Text back or not?

doctor1996

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Got her number. Shot her a text an hour ago.

Me: Hey ____, it's ____. What's up?

She responds: "hi"

I don't think I'm gonna bother. Opinions? And if this is the case, I'm getting fed up. Every girls number I got, they all pull the same bull**** with me and I'm fed up.
 

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she said hi, that's your door in to say whatever else you want , and leave it at that

"hey lets go out tonight to blah blah blah"

if she says yes, ur good

she says no, you move on and stop posting online about how you only got "hi" as a response
 

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Got her number. Shot her a text an hour ago.

Me: Hey ____, it's ____. What's up?

She responds: "hi"

I don't think I'm gonna bother. Opinions? And if this is the case, I'm getting fed up. Every girls number I got, they all pull the same bull**** with me and I'm fed up.
if you're clever and funny make a joke if not just say "how are ya"
 
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Tell her you're in the mood to eat some pu$$y and see what she says. Tell her you'll keep it a secret if she wants you to.
 

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Go on and ask her two more questions. If she does not ask one question back after you ask 3...drop it. Remember this for any kind of communication, text or live.
 

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Already got rid of her number
after all the advice we keep giving you, but you know best......we can pick up your vibe from your messages your insecure when things dont go how you think they should go

you **** the pot if they dont get bk to you within a certain time,....when a man behaves this way women have radars for this bollocks and she will put you under the "needy, soon to be verbally abusive" category with the rest of them.....cool calm and collective you are not

wait till one of em really leads you on like a piece of string to a cat ...youll wish you listened to us then

Go on and ask her two more questions. If she does not ask one question back after you ask 3...drop it. Remember this for any kind of communication, text or live.
this is brilliant advice however lizardking theres more to it hes not quite telling the full story on his own behaviour ie give the woman chance to breathe so what if she takes a little to respond, etc if theyd had sex and dated and she took a day to respond then id agree with him but these women owe him nothing
 

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you **** the pot if they dont get bk to you within a certain time,....when a man behaves this way women have radars for this bollocks and she will put you under the "needy, soon to be verbally abusive" category with the rest of them.....cool calm and collective you are not
better too quick to get rid of a girl than too slow I'd say
 

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So you basically reject yourself? Not sure what level of game you are at but you need to make some serious improvements.
 

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Weak texting skills doc.

"how are you" and even "hey" is the most boring thing you could text, honestly im surprised she even texted you back.

How about "lets grab something to eat"

Or even better, setting up a date before taking her number. Stop wasting your time.
 

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Weak texting skills doc.

"how are you" and even "hey" is the most boring thing you could text, honestly im surprised she even texted you back.

How about "lets grab something to eat"
that's an equally bad text if you guys just met, he has to show her that she wants to go on a date with him before he asks (if they already know each other it doesn't matter)
 

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hes having a meltdown when they dont get back to him within hours, needs to drop the insecurities
yeah something is definitely off about OP here, but in a vacuum knowing that you should cut your losses is extremely good and valuable
 

Jetleg

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that's an equally bad text if you guys just met, he has to show her that she wants to go on a date with him before he asks (if they already know each other it doesn't matter)
If you did you work like you were supposed to, before taking her number, then its all good.
 
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