Do not take any texts serious

[Pandora]

This is my second post about how ridiculous text messaging is. I am passionate about this subject because it is the most common obstacle for men. I literally had another girl tell me over text that she had no feelings for me and that we should stop talking. Two hours later we are having crazy sex in the back of my vehicle. This is a constant pattern. If I had a nickel for every women that curved me over text, then when they saw me in person it was a different story. My friends go through the exact same thing too. In person they can not hide their true feelings for you. But over text they are looking for ways to disqualify you. They don't even answer half of the time but they see you and fu*k you. They can not sense your charm over text. They get too into their own heads when technology separates them.

Women become viscous and delusional creatures when using technology. Much of what they say by text is not a true representation of their feelings. It is a tragedy that most of the way we communicate with women is through text messages and technology. If we saw these women every week in person, much of our issues would be resolved.

If anyone doubts what I am saying I can send pictures of these text messages. Its like once you are separated from them its a toss up as to whether or not you will see them again. And most of it is not your fault. Its the fault of them being separated from you and having all these crazy ideas in their head. Technology has ruined dating.

 

[derby1]

I agree...ive had women who ive had great times with, probably 5 dates gone excellent

Then... One wrong word in a text and thats it POOFFF

I feel like saying "having spent 5 nights with me, do you not have the common sense to know my text was just a bit of sarcasm, and would have been said with a smile to your face"

 

[Pandora]

I agree...ive had women who ive had great times with, probably 5 dates gone excellent

Then... One wrong word in a text and thats it POOFFF

I feel like saying "having spent 5 nights with me, do you not have the common sense to know my text was just a bit of sarcasm, and would have been said with a smile to your face"

Brooo this is exactly what I am saying. I am glad that you can relate. Its very frustrating. How stupid do these women have to be to let 0's and 1's on a screen dictate their love life. Shouldn't how the person acts in REAL life supersede any texts.

I just can't wrap my brain around how childish a woman's mind must be to let text messages dictate her romantic life. I want to explain to them that in the grand scope of human existence, that text messaging is barely even a blip on the screen. Its not natural to human communication at all.

We did not evolve with it. So therefore give more preference to how you feel with the guy in real life. I swear that some women are retarded.

My sister once told me that if a guy doesn't vibe with her over text then it turns her off. WTF....How the **** can you vibe over text? Most communication is non verbal. Over text you can't percieve body language, smell, vocal tone, sarcasm, comedic timing or any of that stuff that makes us human.

These girls are making life choices over if a guy sent an Emoji or not! WTF.... It is difficult not to lose respect for these women. If a man told you that he stopped dating a girl that was awesome because she texted weird you would smack the sh*t out of him.

The crazy thing is that if you ever get the chance to see them face to face again they suddenly snap out of their retardation. They always do. Then they **** you again and then when you leave they play the stupid text game.

Its like you can't win. I knew they had abundance but I didn't know that they had it to this level. Where a few bad text sessions even after going on awesome dates with you or having sex with you can make them go ghost.

 

[derby1]

Yep had one go ghost on me recently spent the weekend together as i was going away anyway,
Even put her mom on loudspeaker to say shes had the best weekend ever.......thats quite a bold directional move im sure you ll agree
Texted on the monday to say thanks for great weekend,
i think i called her "lover" in the reply it was just playful and we were only early days

then she replied "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS ARE WE MR!!!!"

BOOMF GHOST!!!

I mean ffs OP if weve got to analyze every text now cause we put the word lover or babe in we got no chance

Dont even get me started on when they say "I dont like needy people, im a confident single woman with a well paid job who has her own life also"......
Yet they are as neeedy as fck ....thats ok

 

[Alvafe]

I agree...ive had women who ive had great times with, probably 5 dates gone excellent

Then... One wrong word in a text and thats it POOFFF

I feel like saying "having spent 5 nights with me, do you not have the common sense to know my text was just a bit of sarcasm, and would have been said with a smile to your face"

if a woman do this then I sorry to say you are not her best option, you shouldn't take woman serious, ask her out, bang her and let her care about the relationship thing

 

[derby1]

if a woman do this then I sorry to say you are not her best option

im afraid im making the point of how neurotic they are, you must not deal with the women we do

 

[logicallefty]

I use text to build rapport. To show her that I am not dull and boring to talk to. Never get into a serious talk with a women over text who you are trying to court. Light and funny only. And don't talk too much about sex. A little is just fine but don't let it consume the whole conversation. And when she starts talking too serious over text, asking serious questions, etc., time to cut it off and restart a new conversation another day.

