body, good personality, successful/mature/responsible/goal oriented/etc...). The women I want are almost always in situations where an approach scenario is very very difficult and the chance of rejection extraordinarily way - for example, a cute girl working out at a gym with headphones on, a cute girl at a bar with 8 of her friends.

I absolutely despise rejection so I go for the women who are actively looking to meet someone and they never end up being what I want. I get approached a lot also but again, nobody I could consider dating

I don't understand the guys in here who are okay approaching 50 women in a night and getting rejected 49 times. Doesn't that destroy your confidence and morale?

If you already have steady access to good pvssy it won't matter. Get you someone.

 

[bigdave17]

If you already have steady access to good pvssy it won't matter. Get you someone.

I want someone in my league dude

 

[devilkingx2]

I want someone in my league dude

if you're having trouble getting someone they're not in your league

 

[devilkingx2]

I was hanging out with this bartender who works at this dive bar I go to and at first, everything seemed great. She is 22, cute, nice body, super fun personality and she was very heavily into me. As the night went on, more and more I found out about her, she is nothing close to what I could consider dating - likes to smoke, big pothead, etc... She tried to kiss me at end of the night, I just gave her one awkward peck and told her good night. My dating madness continues

You are a Seinfeld character lol. Wtf kinda petty nonsense is that?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I was hanging out with this bartender who works at this dive bar I go to and at first, everything seemed great. She is 22, cute, nice body, super fun personality and she was very heavily into me. As the night went on, more and more I found out about her, she is nothing close to what I could consider dating - likes to smoke, big pothead, etc...

It's already been said 2,000 times before but you're not actually listening to anyone who posts in these threads.

The previous thread we all established that you seem to see yourself as some sort of 11/10 demigod who is looking for a 12/10 babe. Which is giving you unrealistic expectations.

On top of that you're STILL looking in completely the wrong places for what you claim you want.

What's more likely in a dive bar...you're going to meet a 10/10 gym model who has all this stuff you claim to want? Or are you more likely to meet a girl that smokes pot? It's blatantly obvious the latter will be in there, the former will probably be at some really expensive bar or on a yacht somewhere.

You may as well go to 420 Everyday: The Global Pot-Smoking Convention and then complain that the girls there smoke pot and you don't like that. Not to mention that you found her attractive and you just instantly rejected her one aspect of her whole being...ugh.

The women I want are almost always in situations where an approach scenario is very very difficult and the chance of rejection extraordinarily way - for example, a cute girl working out at a gym with headphones on, a cute girl at a bar with 8 of her friends.

You know, I bet even if you did approach them and they were "very heavily into you" you'd probably still be like "Well she had a great body and a beautiful face but she said that she likes Asian cuisine and I don't, so I NEXTed her and gave her a peck on the cheek. Why can't I ever find anyone good enough for me? I just want someone in my league."

I feel like you're kidding yourself that it's all in your control and you're rejecting these girls because you're "too good" for them. But actually it's just your own insecurity around rejection that means you're not getting with girls that are perfectly reasonable for you. You're just passing it off as your choice.

 

[derby1]

Op you aint even that good looking you d4ck head, 4 on a rainy day

 

[mrmuscles2]

Welcome to the club Fam ... heres the thing, most women today arent exactly dating material , yes all date and get married but dont confuse that with being a good wife, cause many arent .
now with that being said, girls who approach you or are actively doing everything they could can never be truly good gfs, they are usually more masculine than feminine and as you said smoke, drink alot and are potheads, not exactly the kind of women most men dream of marrying and having their babies, and the other part are usually the unattractive ones who see a guy they like and know if they dont make a move he never will .

problem is if a girl is cute,nice, caring, doesnt drink or smoke, educated, has not sexual history and comes from a good background the chances of her being taken is close to 90%, i know trust me i have been in the game for years, and rarely do i find such a gem free and waiting to be snatched, such girls are likely taken since highschool and just waiting to get married... keep looking, but not at bars, clubs or such places, you can never turn such a girl into a good gf ... in fact you cant turn any girl into anything, she either decent by her choice or not .