Be careful lowering your standards for an easy lay.

[Zero_to_hero]

I ****ed up. Just want to share my nights experience with someone, and there is no way in hell I am telling about this any of my friends.

I am a busy guy (broke University student as well). With my schedule, most effective way for me to get girls is trough Tinder. The goal is to get smoother with girls, so I try strive to get 1 date a week minimum. I had been hitting a dry spill lately. Had like 7 dates in last 5 weeks, and the furthest I got was sucked on this cute girls nipples last week. Tried to have sex with her, but didn't pull it off. These last weeks it has frustrated me and stress from being broke, juggling job and attending school has made me go a bit insane this last week.

To put into the perspective, this is how my yesterday looked like.

8am to 2pm - school
2pm to 4pm - studying for the upcomming math exam
4pm to 9pm - work (my work also has e certain stress level)
9pm to 9am - all nighter, spend studying for exam. When my head started spinning, I would take a little brake, answering girls on Tinder and jaking off.

So during the night, I didn't sleep, studied hard, arranged a date fallowing night (this night) and wanked off 6 times.

With no sleep, went to the exam -> failed it spectacularly -> slept 1h in my car -> went to work -> got home and took a shower -> slept 1h -> jacked off 2 times within 1hour and then got ready and went to the date I had scheduled.

I mention how many times I wack off, because this is quite unussual for me. Usually it is 2 times between 3 days or so.

While arranging the date, I messaged girls that I would not message usually, thinking I would rather lower my standards in order to at least get laid, that I have not done for a while. BIG MISTAKE. So I arranged a date with a girl, that based on her profile picture I would give her 6-. I meet her - short, fat somewhat cute face. I would give her looks 3. Tought to my self - I will make the most out of this situation - at least will sharpen my seduction skills.

Our date started 12pm, i bought coffee, and the date went on by us cruising around the city, drinking coffee and having conversation. After 40 minutes of driving, I pulled up in remote location, stalled the car and we kept talking. Another 30 minutes later I thought, I should end the date. She had somewhat cute face, so I decided to give her a smooth kiss and drive her home. Kiss more for me polishing my skill rather than ejoying the act. She really liked it, got turned on and climbed ontop of me. I remember thinkng to my self:" Really!?!?! Are you gonna bang her?", but I was hard at that point and let my **** do the thinking. Ended up having sex with her and drove her off to home afterwards.

I had 20 minute drive back to my place. The longer I drowe, more and more came feeling of discuss over me. When I replayed in my head the act, it made more and more sick. I even growled out loud in disgust few times. I noticed, that her perfume has rubbed all over me, and my hands still carry her scent - I started to feel really dirty. Got home, took a shower ASAP. Still feel disgusted with myself. I sort of feel, I might have raped myself with her (i know - sounds obnoxious).

This has gotten me thinking - probably this is how women feel, if you come on too strong. Even if you manage to have sex with them, they can still start feeling like this afterwards. That would explain why sometimes they ghost you after a date, that ends with a kiss or sex, even tho, You, yourself, think the date went awesome.

I have always had a trouble finding the line between being dominant and coming on too strong. I think this experience will help me to imagine myself in womens shoes a bit better, thus improving my game.

Also, I will NEVER start a flirty conversation with a girl, that I do not find ****able ever again, because that might lead to ****ty situations like this.

I am sorry you had to read all of this - just wanted to share.

 

[jaymbrs]

Haha! I've gone through this and have realized it just isn't worth it. It may be for some guys but not me. If she's not attractive in my eyes, I'll get down on myself. Glad to hear you were able to get something out of it.

Also don't be so down on yourself. Just take it as a learning experience and move on.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

This has gotten me thinking - probably this is how women feel, if you come on too strong. Even if you manage to have sex with them, they can still start feeling like this afterwards. That would explain why sometimes they ghost you after a date, that ends with a kiss or sex, even tho, You, yourself, think the date went awesome.

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Good insight.

 

[Serenity]

The jacking off abnormally often part of this is due to stress and lack of sleep. Have had this a few times, it's not as fun as it sounds.

About studying and not sleeping, prioritize sleep. All your studying is wasted if your brain don't rest to let it sink in. All sorts of sh!t happens if you don't sleep, like all of what you described.

Apart from that it was an entertaining story (for us at least). Some lessons only come through mistakes.

 

[Mazer]

Hey man, I can totally understand. Just the other week, I️ got desperate and almost set up this date with a girl who was about a 5. When you go through dry spells you start to lower your standards. You must be strong during this time and wait until it passes. There are always attractive girls on the horizon. My one rule is never have sex with a woman who you don’t find attractive. Imagine you accidentally knock her up and now you have to look at her face regularly. My god, worst nightmare haha.

