I've never been in a super serious relationship so I may not give the best advice. Although everybody has gone through a period in which they don't feel good about themselves because of a relaitonship going sour. I cope best by finding some rebound chicks; whether it is to hook up, go on dates or just for some company. Just actively seek female interactions to keep your head in the game. Don't overthink dude, every one goes through these type of things and it's not the end of the world. Your not going to feel the same level of compassion for these girls but it definitely helps. Also, your putting a lot of emphasis on the "relationship" because that label gave you this idea of being wanted. Never rely on someone else for that satisfaction. It sucks, I know, but your beating yourself up for something that won't affect you a year from now. Time heals everything.
i get a lot of confidence from banging girls especially if you bang two and they dont know about each other
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Why wouldn't success with women increase you self esteem ? Yeah it feeds the ego no doubt, but most guys with big egos don't really have self esteem issues.