 

[Atom Smasher]

then she replied "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS ARE WE MR!!!!"

BOOMF GHOST!!!

Yoda's ex she was?

And are you by any chance related to Ed Norton, "Boomfing" your way out like a boss?

 

[derby1]

Yoda's ex she was?

every single one of them is turning into paranoid whacko's,

ive met about 1 out of 10 recently who when i text her bk a little later cause im busy, she says its great im working hard!!!

the other 9 figure **** out in there head

 

[va2000]

After 4 years in this LTR I have to agree, it's just a really bad medium of communication with women. You start to think she is able to reason through your words when she "gets it" a few times and then bam, the mood swing happens and she takes completely sane phrases to mean the opposite or infuses her own ideas into all of your words as if subtext is just so goddamn necessary she has to fill in blanks you didn't think were there... haha

It just serves to remind us to keep communication to a logistical minimum and only deviate when we have a plan or need to seed anticipation. At the very least, try to give her your manly voice with a normal phone call, no matter how brief.

 

[exhausted]

Brooo this is exactly what I am saying. I am glad that you can relate. Its very frustrating. How stupid do these women have to be to let 0's and 1's on a screen dictate their love life. Shouldn't how the person acts in REAL life supersede any texts.

I just can't wrap my brain around how childish a woman's mind must be to let text messages dictate her romantic life. I want to explain to them that in the grand scope of human existence, that text messaging is barely even a blip on the screen. Its not natural to human communication at all.

We did not evolve with it. So therefore give more preference to how you feel with the guy in real life. I swear that some women are retarded.

My sister once told me that if a guy doesn't vibe with her over text then it turns her off. WTF....How the **** can you vibe over text? Most communication is non verbal. Over text you can't percieve body language, smell, vocal tone, sarcasm, comedic timing or any of that stuff that makes us human.

These girls are making life choices over if a guy sent an Emoji or not! WTF.... It is difficult not to lose respect for these women. If a man told you that he stopped dating a girl that was awesome because she texted weird you would smack the sh*t out of him.

The crazy thing is that if you ever get the chance to see them face to face again they suddenly snap out of their retardation. They always do. Then they **** you again and then when you leave they play the stupid text game.

Its like you can't win. I knew they had abundance but I didn't know that they had it to this level. Where a few bad text sessions even after going on awesome dates with you or having sex with you can make them go ghost.

Women are extremely stupid.

 

[Macaframalama]

I would urge y'all to check out the ebook "Text Appeal" on Amason. Well worth the money. I myself miss the old days, but it's either roll with it or get rolled over anymore. Saying that tone cannot be projected or perceived via text is completely false. It's the biggest benefit of texting. Emotions and vibrations can triggered through text. Don't believe me? Tell her she's a fat, ugly b!tch over text and see how triggered she gets. Comfort can be built via text. Rapport can be built via text. Banter can be used to lay the groundwork for escalation. It can be a very convenient shortcut to getting in her head, get her wheel spinning and keep it spinning with minimal effort. It's just another tool in the tool box and can be an extremely effective and efficient one, at that.

 

[SanDog11]

This is my second post about how ridiculous text messaging is. I am passionate about this subject because it is the most common obstacle for men. I literally had another girl tell me over text that she had no feelings for me and that we should stop talking. Two hours later we are having crazy sex in the back of my vehicle. This is a constant pattern. If I had a nickel for every women that curved me over text, then when they saw me in person it was a different story. My friends go through the exact same thing too. In person they can not hide their true feelings for you. But over text they are looking for ways to disqualify you. They don't even answer half of the time but they see you and fu*k you. They can not sense your charm over text. They get too into their own heads when technology separates them.

