I lost my girl to a pro athlete

[captain55]

My guess is that you game is not good enough. I have personally seen many cases when a woman left a rich beta guy for a poor alpha. If she left you for a rich dude, you probably became more of a ***** and lost that original alpha she fell for.

Lol....A rich man will always be more alpha than a poor man in a woman’s eyes. Money is everything. You need no game if you have money. A poor guy needs to constantly have other hot women notice him to keep his woman interested in him. A rich man doesn’t...she knows he can get a woman any time. She has more to lose, a potential provider....

This is coming from a national level bodybuilder that used his looks and physique to get women for years and didn’t have much money until recently. If you don’t believe me go to Hollywood or Vegas and buy some bottle service...you won’t need to leave your seat

 

[lizardking82]

This is what happens to guys here who sleep with an "8" or with a "9" LOL. You keep sleeping with shallow women and then you wonder why they cheat.

 

[Urbanyst]

Not if you leave them first. Also in my opinion if a really hot chick 8/10 or better in her 20’s is with a guy coming in on over a year or two and he has not made any plans on marrying or having kids with her she has a right to leave. The guy is basically rejecting her by not wanting a family with her or wifing her up.

Now if the guy truly wanted to have kids and a life with her and she leaves that is another story. I just think it’s hilarious how guys string women along for two years and get surprised when she leaves suddenly. Knock a chick up or propose to her shes a lot more likely to stay through hard times.

LOL.

Why do you assume every woman wants to get married and have kids?

 

[marmel75]

Sucks but some women always are looking for upgrades in their minds even when they know they rank low on his list of options...

They'd rather buy a lottery ticket for a million dollars than have a steady job so to speak...

 

[Bible_Belt]

A rich man will always be more alpha than a poor man in a woman’s eyes.

Yes, provided the woman is a wh0re.

 

[zekko]

At least you lost her to a high value guy.

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

At least you lost her to a high value guy.

Lol yeah I've lost girls to worse guys. Basement dwellers, low rank gang members, middle aged married men.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Really, does tennis count as a sport? I was hoping you were going to say to a NBA or at least an NFL player.

Yeah, and Phelps fvcked 2 Miss California’s and a sportscaster all at the same time and he ‘just swims’. Usain Bolt’s gf stated to the media that she’s “used to sharing her boyfriend” and all he did was run around in circles his whole life hahahaha

Takes on a whole new meaning when you’re a top level athlete no matter who you are. Even professional ‘gamers’ get some pretty hot chicks sometimes and they’re just Esports, not even a real ****ing sport for goodness sake. It’s literally just going one step up at a time. You **** the number 100 guy, that means that you’re in contact with the newscaster who is in contact with the number 1 guy. Bitches go ****ing all 3 of them till they get what they want. It’s how it works. #hypergamy You gotta love it man....

 

[way2smart]

Lol....A rich man will always be more alpha than a poor man in a woman’s eyes

That's not true. I make 250k a year and back when I was a beta wuss, women would use me left and right and would eventually leave for a poor alpha. Every single time!

 

[Urbanyst]

That's not true. I make 250k a year and back when I was a beta wuss, women would use me left and right and would eventually leave for a poor alpha. Every single time!

Yeah, if you lean too much on your MONEY women will see it as a crutch and not respect you.

MONEY is supreme when combined with other great qualities. If MONEY is all you have, it is all women will want from you. So you'll get used for your cash until she doesn't need or want it anymore lol.

 

[QuadDeuces]

At least she is not leaving you for the garbage man or the local drug dealer.

 

[captain55]

Yes, provided the woman is a wh0re.

In my experience not the case. I wish you were right but I’ve actually found the most high value women tend to place more emphasis on what a man does for a living. Please tell me how a woman wanting a man with $ so she is financially secure and can have a nice life makes her promiscuous?

If anything *****s are more likely to settle for low value guys with no money. Look at how many beautiful bpd women go for total losers. When i see a high value girl, that continues to get involved with low value guys its usually sets my cluster b siren off. The low value guys probably have the free time to fill her emotional needs and be an emotional tampon to deal with her issues ...where as a rich guy just wants her to cook for him and to **** her whenever he wants and won’t deal with her **** like the low value guy will. If a high value woman dates low value men it’s a turn off for me...

 

[Bible_Belt]

Please tell me how a woman wanting a man with $ so she is financially secure and can have a nice life makes her promiscuous?

You seem to be mixing up "slvt" and "wh0re." The latter sells the pvssy, the former gives it away a little too freely.

