lets talk about cold approach

[devilkingx2]

Yeah, my point is you have to be successful to consistently attract HOT women. Otherwise you need looks or status to consistently attract them. Yeah.

Fair point, i can agree with that.

The "gross poor people" statement is a light shaming tactic implying that high VALUE people should see everyone as equals and not have an ego about their success. That's some blue pill sh*t.

Actually i meant that thinking you're too good for someone solely due to something stupid like money is a moronic way to go through life.

It makes way more sense to pick your friends based off of what you enjoy doing, and if you like to drink champagne on a golf course, then sure you'll only have rich friends and that's okay.

But turning down cool bros because they ordered a burger instead of fillet mignon is... Short sighted and closed minded, makes about as much sense as deciding that blondes make bad friends.

My brother is well traveled and upper middle class, i am neither. My brother is uptight, argumentative and foul tempered, i am relaxed, open minded and funny. Take a wild guess which one of us is more likeable in person

 

[Urbanyst]

Fair point, i can agree with that.



Actually i meant that thinking you're too good for someone solely due to something stupid like money is a moronic way to go through life.

It makes way more sense to pick your friends based off of what you enjoy doing, and if you like to drink champagne on a golf course, then sure you'll only have rich friends and that's okay.

But turning down cool bros because they ordered a burger instead of fillet mignon is... Short sighted and closed minded, makes about as much sense as deciding that blondes make bad friends.

My brother is well traveled and upper middle class, i am neither. My brother is uptight, argumentative and foul tempered, i am relaxed, open minded and funny. Take a wild guess which one of us is more likeable in person

I think you're taking the poor people comment to the extreme.

From my experience, guys who make way less money than you end up being jealous of you or feeling marginalized in some way. I hang out with people who I have things in common with. Not going to hang out with someone just because they are "cool" if I don't have jack sh*t in common with them lol.

Blue pill sh*t if you don't think people judge you based on looks, MONEY and status. Stupid if you want, but that's the way it is.

 

[Macaframalama]

But before you even think about approaching a woman, make sure you have superior looks, MONEY or status compared to the majority of the men around you.

Had to read and reread this? You're not being serious here right? Who gives a fvck about the men around you? Or her? "Um, lemme see, looks like I might have a shot if it weren't for this dude and his $300 dollar shoes standing next to her. ****, abort, abort!" Fvck that, looks like a good place to spot to pi$$, later on.

Otherwise she will wonder why this ass-clown is talking to her and starting trying to decide if he is a creep or someone she can friendzone later and turn into an orbiter lol.

Again, who gives a fvck what she thinks?.?. It's about you and what you want, not them. This is some backwards a$$ thinking. She'll get it all figured out, once you open your mouth.

 

[devilkingx2]

I think you're taking the poor people comment to the extreme.

you made it sound really extreme lol.

From my experience, guys who make way less money than you end up being jealous of you or feeling marginalized in some way. I hang out with people who I have things in common with. Not going to hang out with someone just because they are "cool" if I don't have jack sh*t in common with them lol.

in my experience having more money than your friends turns you into a loanshark, I used to be owed by so many people that when I didn't have money on some days so many people paid me back all at once that suddenly I had enough money for 4 lunches lol

but then again I dunno what you like to do with your friends, I went to a casino a few months ago and one drink cost me $17 (btw dry martinis suck james bond why did you lie to me), I can definitely see why you wouldn't want to go there with people who aren't loaded lol

Blue pill sh*t if you don't think people judge you based on looks, MONEY and status. Stupid if you want, but that's the way it is.

true but that's tragic, like a man who rejects a woman for having small boobs but never notices her nice ass until it's too late

 

[Urbanyst]

true but that's tragic, like a man who rejects a woman for having small boobs but never notices her nice ass until it's too late

The RED PILL is tragic.

But only because most people in the modern world are raised soft. A lot of adult children walking around.