 

[Alvafe]

never skip sleeping, prefer to sleep over studying, if you need to study 12 hours like that you are doing something incredibly wrong during class, even more with math, plus tests is more about how well you can memo things not really how well you learn, also drop the date thing, 1 perr week is nice IF you have time and want to have fun, during this time I would spend over 6 months without going out so I could deal with college and work

 

[EmotionalGeek]

When I studied hard material sometimes my stress gone through the roof. I compulsively jacked off to relief stress -- it helped a lot.

 

[Julian]

that feeling...its the feeling of a piece of your soul dieing. everytime you do this or get that feeling...remember u just did something fked up that goes against your morals

 

[Zero_to_hero]

My one rule is never have sex with a woman who you don’t find attractive. Imagine you accidentally knock her up and now you have to look at her face regularly. My god, worst nightmare haha.

THIS!

A buddy of mine knocked up some chick year ago. I mean, 1 thing is the situation ****ed up, being a father at that young age, but the other thing is she is neither smart nor a stunner. I sometimes look at her on FB horrified, what mess my friend has gotten himself into. Now this person will be in his more or less. I remember jokingly saying, that if he wanted to knock someone up, at least could have found a prettier girl.

never skip sleeping, prefer to sleep over studying, if you need to study 12 hours like that you are doing something incredibly wrong during class, even more with math, plus tests is more about how well you can memo things not really how well you learn, also drop the date thing, 1 perr week is nice IF you have time and want to have fun, during this time I would spend over 6 months without going out so I could deal with college and work

I ****ed up between dates of the exams, so I found out 2 days earlier, that the exam will be a week sooner then planned, so I had to pull allnighter. I do agree about sleep - hard to function.

Honestly, I would rather work a bit less and earn even less money than give up that 1 date a week. Now I am meeting up with girls, again. I was depressed last year spending most of it with minimum contact to people, and that is no way to live. In regards to my seduction skill, when I first started again, I was so rusty, I might as well be a virgin, so it feels good, that I have gotten some of my skill back. I see myself improving every date I have - I start to view it as a sport. Something to blow off steam. Even with my busy schedule, I can squeeze 1 date in a week (no more than 1 tho). Sometimes I feel like cancelling at the last second, because I am so tired, but I never do. Besides yesterday, I have never regretted pushing my tired ass to date, even if occasionally I do get ghosted afterwards. I think, it is also good trait to polish - being pleasant and likable, when you are not really feeling it.

 

[MatureDJ]

Wow, I got a high GPA in an engineering curriculum (i.e., every class is about doing College-Algebra-difficulty word problems, if not more complicated), and "loving myself" was never a reaction to the studying.

 

[exhausted]

We'v all banged something we shouldn't have. Just make sure you helmet up.

 

[Red Legg]

So...you fvcked a fug eh ? kind of feel sh!tty about it eh? Don't feel bad about it,Hell my c0ck has seen just about the whole looks scale spectrum.You might be taking this a little to serious,women are a side show in our life not the main event,more than once I have fvcked a fug and then the next woman I fvcked after her was an HB 8 + ,so they can be good practice and sometimes you just need to get the pvssy smell on your d!ck to jolt you out of a rut.Do not let other women see you with a fug though and do not go out in public on a date with a fug you will degrade yourself in other woman's eyes,just smash and dash on fug's because they tend to get hooked on guy's they bang quickly.

 

[logicallefty]

Good story. Appreciate you sharing it. I am fortunate that my c0ck won't let me fvck a woman that is not within my standards. It works on some and not others. The crane just will not erect. Auto shut down. But believe me if it hadn't been for that I can think of quite a few I would have nailed (unwrapped might I add) and regretted it the next day.

 

[Trump]

I ****ed up. Just want to share my nights experience with someone, and there is no way in hell I am telling about this any of my friends.

I am a busy guy (broke University student as well). With my schedule, most effective way for me to get girls is trough Tinder. The goal is to get smoother with girls, so I try strive to get 1 date a week minimum. I had been hitting a dry spill lately. Had like 7 dates in last 5 weeks, and the furthest I got was sucked on this cute girls nipples last week. Tried to have sex with her, but didn't pull it off. These last weeks it has frustrated me and stress from being broke, juggling job and attending school has made me go a bit insane this last week.

To put into the perspective, this is how my yesterday looked like.

8am to 2pm - school
2pm to 4pm - studying for the upcomming math exam
4pm to 9pm - work (my work also has e certain stress level)
9pm to 9am - all nighter, spend studying for exam. When my head started spinning, I would take a little brake, answering girls on Tinder and jaking off.

So during the night, I didn't sleep, studied hard, arranged a date fallowing night (this night) and wanked off 6 times.

With no sleep, went to the exam -> failed it spectacularly -> slept 1h in my car -> went to work -> got home and took a shower -> slept 1h -> jacked off 2 times within 1hour and then got ready and went to the date I had scheduled.

