“We Are Together or Not, No Inbetween”

[FMCSMT]

That’s the text I got from my ex tonight. I banged her twice in one night over a week ago. She’s a 7 and some would probably say an 8-9. She’s a 10 in bed and super in to me. Too much. I don’t do relationships anymore. I’m very forthcoming and lay down the law up front after reading The Rationale Male. I get laid my way a lot more too.

I like banging her but I won’t ltr any girl. I have 3 kids 50/50 and their mom is a sh*thead in my opinion, always bringing me drama, hates me when I have gf, hates me less when I don’t, she actually cheated, I kept the house, CPS the whole war, she lost...and remarried a textbook beta. But, cmon how ya gonna beat an alpha right?

Truth be told, I let any woman live with me, my children’s home is at stake due to the false garbage they call pull at anytime. I can’t do it, ever.

This ex is a good bang tho. She says she’s hurt blah blah I don’t care about anything other than the next time we bang.

I’ve let her go. And she texts me that she’s done too. I concur. She hates that. It’s thay internal IDGAF attitude. I know I offer way way more and she should be chasing me but I only want to bang occasionally (see above about 50/50). I also have my own awesome life.

Banging them is only a small part of the relationship, as one good friend once told me. Then I only need a small amount of their overall time then, yes?

Back to the topic. Her text has me stumped. I really don’t care because I’m going to bed but am curious how the great minds in here would respond?

Thanks in advance!

 

[Fireballs]

"little spoons don't make the rules"

 

[lizardking82]

Sounds like a cold world your world LOL

 

[Trump]

That’s the text I got from my ex tonight. I banged her twice in one night over a week ago. She’s a 7 and some would probably say an 8-9. She’s a 10 in bed and super in to me.

I’m very forthcoming and lay down the law up front after reading The Rationale Male. I get laid my way a lot more too.

Her text has me stumped. I really don’t care because I’m going to bed but am curious how the great minds in here would respond?

Thanks in advance!

When men say "I don't really care," it means "I really care."

Bro if you are:

- textbook alpha
- can get laid alot
- lay down the law
- are very upfront

Why is ONE text from an EX making your head spin in circles?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

When men say "I don't really care," it means "I really care."

Bro if you are:

- textbook alpha
- can get laid alot
- lay down the law
- are very upfront

Why is ONE text from an EX making your head spin in circles?

Did you not read what he wrote? Bruh, if a chick is ultra into you, pretty damn good looking, and a 10 in the sac, and is just better than most women you deal with overall, wouldn’t it still irk you to lose her if you know there might be a way not to? You lack social understanding.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

That’s the text I got from my ex tonight. I banged her twice in one night over a week ago. She’s a 7 and some would probably say an 8-9. She’s a 10 in bed and super in to me. Too much. I don’t do relationships anymore. I’m very forthcoming and lay down the law up front after reading The Rationale Male. I get laid my way a lot more too.

I like banging her but I won’t ltr any girl. I have 3 kids 50/50 and their mom is a sh*thead in my opinion, always bringing me drama, hates me when I have gf, hates me less when I don’t, she actually cheated, I kept the house, CPS the whole war, she lost...and remarried a textbook beta. But, cmon how ya gonna beat an alpha right?

Truth be told, I let any woman live with me, my children’s home is at stake due to the false garbage they call pull at anytime. I can’t do it, ever.

This ex is a good bang tho. She says she’s hurt blah blah I don’t care about anything other than the next time we bang.

I’ve let her go. And she texts me that she’s done too. I concur. She hates that. It’s thay internal IDGAF attitude. I know I offer way way more and she should be chasing me but I only want to bang occasionally (see above about 50/50). I also have my own awesome life.

Banging them is only a small part of the relationship, as one good friend once told me. Then I only need a small amount of their overall time then, yes?

Back to the topic. Her text has me stumped. I really don’t care because I’m going to bed but am curious how the great minds in here would respond?

Thanks in advance!

Tell her she’s wrong about you not caring and that you’re deeply hurt....

You care about the next two times you bang.

-Augustus-

 

[Roober]

You don't want an LTR and she does. Seems like a very simple equation.

Most here would probably say just keep smashing her giving her the impression you would give her a relationship.

I would go against the grain and just tell her you like "hanging out, let's have fun and not complicate things because my life is wayyy too complicated already". Giving in to an LTR when it's clear you don't want one would be weak.

 

[sazc]

I would go against the grain and just tell her you like "hanging out, let's have fun and not complicate things because my life is wayyy too complicated already".

Definitely say something. Saying nothing or leading her on into thinking you are a couple, when you are not, is going to really mess with her head if/when she finds out you ied/ are smashing other females. Not saying anything/leading her on, is what causes the anxiety that you guys eventually mislabel as BPD behavior.

True, you dont want to lose a plate, but part of being a man, being a leader, is the ability to be honest and let the chips fall where they may.

