Time vs Getting laid

[doctor1996]

After how many times of seeing her would you said getting laid is optimal?

Yeah, you meet this girl, go for coffee. Go eat next week. but how long do you think is an appropriate timeline? And is it realistic to get laid without actually dating? And what would you do about some girls that want to be in a relationship? I myself am not looking for a relationship, so what would i do?

 

[Urbanyst]

This is really up to you.

Some girls are slutty while other girls will make you wait months. Find someone who is on the same page.

 

[doctor1996]

This is really up to you.

Some girls are slutty while other girls will make you wait months. Find someone who is on the same page.

Thats the problem.. how do i find out if someones on the same page? I don't say "Hi, lets have sex!"

 

[Urbanyst]

Thats the problem.. how do i find out if someones on the same page? I don't say "Hi, lets have sex!"

By moving forward with your timeline.

If your timeline is sex on the second date.. you try to have sex on the second date. She will either let you or she won't.

 

[wifehunter]

forget about it...nature will always take it's course...just make sure this is a girl you want to have nature with!

 

[doctor1996]

forget about it...nature will always take it's course...just make sure this is a girl you want to have nature with!

True enough

 

[The Duke]

Sechs on the 3rd date is pretty typical for me. The longest I've waited was 5 dates.

It all depends on how much of a connection you have, how long the dates were, the level of intimcacy. ;-)

I typically would not have waited 5 dates, but the 3rd and 4th date we went on were not at all conducive to having sechs.

If things ever get drawn out to the point where she puts your advances off, then you need to make it clear that you aren't waiting for ever. I had to do this only one time and she was actually on her period but she did take everything off except her panties. The next week she put out like a good girl!

I wouldn't worry about it. With more experience you will figure it out. Its best for sechs to NOT BE YOUR GOAL. You will come across as thirsty when it is.

But definitely don't just wait for it to magically happen. Always keep escalating and creating sechsual tension.

 

[lizardking82]

If she has sex with you right away, there's either a crazy sexual attraction between you two or she is just confused LOL

Anyhow, you make sure to get into her pants and the rest will reveal itself down the way. Just sit there, have sex and observe. All men really need to do.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Agreed with @Howiestern. 3 probably average, my longest was waay to long but in the end worth it as she was probably the best.

Woman rarely make the first move. The ones that do are desperate and or possibly seeking revenge/monkey branching. You are from a different generation so idk. Every generation seems to get sluttier than the next.

Jump into the bible, start read and learning it, use in ACTION. It's the best way you'll learn. Other subjects that are useful: psychology, body language, kino etc.

And dammit stop giving these chicks free dinner! Smfh

 

[doctor1996]

I'm a middle drunk. I have 2 quizzes at 7 am and shouldn't be drinking but I am. I'm stupid and ****ed. I want to run around my underwear and **** some hot blonde girl with blonde eyes with a nice ass or Indian or messaging one of the girls I'm trying to pick up