Conversation with Hooters bartender

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

But did it lead to having sex with her? That would be the important piece of info.

The thing is, it’s practice for a time where you WILL fvck another woman. You can learn something that works well for you that may not work for others. Likewise you may find out things that others say is so important but doesn’t necessarily work for you. That’s the idea behind just making conversation anywhere—you get better at doing it with women. Had you had practice before, you may not have frozen up and may have been able to bang those women whom commented on your shirt. That’s why knowing how to talk and make conversation is important. It’s socializing with them on a simere level. Now men are not like this, but to women, sex is another form of socializing too, just on a much higher and more complex level.

 

[MatureDJ]

So you talked to a woman whose job it is to somewhat flirt with you in anticipation of getting tips - and is wearing PG-rated, sexually exciting attire, and working in a place whose name is taken from one of the slang words for teats.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Average chicks are harder to talk to then hot women from my personal experiences

 

[RichardTheFrog]

So you talked to a woman whose job it is to somewhat flirt with you in anticipation of getting tips - and is wearing PG-rated, sexually exciting attire, and working in a place whose name is taken from one of the slang words for teats.

Gtfo my posts if you have nothing constructive to say.

I'm worth way more than some bartender.

 

[sph21]

I know this seems like a boring post, but it was actually pretty exciting. I would rate this more exciting than jumping out of a plane. Of course, over text, you can't see things like body language and eye contact.

No, It's not a boring post. You've finally making a progress. It doesn't matter if it's a small progress. I'm happy for you.

Previously, I wrote that there's no hope for you. Apparently, I was wrong.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

No, It's not a boring post. You've finally making a progress. It doesn't matter if it's a small progress. I'm happy for you.

Previously, I wrote that there's no hope for you. Apparently, I was wrong.

I've actually done this hundreds of times. This is just the first time I've talked about it.

I still think girls are fake as fvck, and mostly uninteresting.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'm just wondering how you're not getting more girls when you're wearing shirts like that.

In all seriousness Rich, breastaurants are how I managed to sharpen my speaking skills with women. I've managed to f*ck 3 Hooters girls from the same Hooters in the same year. I did however ride a crotch rocket and that was a panty dropper. Anyway, continue hitting those kind of places up and actually get to know the girls. You may end up getting setup with one of their friends.

Do you think it was mostly the bike? Or speaking skills and personality? You think a Ferrari would have a similar effect?

How did they know what you drove? They can't see it from inside.

What kinds of stuff did you talk about at the bar? Did you know the other guys that went there?

 

[jaymbrs]

Do you think it was mostly the bike? Or speaking skills and personality? You think a Ferrari would have a similar effect?

How did they know what you drove? They can't see it from inside.

What kinds of stuff did you talk about at the bar? Did you know the other guys that went there?

If these are serious questions, I’ll say the bike was a great ice breaker. I carried my helmet in with me so they knew I rode. A conversation would stem from that.
I also used to be a server so I used that as a way to show them we had something in common. We would share our experiences in the restaurant business. It all sounds PG but the fact that I was hearing them out, told them I was a good listener. So things continued to build off that.

 

[Macaframalama]

I've actually done this hundreds of times. This is just the first time I've talked about it.

I still think girls are fake as fvck, and mostly uninteresting.

Bruh, you don't get to create several dozen posts about how you've dropped the ball and was afraid to speak to the b!tch and, then act like it's business as usual and you just didn't admit to it. There's mf'rs here that have accepted you for you and your past and are pulling for you. Don't lie to kick it with a bunch of anonymous posters, that you'll never meet.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Bruh, you don't get to create several dozen posts about how you've dropped the ball and was afraid to speak to the b!tch and, then act like it's business as usual and you just didn't admit to it. There's mf'rs here that have accepted you for you and your past and are pulling for you. Don't lie to kick it with a bunch of anonymous posters, that you'll never meet.

