I have posted about a woman I have been in an LTR with for about for over a year now.We met on Tinder she is BPD with 2 kids and a very hot blond .She love bombed me right from the get go,paying for all dates,buying gifts,on demand kinky sex.driving to see me 27 times over 13 months (over 90 miles ) to spend the weekends with me ect ect.I have been love bombed by BPD's in the past but this took the fvcking cake.I still agreed to an LTR after about 10 dates anyway( her pvssy drug was pretty powerful).I snooped her phone caught her texting other men.I put up Tinder and Bumble she saw them and got pissed but did not back off her love bombing one bit.There has been constant push/pull (that has been fun now that I am 100 % game aware) for 13 months.She did not show up this weekend (it was her turn ) first one she has missed.What a fvcking ride !! ( she sent me a break up text ) I am not down about it at all and already have dates set up and am talking to about 20 women online already.What a blessing SS has been as it has kept my heart and emotions guarded every step of the way ( the BPD demon failed to penetrate my inner frame) thank you SS !! Had I not been game aware I would have been creamed.
Awareness and the end of an "LTR"
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Bible_Belt
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If you can easily move on without her, then she's never going away. That's a bpd's ideal man. You're on the border; that's what she likes about you.
If you actually do want rid of her, confess your undying love and tell her your life is ruined without her. Then she'll ignore you for at least several months, at which point she will check back to make sure that your life is still ruined. Keep letting her think that as long as you want her to stay away.
If you actually do want rid of her, confess your undying love and tell her your life is ruined without her. Then she'll ignore you for at least several months, at which point she will check back to make sure that your life is still ruined. Keep letting her think that as long as you want her to stay away.
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Avoid BDP girls now
But you right, SS been a great source of game awareness and building a central frame (our man frame as individual) and to deal with life challenges and female interactions
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BPD? Border line personality disorder?
I knew I was an escape from her hum drum single momie life early on.Like all women (single moms) she only thinks about herself and puts her needs above everybody's including her kids.White Knights would attack me for some reason over it your right,but her ex whom she pawned her kids off on while running around with me is a deadbeat anyway who pays no support.It's not like I forced her to neglect her kids while running around with me having fun,I have found all single moms to act this way while dating though.I am no provider.Hell her own family even tried to penetrate my frame by inviting me to the family Christmas they have a lot of money and bought me presents so I did attend.You have a really great attitude.
One thing that strikes me with single mums, ditching the kids at peak-time weekend on the ex whilst out having fun. Then people moan at guys who rather be a lover than a provider
Game aware LTR's are awesome though. My longest has been 9 months thus far. Best that i've ever had. Likewise have no real arseache about it ending. Not that usual feeling of getting cheated out of value, played, and bitter taste.
Yes and let me tell you a secret about BPD's not every man will experience a BPD for these demons only go after a certain kind of man,and they are VERY choosy.
How long does it take to return back to normal after break up with an ex? Some people say a month other say 3 or 4. I am asking because even after meeting/dating/banging other women I have thought about my ex quite a bit today.
Bible_Belt
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The best answer is probably a fraction of the time that you were together with that ex, so it is longer if you were together for some time.
It was 9 months, and it's only 2 weeks in and I've have a rollercoaster ride - I thought I was fine, then I wasn't, then I was.
I can't afford to date all the women I'm arranging dates with but I'll be damned if I stay still, I can't go from something to nothing, I don't even think it's just s3x I want, it's the connection and companionship I'm really after.
I can't afford to date all the women I'm arranging dates with but I'll be damned if I stay still, I can't go from something to nothing, I don't even think it's just s3x I want, it's the connection and companionship I'm really after.
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
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I've been in a relationship with a single mother with 2 small kids, she was 20yrs younger.
Just that one time.
Until this day I can't fathom nor understand WHY I ended up with her for a few years.
Yeah, she's pretty sexy and adorable but so r many childless girls out there.
I've always wanted to end it.
Maybe it's the kids. I've always wanted a daughter
Anyways she was hooking me in as a father figure/provider/protector and mostly for s€X etc.
SM r dangerous.
I repeat-dangerous.
Stay away.
When i left it was really hard on me and the kids.
Just that one time.
Until this day I can't fathom nor understand WHY I ended up with her for a few years.
Yeah, she's pretty sexy and adorable but so r many childless girls out there.
I've always wanted to end it.
Maybe it's the kids. I've always wanted a daughter
Anyways she was hooking me in as a father figure/provider/protector and mostly for s€X etc.
SM r dangerous.
I repeat-dangerous.
Stay away.
When i left it was really hard on me and the kids.