Johnsmith8899
Banned
- Joined
- May 21, 2017
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- Age
- 36
Met a girl on a cruise. She lives up north I’m down south. Hit it off the entire week.. tons of sex laughs and memories. After the cruise we kept in touch she had a very high IL. Flew to my state for 4 days had a great time after we kept speaking for a few weeks. She told me she loved me and came with gifts and everything. did some weird **** tho like trying to blast my radio by keep turning up the volume when I turned it down like over 10 Times (prob a test).
Anyway kept in touch high level of interest more I love yous from her and such. Figured she’s worth it so I went to her state up north. But in the interim we had a disagreement with going out for Halloween. She pulled away suddenly from The idea of dressing up and going out. I told her I have friends going out (as I’m originally from her state) and that I want to go. So she was the only one not dressed up when we actually went.. anyway went there visited her first few days were great then when we went out the 3rd day with my friends she was distant, went to bathroom and didn’t come back ( she was waiting outside and was disrespectful to me) I did not lose frame and asked if she has anxiety or something which she said she was just letting me have time
With friends which was bull****. Rest of night with just me and her was great. Went to a football game day after of which me and my friends like to get loud and rowdy. She was cool with just us two but then once my friends showed up she again changed her tune, became distant. We left early due to It being rained out and she was very cold, distant. Told the cab driver I’m her friend (not her man) just a complete weird change in behavior considering the day before she was like super in love. She said stop looking at me when I glanced over at her.
At that point I kept frame, waited until we got back to the hotel room. Showered off and gave it time for her to come to me and apologize and explain wtf was going on. Anyway I went to her and said to her the way she’s acting is unacceptable and before I can tell her to leave she said she’s packing her things and going home. I did not stop her. She asked if I wanted a hug before she leaves - I said that’s not what I want. That set her off and she yelled at me with her Russian accent “you need to grow up I feel like I’m the older woman hanging out with kids. You drop things and act like a child”, I just stood there and looked at her didn’t say anything maintained the frame and I let her shut the door and leave, even offered to help with her bags on the way out. I can understand if i was out of place acting like a child but i wasn’t just simple Dancing at the club, chanting at the game.10 mins later after she left she sent meThis text saying we’re different people
And not meant for each other and
That she’s thankful for everything. I
Did not respond to this and deleted her from all social media. We been no contact since that for a month. I’m just shocked of her behavior and hurt by it because how can you go from a loving woman one day to a heartless person the next ... no text on thx giving.
As a human we tend to see the past through rose colored glasses as we had great times but I’m just confused how she can just pull that. I would of listened to her concerns but the way she went about it was terrible. I did this no contact thing to teach her a lesson honestly to get things back on track to the wonderful person she was for the past 2 months. Wtf happened ? Will she get at me ever again with her old self ? Just left here holding my nuts confused as fuh. I’m dating other girls so I’ll live but this is a knock to the ego no lie
Anyway kept in touch high level of interest more I love yous from her and such. Figured she’s worth it so I went to her state up north. But in the interim we had a disagreement with going out for Halloween. She pulled away suddenly from The idea of dressing up and going out. I told her I have friends going out (as I’m originally from her state) and that I want to go. So she was the only one not dressed up when we actually went.. anyway went there visited her first few days were great then when we went out the 3rd day with my friends she was distant, went to bathroom and didn’t come back ( she was waiting outside and was disrespectful to me) I did not lose frame and asked if she has anxiety or something which she said she was just letting me have time
With friends which was bull****. Rest of night with just me and her was great. Went to a football game day after of which me and my friends like to get loud and rowdy. She was cool with just us two but then once my friends showed up she again changed her tune, became distant. We left early due to It being rained out and she was very cold, distant. Told the cab driver I’m her friend (not her man) just a complete weird change in behavior considering the day before she was like super in love. She said stop looking at me when I glanced over at her.
At that point I kept frame, waited until we got back to the hotel room. Showered off and gave it time for her to come to me and apologize and explain wtf was going on. Anyway I went to her and said to her the way she’s acting is unacceptable and before I can tell her to leave she said she’s packing her things and going home. I did not stop her. She asked if I wanted a hug before she leaves - I said that’s not what I want. That set her off and she yelled at me with her Russian accent “you need to grow up I feel like I’m the older woman hanging out with kids. You drop things and act like a child”, I just stood there and looked at her didn’t say anything maintained the frame and I let her shut the door and leave, even offered to help with her bags on the way out. I can understand if i was out of place acting like a child but i wasn’t just simple Dancing at the club, chanting at the game.10 mins later after she left she sent meThis text saying we’re different people
And not meant for each other and
That she’s thankful for everything. I
Did not respond to this and deleted her from all social media. We been no contact since that for a month. I’m just shocked of her behavior and hurt by it because how can you go from a loving woman one day to a heartless person the next ... no text on thx giving.
As a human we tend to see the past through rose colored glasses as we had great times but I’m just confused how she can just pull that. I would of listened to her concerns but the way she went about it was terrible. I did this no contact thing to teach her a lesson honestly to get things back on track to the wonderful person she was for the past 2 months. Wtf happened ? Will she get at me ever again with her old self ? Just left here holding my nuts confused as fuh. I’m dating other girls so I’ll live but this is a knock to the ego no lie
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