Would you have done the same?

[captain55]

I met some chick that is a legit 9/10. We started talking, I talk about my past women so she talks about hers. Says she used to go out with some celebrity. Tells me how she has some other celebrity coming out this weekend to come see her. And Im like
" is it just to hook up?" and she goes "yeah probably" So I take a mental note..

Fast forward a week after one date and this chick starts liking me. Blowing up my phone constantly. The second date things got pretty heated in her car I pull my **** out and she ended up giving me a handjob but the third date I ended up getting too drunk and carried away and she wouldn't let me smash because she thinks Im only after sex, and she likes me and wants to take things slow.

We had plans for valentines day but tonight I called and told her "look, I know your cautious about who you are intimate with. I know you like me. But you can't expect me to take things slow with you when you tell me you have a celebrity coming out for the weekend just to hook up with you and your cool with it"

She gets all defensive and claims she knew the guy longer than me blah blah blah.

Honestly I could of played it off, kept going out with her, and banged her anyway but for me my self respect was more important. I Get it....this guy is a celebrity and Im not. But I wasn't about to take a chick out for valentines day on an expensive date spending $300 to MAYBE get sex from her ....while she goes and gets railed by some celebrity this weekend that snaps his fingers.

I feel good about myself for doing what I did, but I don't have a valentines date Im into now either. This chick was also legit hot as **** and really into me but I don't think Ill ever look back or contact her unless she wants to come over and bang her.

 

[soulforge]

Dude you was almost pleading for sex..

If a chick tells you, that a so called celebrity is coming over at the weekend just to bang her, then you ALREADY know she is a trashy hoe!

So why would you spend £300 on a trashy hoe on Valentines day? I certainly wouldn't.

Who cares if she fuks this celebrity, that's what sluts do.. You should have played it cool.. Taken her out on a CHEAP ass date, smashed her, then sent her ass home!

If she refused to have sex, then no big deal... You just NEXT her...why the desperation, is she the only good looking chick in the world?

 

[derby1]

OP for someone who has been a forum member for so long, you are so misguided in your posts

but tonight I called and told her "look, I know your cautious about who you are intimate with. I know you like me. But you can't expect me to take things slow with you when you tell me you have a celebrity coming out for the weekend just to hook up with you and your cool with it"

what on earth are you doing? a woman youve been out with a couple of times, shes told you she hangs around with other men and your acting like your in a relationship with her!!!!!

shes a trashy hoe EVEN if shes using it to get a response from you!!

perhaps she doesnt really know any celebs??....(which has worked perfecty cause youve gone all emotional and its proved to her your weak)

so therefore you treat her like a trashy hoe as @soulforge says,

A guy with self respect would still get this low value chick round his to bang

 

[Murk]

You caught feelings when you knew what she was like. Even contemplating a $300 meal... what's wrong with some people? If an HB9 is chasing you while you behave like this you must have money, and she want's some.

 

[Von]

Sounds you dropped the ball.

Why bring other guys in the picture ? (You did by comparing yourself)

Why consider Ltr after 1 date?

You post is exactly what you shouldn't do (hoe or not)

Now you know. Learn

 

[Glassguy]

You implied a relationship knowing a chick was completely OK just hooking up (and telling you that she was going to fvck another dude soon)?????????

Holy shyte balls. Pull it together.

She told you what she wanted, you could have kept it cool and had a decent fwb until a better option or 2 came along. You NEVER insinuate a relationship, especially with a chick after a few dates lol.

If you want to bang her, just tell her that you are cool just hanging out and see what happens. But its probably too late for that with her now.

You might feel good about what you did, but being Mr. Morals wont get you laid with a chick like this. You totally tried to be Mr. White Knight with a wh0re.

 

[derby1]

OP why are you still doing this stuff when your a long term poster ...come on man

 

[marmel75]

OP should be embarrassed doing this stuff after being on the board this long. I wouldnt be posting about stuff like this if I were you. SMFH...

 

[Roober]

Agree with the others.. get your shizz together.... AND...

get that drinking under control!

But to add to what you should already know
-Don't talk about past partners. H3ll, I give a woman very little about me until I have known her for a couple months. And certainly not past partners.
-Why are you taking her on an expensive date for valentines after 2 dates?

You may need a reboot. Go read some material, and reset!

 

[The Duke]

I met some chick that is a legit 9/10. We started talking, I talk about my past women so she talks about hers. Says she used to go out with some celebrity. Tells me how she has some other celebrity coming out this weekend to come see her. And Im like
" is it just to hook up?" and she goes "yeah probably" So I take a mental note..

Fast forward a week after one date and this chick starts liking me. Blowing up my phone constantly. The second date things got pretty heated in her car I pull my **** out and she ended up giving me a handjob but the third date I ended up getting too drunk and carried away and she wouldn't let me smash because she thinks Im only after sex, and she likes me and wants to take things slow.

We had plans for valentines day but tonight I called and told her "look, I know your cautious about who you are intimate with. I know you like me. But you can't expect me to take things slow with you when you tell me you have a celebrity coming out for the weekend just to hook up with you and your cool with it"

She gets all defensive and claims she knew the guy longer than me blah blah blah.

Honestly I could of played it off, kept going out with her, and banged her anyway but for me my self respect was more important. I Get it....this guy is a celebrity and Im not. But I wasn't about to take a chick out for valentines day on an expensive date spending $300 to MAYBE get sex from her ....while she goes and gets railed by some celebrity this weekend that snaps his fingers.