I have had hundreds, if not thousands, of conversations with bartenders.

That Hooters conversation I just talked about was very boring looking back on it

I have never made any effort to fit in with people on this forum.

 

[Macaframalama]

I have had hundreds, if not thousands, of conversations with bartenders.

That Hooters conversation I just talked about was very boring looking back on it

I have never made any effort to fit in with people on this forum.

You've never made an effort to fit in with anyone Richard. Much less contribute to or attempt to be an equal. You just suck time, thought and resources from the group and probably everyone around you. First, you say you don't know what to say and you are afraid/frozen to say anything and now you are saying that you've interacted thousands of times to look macho. Which is it? Because, if you've interacted thousands of times with beautiful women, you don't need no one's fvcking help.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You've never made an effort to fit in with anyone Richard. Much less contribute to or attempt to be an equal. You just suck time, thought and resources from the group and probably everyone around you. First, you say you don't know what to say and you are afraid/frozen to say anything and now you are saying that you've interacted thousands of times to look macho. Which is it? Because, if you've interacted thousands of times with beautiful women, you don't need no one's fvcking help.

I'm not trying to act macho. I'm stating facts.

Since when am I part of a group? You mean a group on this website of people who insult everything I say?

I still don't know what to say half the time. But I don't really think that's my fault. Maybe the girls are just boring.

The girl at Hooters wasn't even that hot. But she wasn't ugly. I guess most people would call her hot.

In fact, I almost never know what to say as an opener because it's always something forced. Yet I have ZERO trouble talking about things that are factual. I can talk to a girl that works at Home Depot for an hour about cabinet selections. Does that count? That's talking to a girl, right?

I'm supposed to know some voodoo magic about how to start conversations out of thin air?

But having pointless conversations with bartenders is not anyone's goal, even if I have done that thousands of times. They're still fvcking their boyfriend at the end of the night, not the guy who made small talk with them at the bar.

 

[Macaframalama]

I'm staying facts.

Don't know what to believe at this point. Doesn't matter what I believe anyways. It's your truth that you are living.

You mean a group on this website of people who insult everything I say?

Dude, there's always going to be ppl that insult. I'm positive the extreme red pillers on this site hate everything I say. Who cares. You have far more ppl wanting to see you succeed and routing for you than you think.

still don't know what to say half the time. But I don't really think that's my fault. Maybe the girls are just boring.

This...

In fact, I almost never know what to say as an opener because it's always something forced. Yet I have ZERO trouble talking about things that are factual. I can talk to a girl that works at Home Depot for an hour about cabinet selections. Does that count? That's talking to a girl, right?

This...

I'm supposed to know some voodoo magic about how to start conversations out of thin air?

And this, is just attention and validation seeking manipulation bro. You already know the answers and the plan of progression, yet you buck the system, question it's validity, dismiss just about every solid piece of advice you are given. You're on some high level gaslight mind manipulation chit bro. I don't say this to be mean or just to insult you, but I've seen it before from b!tches that do this chit for a living.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If these are serious questions, I’ll say the bike was a great ice breaker. I carried my helmet in with me so they knew I rode. A conversation would stem from that.
I also used to be a server so I used that as a way to show them we had something in common. We would share our experiences in the restaurant business. It all sounds PG but the fact that I was hearing them out, told them I was a good listener. So things continued to build off that.

How did you transition from talking inside the restaurant to spending time outside of it?

Did you have to take them out, or just straight to the bedroom?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Don't know what to believe at this point. Doesn't matter what I believe anyways. It's your truth that you are living.

Dude, there's always going to be ppl that insult. I'm positive the extreme red pillers on this site hate everything I say. Who cares. You have far more ppl wanting to see you succeed and routing for you than you think.

This...

This...

And this, is just attention and validation seeking manipulation bro. You already know the answers and the plan of progression, yet you buck the system, question it's validity, dismiss just about every solid piece of advice you are given. You're on some high level gaslight mind manipulation chit bro. I don't say this to be mean or just to insult you, but I've seen it before from b!tches that do this chit for a living.

