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Oy Vey

Frog, idk why you think day game is useless. The suggestion was genuine, from whomever suggested it.

I read more than I post. You seek real answers to your dilemmas. People give them to you and you sh1t on them (day game comment) or attack them for making the suggestions, because you feel as if they are sh1tty comments or judgemental.

It doesn't matter if it's a thread you started, or are just contributing to, the thread turns into a sh1tshow because you get angry at people. I'm just stating my observation. It feels attention seeking.

You know you can ignore comments, right? You don't have to rear up and fight.
 
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you get angry at people
Yes, and this is my problem. Even people in prison told me I needed anger management. It's not social anxiety, it's more what comes out of my mouth after that.

Therefore, desinova's diagnosis of my problem as social anxiety is incorrect. Not to mention that I never invited him to be my personal coach in the first place. He just decided to make himself that one day.

If I had social anxiety, could I meet two girls who were complete strangers and have a threesome with them? I've been to sex parties where 50 people are in a hotel room walking around naked.

I may have a problem with "small talk," however...

Also, on the subject of "social anxiety," I think you may underestimate the amount that everyone is a psycho and it's probably smart to be wary of them. It's pretty naive to think that everyone wants to be your friend if you smile at them.
 

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2155 posts divided by 6 months
= 359.16

359.16 posts divided by 30 days
= 11.97

Averaging 12 posts a day for the last 6 months.

maybe stop asking so many questions and go explore the world.
 
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2155 posts divided by 6 months
= 359.16

359.16 posts divided by 30 days
= 11.97

Averaging 12 posts a day for the last 6 months.

maybe stop asking so many questions and go explore the world.
I've seen the world. There's nowhere I could go right now that I haven't seen before, aside from visiting another country.

Again, it's called a SMART PHONE.
 
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Still waiting for my insults to be quoted....
No thanks. Refrain from talking to me since all you do is close my posts and don't allow me to respond. Why is her other patient more important than me? Why does she feel that her time is more valuable than mine?

Don't answer. I don't care what you think.
 

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I've seen the world. There's nowhere I could go right now that I haven't seen before, aside from visiting another country.

Again, it's called a SMART PHONE.
then put the phone down.

and yes visit other countries. It'll give you a taste of different women from different cultures.

Sure you can say you've laid 50 women or go to sex parties. you want to know something? nobody really cares. Come back with something positive to share with other people. it just seems that everything is about you. Why this, why that, buddy relax.

Let me ask you this, can you stop posting here for a week? or maybe stop reading this forum for a week? if not, then you are a slave bro. maybe you have an addiction to seeing your own posts. who knows? just give it a break for a bit. can you do that? if not for yourself, do it for us.
 

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Yes, and this is my problem. Even people in prison told me I needed anger management. It's not social anxiety, it's more what comes out of my mouth after that.

Therefore, desinova's diagnosis of my problem as social anxiety is incorrect. Not to mention that I never invited him to be my personal coach in the first place. He just decided to make himself that one day.

If I had social anxiety, could I meet two girls who were complete strangers and have a threesome with them? I've been to sex parties where 50 people are in a hotel room walking around naked.

I may have a problem with "small talk," however...

Also, on the subject of "social anxiety," I think you may underestimate the amount that everyone is a psycho and it's probably smart to be wary of them. It's pretty naive to think that everyone wants to be your friend if you smile at them.
well, having social anxiety may very well manifest itself in anger. not all ppl wth social anxiety withdraw and turn into wall paper. social anxiety is a mechanism of protecting oneself from becoming toll vulnerable and risking getting hurt. social anxiety is about fear. being openly angry is also about being fearful. by being angry you also push people away.

From what I have seen you post, you were able to have a 3 some because you paid and knew it was a done deal. You controlled the whole scenario, controlled the whole situation.

Meeting women socially in order to try to woo them (in whatever capacity you want to woo them) is you putting yourself in a position of being totally not in control. It's the 'not being in control' part that causes you anxiety. it's the rejection factor, even the potential rejection factor, that you are fearful of, that comes out as anger about 'these people', how they are boring, dont deserve you, dont understand your value. These are all coping mechanisms you use when you feel rejection.
 

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No thanks. Refrain from talking to me since all you do is close my posts and don't allow me to respond. Why is her other patient more important than me? Why does she feel that her time is more valuable than mine?

Don't answer. I don't care what you think.
you know, ill just casually mention that you could have chosen to cultivate this relationship with @Desdinova into something amicable, or even tried to mold it into something positive. Just because two people have a moment of disagreement doesnt mean that the relationship has to cave.

Have you ever actually tried to take a faltering relationship and turn it around? the ability to change an outcome is a great skill to have. It doesnt always work but it can benefit you in the long run if you can develop the skill.
 

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What mental illness do I have? I'm curious.
Your self-image is in the toilet, for one thing. When you're bragging about the things you are good at, it is yourself that you are trying to convince. I'm not saying anything you said is untrue. I don't think it is. I seem to believe you more than you believe yourself.