I feel good about myself for doing what I did, but I don't have a valentines date Im into now either. This chick was also legit hot as **** and really into me but I don't think Ill ever look back or contact her unless she wants to come over and bang her.

What would I of done?........First off this chic is not cautious about who she is intimate with as you stated. She already admitted she would probably hook up with celebrity dude.

If my intentions were to fuhk a hot chic I would have followed thru with Valentines day plans minus the $300 part. More like some dinner then wine and movie at home for far less. If it was me should would have cranked off on the 2nd date, I'm pretty certain that I would be getting laid on the 3rd.

My intentions in the beginning are never to get laid. I have found myself to be much more successful with women when I just went with the flow and escalated as appropriate. If I am that desperate to get laid, I'll go buy a hooker.

Had I been looking for a solid girlfriend, I'd of cut ties as soon as she told me she was going to bang some celebrity.

Women love value and status don't they!

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Personally I would have done 1 of these 2:

1. Ditch it because why the f*ck is she telling you she's banging celebs? First that sounds like she's shallow asf, and secondly if she likes you why is she waving other guy's d*cks in your face? If she likes you she should want you to give it to her, not boast about other guys she's having sex with. Douchey behaviour and I would have dropped it right there.

2. On the other hand, you could have confronted her during the whole handjob thing and said "So you'd f*ck this celeb but not me? Because I'd bang you right now." Make her choose. You might have got to have sex with her instead of this limp-d*ck celeb. She can't have her cake and eat it.

You're a man, you have needs, you have other options. She shouldn't be telling you she likes you but she doesn't want you to have sex with her, she wants to f*** someone else...that's ridiculous and so selfish. Shows she's really trashy.

It's one thing if she says "I don't want to have sex yet". It's another if she says "I don't want to have sex with you yet, but hold on 2 secs while I f*** this other guy yeah?"

Crazy.

 

[marmel75]

Personally I would have done 1 of these 2:

1. Ditch it because why the f*ck is she telling you she's banging celebs? First that sounds like she's shallow asf, and secondly if she likes you why is she waving other guy's d*cks in your face? If she likes you she should want you to give it to her, not boast about other guys she's having sex with. Douchey behaviour and I would have dropped it right there.

2. On the other hand, you could have confronted her during the whole handjob thing and said "So you'd f*ck this celeb but not me? Because I'd bang you right now." Make her choose. You might have got to have sex with her instead of this limp-d*ck celeb. She can't have her cake and eat it.

You're a man, you have needs, you have other options. She shouldn't be telling you she likes you but she doesn't want you to have sex with her, she wants to f*** someone else...that's ridiculous and so selfish. Shows she's really trashy.

It's one thing if she says "I don't want to have sex yet". It's another if she says "I don't want to have sex with you yet, but hold on 2 secs while I f*** this other guy yeah?"

Crazy.

OP shouldnt be asking questions he doesn't really want the answer to. His hamster spins out of control enough let alone having to deal with her answer to that...there is smoke coming from OPs hamster wheel now.

 

[marmel75]

Sounds you dropped the ball.

Why bring other guys in the picture ? (You did by comparing yourself)

Why consider Ltr after 1 date?

You post is exactly what you shouldn't do (hoe or not)

Now you know. Learn

If you have read his other threads going back more than a year you'd realize he doesnt learn and continues to repeat the same mistakes over and over

 

[Bible_Belt]

Random casual sex with celebrities creates an environment that is likely to be one which your d!ck regrets.

 

[soulforge]

OP shouldnt be asking questions he doesn't really want the answer to. His hamster spins out of control enough let alone having to deal with her answer to that...there is smoke coming from OPs hamster wheel now.

Especially asking questions mid way through a hand job.. not great timing that.

 

[marmel75]

Speaking your mind and saving $300 in the process is great in my book. Plus you got the bj.

That's on him for planning to spend $300 in the first place. He basically saved him from himself...is this Big Gumby's cousin??

 

[marmel75]

So what, this isn't the blame game.

No blame game, simply decisions that should never be made. You dont spend $300 on a chick on the 3rd date...especially one you havent banged yet. This is like stuff you learn in 101

 

[soulforge]

Heck I would think twice about spending £300 on a female even if she was a solid Girlfriend lool

 

[soulforge]

No blame game, simply decisions that should never be made. You dont spend $300 on a chick on the 3rd date...especially one you havent banged yet. This is like stuff you learn in 101

This is correct...

He hasn't even banged this chick.. Another reason why we have so many entitled woman running around these days, because thirsty dudes, are so willing to throw money at them, in the desperate hope, she might give him some charity sex!

A fool and his money are soon parted.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Heck I would think twice about spending £300 on a female even if she was a solid Girlfriend lool

This.

I don't care if a girl is "9/10" or "5/10", gf or not, if she's giving me this kind of attitude or expecting £300 gifts off me she's going to find herself out of my life in 0.1 nanoseconds. It's not worth the headache.

No woman should expect £300 presents off you. I don't expect girls to buy me stuff, why is it fine for me to be running around after them with my wallet out?

Dignity is priceless and integral to your manly frame. You're eroding it every time you let girls treat you like crud or give expensive gifts for crap handjobs while she's humping someone else. You just damage your own self-respect.

Going back over my previous dealings with women there are so many times I wish I'd just said "You're going to treat me like that? Yeah, f*** off, see ya." and walked. That's my attitude now. Any girl that tells me to my face that she wants to f*** other men instead of me is going to get that reaction.