Stay away from the "F"in BPDs

[051AV]

I found out today my replacement had a heart attack phuck I didn't want to hear that the man is only 33-34 years old WTF. I've known this him since 2011 he's had issues with his weight then he took the bull by the horns changed his life style and got himself down to a healthy BMI. He was proud of the fact he changed things around for himself. Eating healthy, working out, he quit smoking and his overall demeanor improved. He turned ****y with his new look and wanted to be with my ex so he went after her. She had other plans for him ie use him for his money and what ever she could. She hid her ugly side for a year I don't know how she did it because her ugly side reared its head with me 2 months into the relationship.

I know I shouldn't care but I'm angry, I know how manipulative and sadistic this little b*tch is. Bragged about destroying her previous BF, claiming he committed suicide. She hates her father so much I'm not really sure if she likes men at all.

I don't have feelings for her I don't care about her but when I heard her BF had a heart attack because of her it bothers me. Why? because I knew what her BF was like before she got in a relationship with him.

 

[phil2015]

A BPD woman can literally drive you to having a heart attack.....They have a habit of exploding, creating drama from nothing and argueing over the littlest things

Check the screenshot below.....Just allowed this to fizzle out with a similar type of woman. This one was in treatment for depression/anxiety/problems etc

Hers is the white text.....



It's an early grave with this kind of behaviour

 

[exhausted]

I found out today my replacement had a heart attack phuck I didn't want to hear that the man is only 33-34 years old WTF. I've known this him since 2011 he's had issues with his weight then he took the bull by the horns changed his life style and got himself down to a healthy BMI. He was proud of the fact he changed things around for himself. Eating healthy, working out, he quit smoking and his overall demeanor improved. He turned ****y with his new look and wanted to be with my ex so he went after her. She had other plans for him ie use him for his money and what ever she could. She hid her ugly side for a year I don't know how she did it because her ugly side reared its head with me 2 months into the relationship.

I know I shouldn't care but I'm angry, I know how manipulative and sadistic this little b*tch is. Bragged about destroying her previous BF, claiming he committed suicide. She hates her father so much I'm not really sure if she likes men at all.

I don't have feelings for her I don't care about her but when I heard her BF had a heart attack because of her it bothers me. Why? because I knew what her BF was like before she got in a relationship with him.

A BPD woman can literally drive you to having a heart attack.....They have a habit of exploding, creating drama from nothing and argueing over the littlest things

Check the screenshot below.....Just allowed this to fizzle out with a similar type of woman. This one was in treatment for depression/anxiety/problems etc

Hers is the white text.....

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It's an early grave with this kind of behaviour

Bingo. The way they just flip is uncanny. I found myself in shock most of the time not even mad at the fact that they allow themselves to lose their chit over nothing all the time.

 

[noBSgames]

Oh man if I showed my texts you would be reading for days.. they ALL follow the same patterns for whatever reason that is.. I got accused so many times I just started to slowly walk backwards and away from it all.. it got worse and worse with the last being her face timing me from her country and while I was at work the next day telling me she was getting married.. at that point I did not care and was like see ya.. no longer my problem!

 

[wifehunter]

Bingo. The way they just flip is uncanny. I found myself in shock most of the time not even mad at the fact that they allow themselves to lose their chit over nothing all the time.

There's a word for that. It's called 'crazy'.

 

[wifehunter]

sounds like a party!

 

[sazc]

A BPD woman can literally drive you to having a heart attack.....They have a habit of exploding, creating drama from nothing and argueing over the littlest things

Check the screenshot below.....Just allowed this to fizzle out with a similar type of woman. This one was in treatment for depression/anxiety/problems etc

Hers is the white text.....

View attachment 1176

It's an early grave with this kind of behaviour

This is the problem with trying to 'work things out' via text message. Your reply has 50,000 different meanings, but can also be taken as void of meaning and intent, and she chose to take it in a very negative way. Lol, I don't even know what you were trying to say with that text.

Sometimes I think it is better for adults to get together and adult.... Meaning actually talk, face to face. Instead of arguing over text message where everything can be interpreted way out of context and things get blown way out of proportion.

And then ppl end up 'diagnosing' someone as a bpd, npd, or any of the other awesome labels that are thrown around here. The conversation in person might have gone a lot differently.... Adult up!

 

[phil2015]

This is the problem with trying to 'work things out' via text message. Your reply has 50,000 different meanings, but can also be taken as void of meaning and intent, and she chose to take it in a very negative way. Lol, I don't even know what you were trying to say with that text.

Sometimes I think it is better for adults to get together and adult.... Meaning actually talk, face to face. Instead of arguing over text message where everything can be interpreted way out of context and things get blown way out of proportion.

Totally agree

 

[exhausted]

There's a word for that. It's called 'crazy'.

Crazy
Unstable
Psycho
Bat**** crazy. - my favorite.
A nightmare.
Trainwreck.
Ludicrous.

Many accurate adjectives.

 

[wifehunter]

Crazy
Unstable
Psycho
Bat**** crazy. - my favorite.
A nightmare.
Trainwreck.
Ludicrous.

Many accurate adjectives.

 

[wifehunter]

 

[051AV]

BPDs love to fight, she would pick fights with me for no reason they would come out of no where, they would leave me confused WTF did I do now. She loved drama she would start it all the time I told her I don't like drama so cut it out. She lashed out at me in rage she would get so mad at me, she would run away and go hide and cry. I would get the silent treatment I would have to be the first one to try break it and of course she figured I owed her an apology. We would fight by text too she would text me as fast as she could I couldn't get a text in edge wise.

She loves to manipulate people I caught on that quick I watched her manipulate people at work she loved playing people like puppets she does that with her current BF she tried it with me didn't last long. My nickname was douche she would get mad at me if she didn't get her way and say to me your such a phucking douche.

I'm lucky I didn't end up behind bars because the BPD she wanted revenge on me she worked really hard to slander my reputation and convince people I was the most evil person on the planet. She was angry if she could see me dead I think she would, she claimed I hurt her deeply.

She thought I was a weak and insecure guy when she met me she soon found out I wasn't weak and insecure it was the demise of our relationship she had no control over me it scared her. It doesn't matter if its a man or a woman I stand my ground nobody pushes me around I push back I don't like being phucked over I will return the favor if you do it to me.

I feel bad for the guy she's with his life is over with, he had a bright future ahead of him before he got involved with the BPD. He's not going to recover from a heart attack when he's 40-50 pounds overweight with a weak ticker and a body ravaged by stress. It makes me mad she took advantage of him he doesn't have the balls to stand up for himself.

The take away from this don't be a WEAK ASS man stand up for your self you can tell a woman to phuck off don't put up with their sh*t. I've been called an a**hole lots I'm used to it now. I'm used to hurting woman's feelings, they eventually come back and talk to you, some haven't I don't give a rats a**.