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[doctor1996]

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First text was asking to get coffee.. She was 24. Oh how fun. If I got to bang a TA. Yeah kids, i'm banging your ta.

 

[jaymbrs]

Lol what is it with you and getting coffee? Are you divorced with kids and 40 years old? Chill with that. And stop pre-ejaculating with your invites. We've told you to spend some time texting for a little before shooting for the kill. If you post another similar post, I'm going to request you get banned for awhile.

 

[doctor1996]

No this was one from last week..

 

[doctor1996]

Lol what is it with you and getting coffee? Are you divorced with kids and 40 years old? Chill with that. And stop pre-ejaculating with your invites. We've told you to spend some time texting for a little before shooting for the kill. If you post another similar post, I'm going to request you get banned for awhile.

But lesson learned. Chilling with the coffee.

And building up rapport before going in for the kill.

 

[jaymbrs]

But lesson learned. Chilling with the coffee.

And building up rapport before going in for the kill.

Keep us posted with the next one. But follow through with the advice you're being given. I would invite her to a party another social event as your guest.

 

[doctor1996]

Keep us posted with the next one. But follow through with the advice you're being given. I would invite her to a party another social event as your guest.

Will do. Won't get another number until Monday probably.

 

[EyeBRollin]

There is no need to build rapport before asking out on a date. She either wants to go or she doesn't. If she's interested, she will go out with you.

 

[jaymbrs]

There is no need to build rapport before asking out on a date. She either wants to go or she doesn't. If she's interested, she will go out with you.

If she has 0 options or if this guy is a god amongst mortals then yes. But in the real world an attractive girl has options. And I'm assuming this isn't just a run of the mill type girl. Am I right?

 

[Masculinity]

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First text was asking to get coffee.. She was 24. Oh how fun. If I got to bang a TA. Yeah kids, i'm banging your ta.

There are no pictures here.

 

[doctor1996]

If she has 0 options or if this guy is a god amongst mortals then yes. But in the real world an attractive girl has options. And I'm assuming this isn't just a run of the mill type girl. Am I right?

Yeah she's pretty attractive
Every girl I've talked to so far is a 8/9/10.. Oh that other girl that said "hi", as a response, was incredible. 10k followers on Instagram, and 5k followers on Facebook. I mean I must be doing something right until some point if she just comes talkes to me and gives me opportunities to get her number.
I think the only 5 I ever talked to was in HS. And she was really into me.

 

[doctor1996]

There is no need to build rapport before asking out on a date. She either wants to go or she doesn't. If she's interested, she will go out with you.

Advice like this is what ruined my chances with each girl I talked to. I'm going off building rapport first, then asking. Maybe your method/advice might work with a very self-conscious fat girl.. Or some thot at a club But not with the girls that I talked to.

 

[doctor1996]

Beside, whenever I was stoned back in HS and early days of college, I always saw girls staring at me. I always then became very insecure that they were staring at me because i have some sort of deformity.. But it was all in my head, and they're looking at me because I'm an attractive guy.

 

[jaymbrs]

Advice like this is what ruined my chances with each girl I talked to. I'm going off building rapport first, then asking. Maybe your method/advice might work with a very self-conscious fat girl.. Or some thot at a club But not with the girls that I talked to.

The good AND bad thing about this board are the contradictory opinions. Unfortunately the individual looking for the advice has to make the wise decision on what fit's his style. Long story short, an unattractive guy cannot get away with the same things an attractive guy can. It's just how it is. So choose wisely on the advice being given to you.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Being a medical student and actually being a doctor are two very different things.

It's kind of like a 4 year old telling you they want to be an astronaut versus actually being an astronaut.

 

[devilkingx2]

There is no need to build rapport before asking out on a date. She either wants to go or she doesn't. If she's interested, she will go out with you.

depends on how they met and how well they know each other, if you get the number really fast it can be necessary

 

[doctor1996]

depends on how they met and how well they know each other, if you get the number really fast it can be necessary

I got the number within 5 minutes

 

[marmel75]

I got the number within 5 minutes

And you continue to think getting a number means something these days when its at its all time lowest value. Getting a number is no more valuable than her returning a message on an OLD site.

I mean good job on getting them but it doesnt mean much anymore.

 

[guru1000]

Some women need more rapport. Others need less. It depends on their dating experience, comfort, and IL.

You have to figure out what works for you.

I mass request, whereas at any given time I might have two or three spinning, 4-5 reschedules, 4-5 girls I dated but never got back to, and maybe 1 or 2 open slots, every few weeks. So in my case, I’d ask for the date in the 1st or 2nd text as I have no time to waste and care less about the fallout.

But if you’re just starting out trying to build a harem with women in the 8-10 range as you state, and don’t have a stable stream of 5-10 numbers a week, then take your time and build rapport to increase your closing ratio. Even better than texting, get her on the phone for maximum rapport.

 

[Tenacity]

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First text was asking to get coffee.. She was 24. Oh how fun. If I got to bang a TA. Yeah kids, i'm banging your ta.

I didn't see the picture.....but one thing I do is I always "close" with giving a chick MY number and telling her to text me. Most of them do it, which allows me to see that the girl is actually serious/interested. When I was "closing" by getting the girl to give me her number, I would have a fvcking stack of numbers the size of the Yellow Pages and a good 70% of them would literally go nowhere.