No, they're honest questions.

You are saying that I'm trying to manipulate people?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

If these are serious questions, I’ll say the bike was a great ice breaker. I carried my helmet in with me so they knew I rode. A conversation would stem from that.
I also used to be a server so I used that as a way to show them we had something in common. We would share our experiences in the restaurant business. It all sounds PG but the fact that I was hearing them out, told them I was a good listener. So things continued to build off that.

Yup my bike has helped me get laid plenty of times over the yrs. Lol or well I should say my great personality. It's actually a fun date but I always make them earn it.

Funny side note my ex wf was a hooters girl....haha.

@jaymbrs what do you ride?

 

[jaymbrs]

How did you transition from talking inside the restaurant to spending time outside of it?

Did you have to take them out, or just straight to the bedroom?

I had a one night stand with one when I ran into her at a Humperdinks on New Years eve. She and 2 other Hooters chicks had a hotel reserved. She recognized me from her Hooters and was obviously tipsy. Another I had the pleasure of banging after drinking it up with her when her shift ended. Took her for a ride and ended up back at her place. The 3rd I actually dated for a little bit but ended up banging after 2nd date.

Yup my bike has helped me get laid plenty of times over the yrs. Lol or well I should say my great personality. It's actually a fun date but I always make them earn it.

Funny side note my ex wf was a hooters girl....haha.

@jaymbrs what do you ride?

I have a 2007 GSXR600 all black. I still have it. But I'll admit it mostly sits in storage collecting dust. Been considering selling it lately just because the bike night scene just isn't my thing anymore. Too many morons out there and I've had more than a handful of friends go down hard on theirs.

 

[skinnyguy]

I'm not trying to act macho. I'm stating facts.

Since when am I part of a group? You mean a group on this website of people who insult everything I say?

I still don't know what to say half the time. But I don't really think that's my fault. Maybe the girls are just boring.

The girl at Hooters wasn't even that hot. But she wasn't ugly. I guess most people would call her hot.

In fact, I almost never know what to say as an opener because it's always something forced. Yet I have ZERO trouble talking about things that are factual. I can talk to a girl that works at Home Depot for an hour about cabinet selections. Does that count? That's talking to a girl, right?

I'm supposed to know some voodoo magic about how to start conversations out of thin air?

But having pointless conversations with bartenders is not anyone's goal, even if I have done that thousands of times. They're still fvcking their boyfriend at the end of the night, not the guy who made small talk with them at the bar.

The guys who insult you, or who make fun of you for paying for girls on SA are probably paying THOUSANDS of dollars each month in child support to a woman who doesn't let them see their b.astard children. This happens very often in America it seems.

I'd rather be an AFC than some chump who has baby mama drama or ex gf drama. You've saved a ton of money not dealing with dumb women like that.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The guys who insult you, or who make fun of you for paying for girls on SA are probably paying THOUSANDS of dollars each month in child support to a woman who doesn't let them see their b.astard children. This happens very often in America it seems.

I'd rather be an AFC than some chump who has baby mama drama or ex gf drama. You've saved a ton of money not dealing with dumb women like that.

There's nothing average about me.

I'm worth way more than all of these girls. They don't have anything of value other than a stinking hole.

It's the world that is fvcked up and backwards.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I have a 2007 GSXR600 all black. I still have it. But I'll admit it mostly sits in storage collecting dust. Been considering selling it lately just because the bike night scene just isn't my thing anymore. Too many morons out there and I've had more than a handful of friends go down hard on theirs.

Nice, I always loved the gixxer 750 with the blue and white.

Yeah I switched from rocket to cruiser but I hear you I don't ride nearly as much. It was really bad for awhile when texting blew up 10yrs ago or so. It's gotten a little better but I still usually avoid the big city.