Your anger issues at the world, and especially at women, are a projection of your own issues with yourself.

I'd say weed would at least calm you down, but you've probably already tried that. Eat an edible if you have never tried one. You're in Florida, right? I used to live there. Mushrooms grow in every cow field. Psilocyn/psilocybin actually shows tremendous promise as a medical drug. Eat a big handful of those mushrooms and spend an evening pondering your life. Do not drive or operate heavy machinery, and stay away from power tools. It may give you a new perspective on life.
 
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well, having social anxiety may very well manifest itself in anger. not all ppl wth social anxiety withdraw and turn into wall paper. social anxiety is a mechanism of protecting oneself from becoming toll vulnerable and risking getting hurt. social anxiety is about fear. being openly angry is also about being fearful. by being angry you also push people away.

From what I have seen you post, you were able to have a 3 some because you paid and knew it was a done deal. You controlled the whole scenario, controlled the whole situation.

Meeting women socially in order to try to woo them (in whatever capacity you want to woo them) is you putting yourself in a position of being totally not in control. It's the 'not being in control' part that causes you anxiety. it's the rejection factor, even the potential rejection factor, that you are fearful of, that comes out as anger about 'these people', how they are boring, dont deserve you, dont understand your value. These are all coping mechanisms you use when you feel rejection.
No, they don't deserve me because they are stupid weak little girls lip synching the words to stupid hip-hop songs, and probably have a total of 3 brain cells that are coated in alcohol most of the time.

I refuse to enter into their little world where I have to "impress" them with a bunch of sh1t that makes little sense, while all the ACTUALLY IMPRESSIVE things that I've done go to waste and don't register as impressive to their know-nothing, selfish hamster brains.

I don't value them for their butt where their fvcking sh1t comes out of. I'm not going to be amazed by their "beauty" and want to spend any significant amount of time around them. I really don't see what they're good for at all other than sex.

I value females in the same way that Genghis Khan valued them, and he was the most successful ladies man of all time, by far.

I just said I don't have social anxiety. I also don't have much to talk about other than BUSINESS. I can talk BUSINESS all day long with anyone, male or female. But trying to get through to little millennial, know-nothing, hamster brain, just put down their Pokemon game yesterday, feminist, retarded girls who've been trying to dress up like Kim Kardashian since they were 13 years old is a complete waste of my time.

Especially when I know that 99% of what people say and act like in public is fake, anyway.
 
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Your self-image is in the toilet, for one thing. When you're bragging about the things you are good at, it is yourself that you are trying to convince. I'm not saying anything you said is untrue. I don't think it is. I seem to believe you more than you believe yourself.

Your anger issues at the world, and especially at women, are a projection of your own issues with yourself.

I'd say weed would at least calm you down, but you've probably already tried that. Eat an edible if you have never tried one. You're in Florida, right? I used to live there. Mushrooms grow in every cow field. Psilocyn/psilocybin actually shows tremendous promise as a medical drug. Eat a big handful of those mushrooms and spend an evening pondering your life. Do not drive or operate heavy machinery, and stay away from power tools. It may give you a new perspective on life.
Everything you just said is inaccurate.

I did so much acid when I was younger that I felt like a reptile for 3.5 years and wound up in the State Mental Hospital and in prison.

I did probably about 200 hits over the course of 18 months during 2008-2009. I wound up on national television for cyberstalking some ugly girl. It is terrible advice to tell me, or anyone, to do drugs.
 

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If this is a website full of people who are just wrong, wrong, wrong all the time, why are you wasting your time here?
 

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It is terrible advice to tell me, or anyone, to do drugs.
Had you asked me at the time, I would have been advising you to not melt your brain with all that sh!tty acid. This was in Florida? They have the worst quality stuff. Mushrooms are a completely different thing. And the active ingredient in them is in human clinical trials right now as a treatment for PTSD and depression.
 
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Had you asked me at the time, I would have been advising you to not melt your brain with all that sh!tty acid. This was in Florida? They have the worst quality stuff. Mushrooms are a completely different thing. And the active ingredient in them is in human clinical trials right now as a treatment for PTSD and depression.
I did lots of mushrooms too.

It's bad advice to tell people to do drugs.

Unless I want to end up in a mental hospital again and lose both my jobs.

What is there to figure out about life? I'm alive. I'll die some day, hopefully not soon and hopefully not painfully.

Getting sex isn't the issue. I could pay for a hooker any time I want that is hotter than 90% of the girls at bars. I've done this so many times that it's boring. There is no difference in sex that you pay for and sex that is free. I've done both. Same thing.
 

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Refrain from talking to me since all you do is close my posts and don't allow me to respond.
Post something that shows you're putting in some effort in the real world. Talk about a female you chatted up, talk about how you got another girl's number, talk about a coffee date you went on, ANYTHING other than bytching about girls, yourself, and life.

Again, this is a self-improvement forum, not a dumping ground for your complainy bull5hit.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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