A gold-digging virgin and a back-alley prostitute are both wh0res in my mind, because they are both after your money.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

learn tennis and beat the guy at his own game she'll come back (;

 

[Bayne05]

B¡tches are always looking for a better deal. It has nothing to do with being alpha, she just saw more benefits dating the other guy so she hopped on his d¡ck.
I've had girls who had boyfriends with similar traits as me but dumped them simply because I had a bigger d¡ck and they verbally confessed to that.
In your case I'm guessing you're both financially secure but she discovered the other guy can get her to exclusive events since he's a pro athlete and she can use that exposure as a model. Who knows....bottom line is b¡tches are always going to choose what's better, your feelings don't mean sh¡t.

 

[sosousage]

Yeah, and Phelps fvcked 2 Miss California’s and a sportscaster all at the same time and he ‘just swims’. Usain Bolt’s gf stated to the media that she’s “used to sharing her boyfriend” and all he did was run around in circles his whole life hahahaha

Takes on a whole new meaning when you’re a top level athlete no matter who you are. Even professional ‘gamers’ get some pretty hot chicks sometimes and they’re just Esports, not even a real ****ing sport for goodness sake. It’s literally just going one step up at a time. You **** the number 100 guy, that means that you’re in contact with the newscaster who is in contact with the number 1 guy. Bitches go ****ing all 3 of them till they get what they want. It’s how it works. #hypergamy You gotta love it man....

swimming and running are sexy dude. and they train your body as hell, mind too

 

[zekko]

she discovered the other guy can get her to exclusive events since he's a pro athlete and she can use that exposure as a model. Who knows....bottom line is b¡tches are always going to choose what's better, your feelings don't mean sh¡t.

Yeah, I think this is a case where a guy invites a girl into his world. And as a pro tennis player, he's going to a lot of events and to her it's a new and exciting world, and if she gets to travel with him and go to Wimbledon and whatever, that might be very appealing.

 

[Von]

Sounds you crashed and became a beta, so she started looking at the better deal... I have a perspective/theory... if a girl who is in love with you (dating/bounding with you) and she feel that her guy find another guy ''higher'' than him... she will start seeing the same.. hence the better deal.

If her guy feels ''beta'' compared to this other dude... than she will reflect like a miror.

Money/status etc... have nothing to do with getting laid... they are just ''results' but these 'results' come from fundamental values and attributes that everyone look for...

Heck, if guys here say ''you need money, you need status... to get laid''.... Imagine how the girl react!

So the Tennis Player, when you started giving him importance and started feeling insecure... you literally threw her in his arms... cause you validated her feelings.

If she had been emotionally happy and you kept your frame... you would have never had that situation nor this thread.

Take it has a learning experience: Make her emotionnally happy, always keep your frame.... actually frame is the most important part because emotions fluctuate and there is up and down... that's why I believe frame is there to reassert the emotions of the girl, reassure her of the ''better deal'' and the leading qualities of her man. That's why guys can't allow to have their frame down...Anyway... its a sum of it all... it takes work

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

swimming and running are sexy dude. and they train your body as hell, mind too

No ****, but some people will tell you otherwise. That’s why that guy didn’t consider it a big deal that he was a tennis player, even though tennis is an international sport whereas basketball, baseball, and AMERICAN football don’t really exist anywhere else in the world. Such ignorance when it comes to sports. That’s how you know that dude has never played sports competitively in his life.

 

[teebear]

The fact that you had this conversation with her tells me you turned into a big wuss.
The very instant you found out about this you should have asked her to leave your sight. Things have changed and im evaluating the situation. BYE.

This has nothing to do with upgrade or money or tennis.
You gave up your value to this woman. She disrespected you and ypu put up with it. Ypur 2nd mistake was giving her so much value based on looks. And giving a fck.

I see this advice all the time. With all due respect, I don't think it's that simple when it comes to women you truly like. Plates - yeah - during the early going, maybe.

We're human beings. You meet a pretty girl, have sex with her and you develop feelings. It's only natural to want to keep that going as long as possible. If I'm honest, I want to be the one who gets bored and bails out first. Not the other way around.

OP, the good news is that you landed an "8" this time so it goes without saying that you'll be able to do it over and over again. There's an excellent chance that this girl will be back but you owe it to yourself to explore your options. I doubt you'd take her back anyways. At the bare minimum, those of us around here understand how foolish that is.

Beautiful women are everywhere. I see dozens of them every day. They're not that rare, or special.