OLD - Getting matches but no dates

[Macaframalama]

Treat it like a normal rotation. Pick up however many prospects you can handle at a time. I shoot for 3-5 through online dating and Facebook, then another 3 IRL, that I'm in the process of dating, partying with or fvcking and whatever new I run into out and about. During the span of a week, I'll shoot each one a text or two or they'll text, so we're talking and building rapport once or twice a week per chic. If they're not initiating much, replace. By the time you figure out 1 or 2 of the IRL chics isn't what you're looking for, you should have a few old chics ready to meet. This time frame varies. I've smashed chics within a few hours of initiating online and first date as long as two weeks. Spare the junk texts for the sake of keeping in contact and if they're not entertaining me, replace. Get the phone number and FB add, before asking to meet. Your banter isn't bad. Just don't be pushy for the meet at all, after they've voiced the need for more comfort. Don't let the texting back and forth become a time sink and keep old a supplement to meeting people IRL.

 

[djthiago1]

Treat it like a normal rotation. Pick up however many prospects you can handle at a time. I shoot for 3-5 through online dating and Facebook, then another 3 IRL, that I'm in the process of dating, partying with or fvcking and whatever new I run into out and about. During the span of a week, I'll shoot each one a text or two or they'll text, so we're talking and building rapport once or twice a week per chic. If they're not initiating much, replace. By the time you figure out 1 or 2 of the IRL chics isn't what you're looking for, you should have a few old chics ready to meet. This time frame varies. I've smashed chics within a few hours of initiating online and first date as long as two weeks. Spare the junk texts for the sake of keeping in contact and if they're not entertaining me, replace. Get the phone number and FB add, before asking to meet. Your banter isn't bad. Just don't be pushy for the meet at all, after they've voiced the need for more comfort. Don't let the texting back and forth become a time sink and keep old a supplement to meeting people IRL.

Don't be pushy for the meet? I thought this was the point of online dating hahaha
what is wrong with this generation?

 

[sosousage]

old is nearly only photos. b1tches cant say no for a meeting when you have at least two good pics.

so instead of wasting months on years on old without effects, go get ripped at gym, then do hundreds of pics, pick the best ones, and play with filters and photo edition


I am currently dating one girl but a lot of women agreed virtually for meeting with me but we havent set date. right now on tinder I just swipe right and dont text them saving them for later, economy lol

 

[Who Dares Win]

We saw countless experiments made from guys using a hot studs picture and getting numbers within 3 messages.

If they make too much resistante they are either there to pump their ego and seek attention or making you pay for you "below awesomeness" look.

Dont get me wrong Im an average guy and IME the girls willing to meet are usually positive about it within 10-12 messages.

Those who need more time, dont wanna fix dates and time or worse yet change topic and are passive toward the process are a waste.

 

[Macaframalama]

Don't be pushy for the meet? I thought this was the point of online dating hahaha
what is wrong with this generation?

Reread what I wrote. When she has said that she needs to build a little more comfort.

I said: It's a public place, during the day, and you'll be able to come and go whenever and however you want, 100% safe.

The is questioning her rational and negotiating. Never a good look. And what generation are you talking about? I'm almost 40. There's a difference in going after what you want and being pushy/needy after a chic has already expressed she feels uncomfortable.

 

[djthiago1]

old is nearly only photos. b1tches cant say no for a meeting when you have at least two good pics.

so instead of wasting months on years on old without effects, go get ripped at gym, then do hundreds of pics, pick the best ones, and play with filters and photo edition


I am currently dating one girl but a lot of women agreed virtually for meeting with me but we havent set date. right now on tinder I just swipe right and dont text them saving them for later, economy lol

We saw countless experiments made from guys using a hot studs picture and getting numbers within 3 messages.

If they make too much resistante they are either there to pump their ego and seek attention or making you pay for you "below awesomeness" look.

Dont get me wrong Im an average guy and IME the girls willing to meet are usually positive about it within 10-12 messages.

Those who need more time, dont wanna fix dates and time or worse yet change topic and are passive toward the process are a waste.

Just got a girl who wants me to cook dinner for her at my house, guess i was just getting bad leads. Curious.

Reread what I wrote. When she has said that she needs to build a little more comfort.


