So I was part of book reading club, and this club had a whatsapp group ( where almost everything apart from books are discussed ).
Anyways me having a little free time decided to chat up in the group. To get the entire group to be active I used a Role Playing Opener ( "I am forming a team to rob a bank, I am the getaway driver, take your roles people!"), and a few of the active members started coming up with roles etc ( it was fun ).
Anyway there is this girl, whom I assigned the role of distraction and she questioned:
her: "why so?".
Me: "because you are the cute playful one of the group right (puppy)!".
The moment i said this her replies comes "Ahem".
And then the second girl replied "dude do not pass your boundaries ", the same girl (first one) even said my remark was creepy & derogatory and I should learn more about people.
My point is I wasn't flirting or anything, it was just a friendly joke! Why did they react that way? The other group member tease her that way all the time! What would you do in a situation like this?
One more thing: that group is totally into feminism and stuff. I had an argument with the second chick for using the term "ugly girl" in a fictional example [she called me sexist etc].
Anyways me having a little free time decided to chat up in the group. To get the entire group to be active I used a Role Playing Opener ( "I am forming a team to rob a bank, I am the getaway driver, take your roles people!"), and a few of the active members started coming up with roles etc ( it was fun ).
Anyway there is this girl, whom I assigned the role of distraction and she questioned:
her: "why so?".
Me: "because you are the cute playful one of the group right (puppy)!".
The moment i said this her replies comes "Ahem".
And then the second girl replied "dude do not pass your boundaries ", the same girl (first one) even said my remark was creepy & derogatory and I should learn more about people.
My point is I wasn't flirting or anything, it was just a friendly joke! Why did they react that way? The other group member tease her that way all the time! What would you do in a situation like this?
One more thing: that group is totally into feminism and stuff. I had an argument with the second chick for using the term "ugly girl" in a fictional example [she called me sexist etc].
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