 

[Billtx49]

Her text is basically a demand for you to comply to her wishes and it’s coming way too soon.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

go insane on her, she stills loves you. string her along and maniuplate her emotions until she wants to off herself.

jk

every cute girl I know has a few guys she's leading on making them miserable, while there eyes are set on the top guy that doesn't even care she exists.

you having a kid with a cute girl that's crazy is fvcking bruuttalllll bro, I've been going through it for 2 years and don't know wtf is going to happen in the future with my child.

 

[Urbanyst]

Ultimatums are cute and make me hard.

 

[Dingo]

When your with someone long enough this conversation is inevitable....

Interested to see what others say.

 

[Trump]

Did you not read what he wrote? Bruh, if a chick is ultra into you, pretty damn good looking, and a 10 in the sac, and is just better than most women you deal with overall, wouldn’t it still irk you to lose her if you know there might be a way not to? You lack social understanding.

It would irk me if I wasn’t forthcoming and couldn’t get laid easily and was a beta. Oh wait.

I’m very forthcoming and lay down the law up front after reading The Rationale Male. I get laid my way a lot more too.

she lost...and remarried a textbook beta. But, cmon how ya gonna beat an alpha right?

What are you talking about bro? He slept with her 18 different ways from Sunday, twice in one week, and 7 words from her in a text message makes his head spin? If she was so fabulous and sexy and 10/10 and could melt hearts and make movie stars jealous, then why is she an ex?

Men, remember, when you have sex with a girl you like, keep on doing the SAME thing. Do not start acting differently. If you keep on doing the same thing and she starts withdrawing sex or complaining or playing games, she is good for sex and nothing more.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It would irk me if I wasn’t forthcoming and couldn’t get laid easily and was a beta. Oh wait.

No, it would still irk you because those type of women are harder to find than your average club hoe

 

[user43770]

When your with someone long enough this conversation is inevitable....

Interested to see what others say.

Yep. You can only string women along for so long before they want more from the relationship.

If your desires don't coincide, it's best to let them move on. No point in fighting it, which is just selfish really.

 

[FMCSMT]

When men say "I don't really care," it means "I really care."

Bro if you are:

- textbook alpha
- can get laid alot
- lay down the law
- are very upfront

Why is ONE text from an EX making your head spin in circles?

Head spin? That's a little bit of an exaggeration///

 

[FMCSMT]

Did you not read what he wrote? Bruh, if a chick is ultra into you, pretty damn good looking, and a 10 in the sac, and is just better than most women you deal with overall, wouldn’t it still irk you to lose her if you know there might be a way not to? You lack social understanding.

No, absolutely not. I have encouraged her to go find what she is looking for. I truly DGAF

 

[FMCSMT]

Definitely say something. Saying nothing or leading her on into thinking you are a couple, when you are not, is going to really mess with her head if/when she finds out you ied/ are smashing other females. Not saying anything/leading her on, is what causes the anxiety that you guys eventually mislabel as BPD behavior.

True, you dont want to lose a plate, but part of being a man, being a leader, is the ability to be honest and let the chips fall where they may.

She actually went to a close friend of mine yesterday, via text, asking why I do not want a relationship even if means no more sex.

This was my response word for word:

Because I fell in love with freedom.
Freedom to make my own choices
Freedom to take care of my own kids
Freedom to make as much or as little money that I want to
Freedom to live where I want, work where I want, and **** who I want

 

[FMCSMT]

go insane on her, she stills loves you. string her along and maniuplate her emotions until she wants to off herself.

jk

every cute girl I know has a few guys she's leading on making them miserable, while there eyes are set on the top guy that doesn't even care she exists.

you having a kid with a cute girl that's crazy is fvcking bruuttalllll bro, I've been going through it for 2 years and don't know wtf is going to happen in the future with my child.

3 years since separation in a few weeks. Joint Physical and Legal Custody with 50/50 Parenting Time. I don't talk to her or work with her via email/text in any way. I can't stand mom and she knows it. It's a firm "don't talk to me, ever" attitude since she attempted to undermine custody and stole the children away from me. Perhaps, that is for another post..

Since I pay her child support with the above stated, I treat her as a babysitter. Cheap one at that. I control the future by working with professionals, mediators and filing motions and marching her as to the courthouse if she does not agree with what I have proposed in the name of "best interests of the children". She has folded every time.

Full disclosure: I am still damaged from the effects of my family being tore apart and it is brutal dealing with her face to face, cops called to my house 5 times for "welfare checks", child protective women workers who absolutely have a hard on for me because I have proved my ex to be a liar and threatened their jobs but I always love my question I ask them "at the end of the day, who is their daddy?....am I their daddy?....ok then".

LTR is not in the cards for me now or in the future and I am upfront about that day one.

I have told several women know that I own the "Orgasm Express" and am the founder of "CBDT" - Cuck Blocker Distraction Team. I have learned, there are many good ones, and there are far more benefits to any woman dating me, than I dating her.

 

[teebear]

The right thing to do is to let her go. Wouldn't you want that if the roles were reversed?