I mention how many times I wack off, because this is quite unussual for me. Usually it is 2 times between 3 days or so.

While arranging the date, I messaged girls that I would not message usually, thinking I would rather lower my standards in order to at least get laid, that I have not done for a while. BIG MISTAKE. So I arranged a date with a girl, that based on her profile picture I would give her 6-. I meet her - short, fat somewhat cute face. I would give her looks 3. Tought to my self - I will make the most out of this situation - at least will sharpen my seduction skills.

Our date started 12pm, i bought coffee, and the date went on by us cruising around the city, drinking coffee and having conversation. After 40 minutes of driving, I pulled up in remote location, stalled the car and we kept talking. Another 30 minutes later I thought, I should end the date. She had somewhat cute face, so I decided to give her a smooth kiss and drive her home. Kiss more for me polishing my skill rather than ejoying the act. She really liked it, got turned on and climbed ontop of me. I remember thinkng to my self:" Really!?!?! Are you gonna bang her?", but I was hard at that point and let my **** do the thinking. Ended up having sex with her and drove her off to home afterwards.

I had 20 minute drive back to my place. The longer I drowe, more and more came feeling of discuss over me. When I replayed in my head the act, it made more and more sick. I even growled out loud in disgust few times. I noticed, that her perfume has rubbed all over me, and my hands still carry her scent - I started to feel really dirty. Got home, took a shower ASAP. Still feel disgusted with myself. I sort of feel, I might have raped myself with her (i know - sounds obnoxious).

This has gotten me thinking - probably this is how women feel, if you come on too strong. Even if you manage to have sex with them, they can still start feeling like this afterwards. That would explain why sometimes they ghost you after a date, that ends with a kiss or sex, even tho, You, yourself, think the date went awesome.

I have always had a trouble finding the line between being dominant and coming on too strong. I think this experience will help me to imagine myself in womens shoes a bit better, thus improving my game.

Also, I will NEVER start a flirty conversation with a girl, that I do not find ****able ever again, because that might lead to ****ty situations like this.

I am sorry you had to read all of this - just wanted to share.

Too detailed and specific to be real.

 

[Alvafe]

I ****ed up between dates of the exams, so I found out 2 days earlier, that the exam will be a week sooner then planned, so I had to pull allnighter. I do agree about sleep - hard to function.

Honestly, I would rather work a bit less and earn even less money than give up that 1 date a week. Now I am meeting up with girls, again. I was depressed last year spending most of it with minimum contact to people, and that is no way to live. In regards to my seduction skill, when I first started again, I was so rusty, I might as well be a virgin, so it feels good, that I have gotten some of my skill back. I see myself improving every date I have - I start to view it as a sport. Something to blow off steam. Even with my busy schedule, I can squeeze 1 date in a week (no more than 1 tho). Sometimes I feel like cancelling at the last second, because I am so tired, but I never do. Besides yesterday, I have never regretted pushing my tired ass to date, even if occasionally I do get ghosted afterwards. I think, it is also good trait to polish - being pleasant and likable, when you are not really feeling it.

that is more a state of mind then a skill to polish, I do go out dead tired, but mostly because like I said before when a girl asked why I still go when I was dead tired, I give my word I would so I go, same when I fell and twisted my ankle and my date at the time was desperate becasue of it and I was laid in teh ground trying to make her calm with a damn searing pain, ita ll about prioritys, don't matter if you ahd a exam in a week or 2 days, you should be ready already, study during class and a quick little revision after go far more in the long way then stay and study like hell to pass. but then again I was never the studying for test guy, I always did learn what I could during class a quick recap on the main terms and test I go, if you want to polish a skill you should polish the i'm always ready for anything

 

[Urbanyst]

Gross dude.

But this is why so many busted women have high confidence. A lot of attractive guys will lower their standards just to bust a nut. Then those same women start to believe they are entitled to an attractive man since they f*cked one lol.

 

[Mr Wright]

Banging ugly chicks ruins your vibe. I told this to my friend but still he kept banging this ugly chick, I told him the girls you go after is how much you think you're worth. I have a simple rule, if you can't walk down the street and bump into someone you know with her, you have no business doing anything else with her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Banging ugly chicks ruins your vibe. I told this to my friend but still he kept banging this ugly chick, I told him the girls you go after is how much you think you're worth. I have a simple rule, if you can't walk down the street and bump into someone you know with her, you have no business doing anything else with her.

What's "ugly"? She may have a marginal face with a great attitude, intelligent and banging body?

 

[Mr Wright]

What's "ugly"? She may have a marginal face with a great attitude, intelligent and banging body?

As guys we are shallow, we want the best looking girls, so for anything short term her intelligence and to some extent her attitude(unless its unbearable) doesn't really come into it. A plain Jane with a banging body is still probably better looking than half the girls out there.