I'm a 47 year old man looking young and very fit and handsome. A 25-year-old girl in my office has been smiling a lot for a few months at me and we exchanged numbers a month back, lots of chats, three times went out, she encouraged me to call her sweet names, even suggested a few, she's always the first to initiate text messages, and a couple times she even brought somethings for me to eat and drink. On our last dinner, I kissed her on her forehead, she did not tell anything, and then I kissed her on her cheek, she was calm, and again I asked her to come closer to me and she did and I grabbed her and kissed her on her lips. She displayed a little resistance in the ending. I also grabber her hand and kissed her on her hands. Five minutes later, she asked what's our relationship and why I kissed her. She is my vibrational match, same value system and we both understand each other very well. I said I got attracted and kissed her. She later told me she's not interested in this kind of relationship. We are still talking and chatting. She says she sees me as a friend. Why did she do all of that, asking to call her sweety and all that non-sense. Ever since we have not gone out. What could be the issue