 

[Urbanyst]

Had to read and reread this? You're not being serious here right? Who gives a fvck about the men around you? Or her? "Um, lemme see, looks like I might have a shot if it weren't for this dude and his $300 dollar shoes standing next to her. ****, abort, abort!" Fvck that, looks like a good place to spot to pi$$, later on.

Again, who gives a fvck what she thinks?.?. It's about you and what you want, not them. This is some backwards a$$ thinking. She'll get it all figured out, once you open your mouth.

Nah.

I know a lot of you clowns want to pretend you "don't care what women think" but of course you do. Otherwise you wouldn't be here.

If you want to consistently attract HOT women, you have to care what they think on some level. That is your key to success with them.

Women care what men think also. They have to if they want to attract and keep men. A woman who doesn't care what men think is usually single. Sometimes a cat lady.

 

[Macaframalama]

Nah.

I know a lot of you clowns want to pretend you "don't care what women think" but of course you do. Otherwise you wouldn't be here.

If you want to consistently attract HOT women, you have to care what they think on some level. That is your key to success with them.

Women care what men think also. They have to if they want to attract and keep men. A woman who doesn't care what men think is usually single. Sometimes a cat lady.

CTFU! You have to know and respect someone, before you can respect their opinion. She's going to think what she thinks. If we click, we click. I don't grasp how anyone could give a chit what someone they haven't even met thinks of them. I'm not saying, not to put your best foot forward, but you actually measure up the men in the vicinity of a hot chic that you want to holler at to see if you are up to standard? Why don't you just go ahead and ask them for approval, because validation from strangers is what you really want anyways. Lmao! Where's your balls kid?.?.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Ya know I am told all the time that cold approach is what I gotta do, not just for girls but to meet new people generally. But none of the people hanging out in those groups with hot women partying all the time got there by talking to random people looking weird.

 

[Urbanyst]

CTFU! You have to know and respect someone, before you can respect their opinion. She's going to think what she thinks. If we click, we click. I don't grasp how anyone could give a chit what someone they haven't even met thinks of them. I'm not saying, not to put your best foot forward, but you actually measure up the men in the vicinity of a hot chic that you want to holler at to see if you are up to standard? Why don't you just go ahead and ask them for approval, because validation from strangers is what you really want anyways. Lmao! Where's your balls kid?.?.

That's not what I said or meant at all lol.

Calm down and learn to read.

 

[devilkingx2]

Ya know I am told all the time that cold approach is what I gotta do, not just for girls but to meet new people generally. But none of the people hanging out in those groups with hot women partying all the time got there by talking to random people looking weird.

Cold approach improves your game really fast, and with good game you can do anything you want when it comes to women (assuming that there's nothing particularly wrong with you)

 

[Spaz]

But before you even think about approaching a woman, make sure you have superior looks, MONEY or status compared to the majority of the men around you. Otherwise she will wonder why this ass-clown is talking to her and starting trying to decide if he is a creep or someone she can friendzone later and turn into an orbiter lol.

This assumption is erroneously way off the mark.

I've taken beautiful women when I was poor, middled income and affluent. Made no difference.

What attracts anyone, male or female, is ur passion.

Simple elaboration;

Little Passion + Highly Effective = Lame - ness.

Passion + little Effectiveness = On the way to Greatness.

High Passion + High Effectiveness = Greatness.

Yes being effective makes you richer, dress better, look better but that doesn't make u great.
Reference is made to some threads whereby a rather handsome, young successful man with money consistently doesn't score or has trouble to get women is a case in point.

What he lacks is passion.

 

[Macaframalama]

That's not what I said or meant at all lol.

Calm down and learn to read.

But before you even think about approaching a woman, make sure you have superior looks, MONEY or status compared to the majority of the men around you.

That isn't what you said? Not sure what I'm misreading here?.?.

 

[Urbanyst]

That isn't what you said? Not sure what I'm misreading here?.?.

