Things Not To Tell Girls You Meet

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How about a few fake (or real) tattoo tears under your eye to enhance the effect?
This sounds like it might be delivered more humorously than seriously. But what do I know?
What the heck is "four game"? Never heard of that.
ONL or four game means one night lay or four. Get it?
Its definitely not LTR game.
 

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Don't say anything that will not make you more attractive. Always ask yourself before you open you mouth is "Is what I am about to say make me more attractive?" If the answer is no... don't say it. Don't talk about problems or any negative sh!t... even if she brings it up. When you first meet a chick, you have to put on the demeanor that you are a fun guy, and the Captain of the USS Fun Boat.

Save all the serious, political, philosophical and religious discussions with your guy friends.... chicks are boring as fvck talking about anything serious...
I have a buddy who recently re-entered the dating market... he believes he has to be honest and upfront, basically the exact opposite of what you say here.

Dude needs serious help, but he won't listen to me...
 

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I'm usually unfiltered and say whatever I want, other than that I fart alot. Lol. Once you start formulating and trying to concoct all the answers you think she wants to hear, they can smell that bvll**** from a mile away. I've heard mystery is supposed to be attractive and maybe some are curious as to what is going to come out of my mouth next, but most find the bluntness refreshing. I know I do as well. I get to be myself and they get the comfort of feeling like they can be themselves in my presence. Life is too short for anything else.
I have a buddy who recently re-entered the dating market... he believes he has to be honest and upfront, basically the exact opposite of what you say here.

Dude needs serious help, but he won't listen to me...
From personal experience, the only time you should be yourself is when you know you've got the girl. Before that you need to only portray positive traits, whether it's real or fake.
 

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From personal experience, the only time you should be yourself is when you know you've got the girl. Before that you need to only portray positive traits, whether it's real or fake.
Maybe, if your personality sucks. Grown men, at no time, change who they are for anyone. Some men choose not to reveal everything about themselves and their lives and that's a completely different thing. Some men want to make a woman earn it. Nothing wrong with that, but in no way do you not be yourself. If there are things you feel you need to hide that badly, I would say work on fixing that.
 

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Maybe, if your personality sucks. Grown men, at no time, change who they are for anyone. Some men choose not to reveal everything about themselves and their lives and that's a completely different thing. Some men want to make a woman earn it. Nothing wrong with that, but in no way do you not be yourself. If there are things you feel you need to hide that badly, I would say work on fixing that.
I would like this 100 times if I could.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I would like this 100 times if I could.
Yea man, if I had only thought this way earlier in life. I spent all my teens up until my late 20's worrying what other people thought and fearful of being myself in certain social situations. It really is a heavy burden, that we put on ourselves unnecessarily, especially in our teens and trying to fit in. It was like flipping a switch and my 30's have been a blast.
 
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