girl who brings no money on date

[derby1]

went out the other night and about 5 rounds of drinks in

* so thats 10 drinks,

i kind of liked dropped hints that my cash was getting lower (this was poor pre planning on my behalf we were in a village)

i had this woman literally gushing on my bed so thats all good.......

however ive been ghosted

i presume this is a cardinal sin ive done asking her to politely get her purse out lol

TBF most chicks ive dated at round 3 have usually said ill get this round!!!!

 

[djthiago1]

Would James Bond or Cary Grant ask a woman to pay on a date ?

 

[derby1]

ive asked a rhetorical question i can see lmao,
still perhaps says more about her that 5 drinks in she didnt pay for a round.....2018 after all equallity and all that

 

[devilkingx2]

low quality woman. unless you're loaded and don't like to spend wisely you shouldn't let a woman spend all your money unless you get your drinks cheap.

don't get serious with a woman like that, and go NC if she ever lets a date end without you getting laid and having a good time, assuming she puts out and is a decent date you can put up with her not paying for anything for a while

however ive been ghosted

i presume this is a cardinal sin ive done asking her to politely get her purse out lol

what would you think of a friend of yours who stopped hanging out with you the moment he stopped getting free drinks and food from you during the hangouts?

 

[Billtx49]

i presume this is a cardinal sin ive done asking her to politely get her purse out lol

She offers to help pay or she doesn’t. Asking her to help is as bad as saying she’s an expensive date. Makes you look cheap or broke…

 

[derby1]

just to confirm she found some money in the end .....my bad live and learn

 

[djthiago1]

You're not supposed to ask for a woman to pay, you're supposed to EXPECT that she offers it after a few dates, either by cooking for you or paying for the whole date.
If you ask a girl to pay you come off as cheap and rude (because YOU invited).

 

[derby1]

id like to add i wouldnt usually have done this ......................it was totally my fault,

i was just presuming that ive pulled off a massive dealbreaker

 

[jaymbrs]

You posted a thread WHILE on a date??

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Gave her good sex...

She obviously was attracted to you since she went out with you in the first place...

Yet she STILL ghosted.

There comes a time where I think we should just admit there is no sense to be made of their brains.

They have us all bending over backwards trying to figure out something that has no logical answer (their brain).

 

[RichardTheFrog]

We ALL pay for sex.

A prostitute is direct and upfront about it.

Non prostitutes expect food gifts Etc in exchange for sex.

I still am not sure if this is true.

I know there are people having free sex out there.

 

[Infern0]

Would James Bond or Cary Grant ask a woman to pay on a date ?

They probably weren't dating instasluts and tinder*****s though

To be fair

 

[devilkingx2]

I still am not sure if this is true.

I know there are people having free sex out there.

guys who screen for girls that want your d!ck not your money