The is questioning her rational and negotiating. Never a good look. And what generation are you talking about? I'm almost 40. There's a difference in going after what you want and being pushy/needy after a chic has already expressed she feels uncomfortable.

I don't mean your generation, i mean theirs.
I say this because it seems kind of dumb to reject a date after they clearly liked your mug, besides, texting tells nothing about someone.

And i'm neither needy nor pushy, i always next after rejection.

 

[Murk]

So I matched this 31 year old (I'm 28) yesterday on my way to work, few message this morning on the app then she asked if I want to message on Whatsapp - exchange the digits and message her on Whatsapp:

Me: So what do I save your number as?
Her: Hey my name is Louise
Me: Hi Louise, what are you up to?
Her: Just chilling on the sofa not much. How about you?
Me: Just cooked lunch and about to do some laundry, boring Saturday. Did you do much last night?
Her: No I went to my friends for a bit and came home and went to bed I was tired from the week did you do anything?
Me: Nah drank some wine and did some tidying, tired from the week too plus most of my friends were busy
Her: So you like wine. Red white rose? Or all of them lol. Aww babe. Well I can be ur new friend now
Me: Red! Sometimes white. So when are you taking me for a drink then?
Her: Lol when are you taking me?
Me: When are you free? Where do you live?
Her: Islington. Well I'm actually free tonight
Me: OK lets do something tonight
Her: Ye sounds good
Me: OK what area shall we meet
Her: We could meet in Shoreditch or central somewhere
Me: Good shout, I'll call you.
Her: Ok

So that is the whole convo in the space of like 15 minutes and now I have a date for tonight. This has never happened so quick ie. chatting on whatsapp to arrange a date the same night. I think she is defo DTF, no silly chit chat, she didn't ask on the app any personal questions to get to know me, hardly any jokes or banter between us. Part of me really can't be bothered to leave my house tonight and I need a fresh haircut but due to splitting with the crazy ex and having no plans or dates until midweek and next Friday I'm gonna go for the adventure/experience.

 

[Macaframalama]

I don't mean your generation, i mean theirs.
I say this because it seems kind of dumb to reject a date after they clearly liked your mug, besides, texting tells nothing about someone.

Idk. I assume to see if a guy is going to come off as pushy or needy. Maybe, to just see if there is some commonality first. There's some crazy ppl out there too. I personally don't care for it if they are too eager to meet me either, unless I'm looking for a pump and dump.

 

[Murk]

This girl actually sounds pretty cool on the phone, agreed for 9pm so I can't flake out now. Trying to save money so gonna pre drink and do some coke before hand.

 

[Urbanyst]

Low interest.

A lot of these girls are just attention wh*res who have no intention of ever meeting you, but have no problem wasting your time to boost their ego.

Once you have experienced the behavior of women with high interest, you know right away when a woman is not feeling you that much. When women are lukewarm you are better off pulling back, not trying harder.

Its better for the soul to only reward women who show high interest.

 

[Murk]

Exactly, my post above is a woman that is about this life, I've come across many stupid girls that want to play games, you can't waste time on those ones.

 

[marmel75]

Latest example:

*Girl had as bio: Meme and animal lover*

Me - what are you fav animals and meme pages on fb?

her - dogs and *famous meme page in my country*

me - well that doesn't count, everybody likes dogs and that meme page

her - hahaha sorry for not being unique

me - i was expecting "crocodiles and roman memes" haha

her - ask me for my second fav animal then

me - i'll bite. what's your second fav animal?

her - cows

me - what haha what do you like about cows? if it was horses i'd get it, but cows? BBQ maybe ?

her - hahaha i love bbqs, but that's not why ----> *long texts on why she loves cows*

me - you seem to have a nice personality, we should meet.

her - we should haha

me - lets get some *local food you guys wouldn't know* on sunday at 17h

her - I can't do it on sunday i got work, and let's get to know each other better before we meet in person, i just installed the app.

That's usually how it goes, light and fun chat, and then they ghost or give me some "text more" excuse after i ask them out.

I never try and pin them down on a certain date, I ask them what their schedule is like or when are they free next week and then pick one of the days they give. It works a lot easier that way