I said what I said. What you said is an exaggeration of what I said.

 

[Urbanyst]

This assumption is erroneously way off the mark.

I've taken beautiful women when I was poor, middled income and affluent. Made no difference.

What attracts anyone, male or female, is ur passion.

Simple elaboration;

Little Passion + Highly Effective = Lame - ness.

Passion + little Effectiveness = On the way to Greatness.

High Passion + High Effectiveness = Greatness.

Yes being effective makes you richer, dress better, look better but that doesn't make u great.
Reference is made to some threads whereby a rather handsome, young successful man with money consistently doesn't score or has trouble to get women is a case in point.

What he lacks is passion.

Passion? LOL.

Don't make me laugh.

Try being a homeless man with "passion" and see how many HOT women want to date you. Hahahaaha

 

[Spaz]

Passion? LOL.

Don't make me laugh.

Try being a homeless man with "passion" and see how many HOT women want to date you. Hahahaaha

I was basically "homeless" for much of my youth, got taken care for by woman and given money by woman to pursue my education.

I was consistently given money by woman until I was able. My 1st car was bought for by my Japanese girlfriend, I was 17 and she was 24.

U mean 2 tell me NO woman has EVER invested in u?
I'm sure ur mom did.

 

[Macaframalama]

I said what I said. What you said is an exaggeration of what I said.

I didn't exaggerate what you said at all. You said it. You've bought into LMS, so much that it's reduced your thinking to validation seeking. If you feel that you have to measure up to the other men competing for said woman, before you can act on your desires, then you are paralyzed and frozen in time. You are hindered by an imaginary, self imposed boundary. I won't argue that LMS aren't important, but they are far less important than you make them seem. You lack understanding of the intangibles. @Spaz touched on this with this...

U mean 2 tell me NO woman has EVER invested in u?

It's the ability to get a woman to invest herself financially, sexually and emotionally in you, that will take your game to a higher tier and keep you there.

 

[Urbanyst]

I didn't exaggerate what you said at all. You said it. You've bought into LMS, so much that it's reduced your thinking to validation seeking. If you feel that you have to measure up to the other men competing for said woman, before you can act on your desires, then you are paralyzed and frozen in time. You are hindered by an imaginary, self imposed boundary. I won't argue that LMS aren't important, but they are far less important than you make them seem. You lack understanding of the intangibles. @Spaz touched on this with this...

It's the ability to get a woman to invest herself financially, sexually and emotionally in you, that will take your game to a higher tier and keep you there.

Nope.. never said that trash. You said it and put my name under it.

Looks, MONEY and status is required to be competitive in the dating market. That's just a fact.

If you don't value your time.. then go right ahead and try to pick up 10's when you are a 5. Good luck.

My only advice is to know your VALUE before you start making moves. That way your expectations are realistic. Losers get lucky all the time. I'm talking about how to get consistent success with HOT women. CONSISTENT success with HOT women. CONSISTENT success with HOT women.

CONSISTENT success.

 

[Macaframalama]

Nope.. never said that trash. You said it and put my name under it.

You are fvcking delusional dude.

 

[Murk]

You guys are thinking too deeply into the intricacies of game. "He who dares wins".

Act on impulse, you see something you like, go talk to it.

When you start worrying about looks, money, status, you're becoming you're own enemy. Look at bigdave and his 20 threads on the same thing. He doesn't get women because he is not confident and doesn't believe he deserves what he wants. Fvck deserving, that's already a step too far in the thought process. Go fvcking go approach her.

Plenty of guys get by without either looks money or status. Confidence and boldness, target locked, attack.

When I approached that chick I posted in here, nothing was going through my mind accept this girl is hot, I'm gonna talk to her and get her number.

 

[Spaz]

Now I understand why some people shake their heads in disgust and simply couldnt understand why a HOT chick is walking around with some poor loser musician, artist or a fat dude.