Women become viscous and delusional creatures when using technology. Much of what they say by text is not a true representation of their feelings. It is a tragedy that most of the way we communicate with women is through text messages and technology. If we saw these women every week in person, much of our issues would be resolved.

If anyone doubts what I am saying I can send pictures of these text messages. Its like once you are separated from them its a toss up as to whether or not you will see them again. And most of it is not your fault. Its the fault of them being separated from you and having all these crazy ideas in their head. Technology has ruined dating.

Damn dude this text is spot on. This one girl who I slept with twice got pissed at me two weeks ago and said I was too aggressive and that she wanted to be left alone! She said, "remember that next time you like a girl"....then two weeks later she sees me and I'm in her bed.

I never even text her anymore because it never gets me anywhere! She'll either write something very stand offish, or she will not respond at all. But if she sees me in town then she can't take her eyes off me and we end up hooking up.....

 

[Pandora]

Damn dude this text is spot on. This one girl who I slept with twice got pissed at me two weeks ago and said I was too aggressive and that she wanted to be left alone! She said, "remember that next time you like a girl"....then two weeks later she sees me and I'm in her bed.

I never even text her anymore because it never gets me anywhere! She'll either write something very stand offish, or she will not respond at all. But if she sees me in town then she can't take her eyes off me and we end up hooking up.....

This is becoming typical brother. It is pure insanity and endlessly fascinating. Can you imagine how many potential LTRs that may have led to a wonderful marriage that these women have sabotaged because of texting? Women are literally destroying their lives because of the behavior they exhibit through texting.

These girls can't introspect for a second and say " wait when I see him I like him, but over text I throw him away, maybe I actually really like him but texting masks my attraction for him." That is basic logic and self-awareness 101. That proves that women have no self awareness ( or at least the women that do this which is like 70% of them). If a person had ANY type of self awareness they would notice the extreme discrepancy between the real life behavior and the virtual text behavior.

Another reason they do this is because when they are in their phone they have a ton of other distractions. They can be distracted by the 5 guys texting them. They can also be distracted by instagram, Facebook, etc. So they never have to confront reality as long as they are in the make believe world of their phone. When they see you face to face they have to confront reality. I will say this over and over. Technology specifically texting has done more the mess up dating than almost anything else. The smart phone rather.

 

[djthiago1]

Cellphones are the MOST D A N G E R O U S tool in a relationship, let that sink into your minds.

Don't start a texting pattern and get rid of social media as soon as you get into a LTR.

My ex drove me aboslutelly insane with texting, yet she was an angel face to face. DO NOT FALL INTO THE TEXTING TRAP.

 

[ohrein]

I use text to build rapport. To show her that I am not dull and boring to talk to. Never get into a serious talk with a women over text who you are trying to court. Light and funny only. And don't talk too much about sex. A little is just fine but don't let it consume the whole conversation. And when she starts talking too serious over text, asking serious questions, etc., time to cut it off and restart a new conversation another day.

Came to post this. Text to arrange seeing each other and if you end up chatting in text I just try to amp up the humor.

 

[Pandora]

Cellphones are the MOST D A N G E R O U S tool in a relationship, let that sink into your minds.

Don't start a texting pattern and get rid of social media as soon as you get into a LTR.

My ex drove me aboslutelly insane with texting, yet she was an angel face to face. DO NOT FALL INTO THE TEXTING TRAP.

Exactly. It is the most dangerous tool in any seduction process. These girls are literally different people over text than they are in person....its bizarre bro. I guess its like how people are different on internet comments and when you see them in real life its a different story lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Exactly. It is the most dangerous tool in any seduction process. These girls are literally different people over text than they are in person....its bizarre bro. I guess its like how people are different on internet comments and when you see them in real life its a different story lol

What's the real person?

 

[Pandora]

What's the real person?

Good question.I don't know which one is the real person. Maybe the way she is over text is actually indicative of her real character? idk

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Good question.I don't know which one is the real person. Maybe the way she is over text is actually indicative of her real character? idk

It maybe thoughts that never get put in action or what sounds juicy. The real one is based on their actions.