If you can't banter with men, you stand no chance with women...

[Reykhel]

If you want to actually stand a chance with women, you need to be comfortable and be able to banter....with men.

If you don't? no problem you can find a woman and live a happy blissful existence with her....but...it will always be in her frame.

There are plenty of beta phaggots who are living a life of blissful ignorance in a relationship with "the one" and these men think that you are a loser. They would do anything for their woman. However, these men live in fear. Fear that she'll leave them. fear that she'll be mad at them. Fear that they are not doing things right to please her...

How do you know these men? They cannot handle being around other men. they cannot handle banter. they cannot handle confrontation. they do no want to rock the boat.

Gents, if you're ever going to handle women....you need to know how to handle men. you need to be at least comfortable handling conflict with men.

Unless you can deal with men....you'll never fully deal with women.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

In other words, y’all gotta learn to take a joke.

 

[exhausted]

As a layed back and sarcastic guy, what the F are you talking about?


I worked in a hospital for years.

You know how many doctors administrators and IT nerds who have no personality at all with anyone yet are married for decades

 

[Macaframalama]

Coming from a guy that types 1,000 word emotional diatrabes. CTFU!

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Lies... Bigger black dude at bar I go to.. ALWAYS stands at the SAME wall EVERY weekend. I think the guy is mute, I have only heard 2 sentences from the 3 years I seen him.

He gets girls go up to him and girls just start frinding on him and he sometimes takes one home.

ZERO GAME, ON FOOD STAMPS, NO CAR... prolly still at moms, 28 years old... bigger black guy standing at the wall.

Verbal game is not needed at all. I seen pickup videos where he pulls a girl with no words.

Its a shame really because verbals is 80% of my game.

 

[ubercat]

Which is why I always suggest sports to all the FAs. If you're a relaxed guy on court or in the dojo you'll get invited to the after training beers and cop plenty of s*** from the guys and hopefully dish some out.

For those of us who weren't born bigger black guys. Besides I like Asian chicks if I was born a black guy I d b splitting them in half

 

[MillionBillionaire]

except this is within the context of a club.

ive pulled girls to dance without uttering a word. this is actually a very common occurence. body language is doing the talking

it has nothing to do with not having game. its the context.

It has more to do with looks .. like the fact he is a big black guy and they are sooo cool right now.

Standing in the corner with good body language alone doesn't make her wanna fvkk you all of a sudden compared to if you were slouching.

The big black guy could be crying like a puzz and it wouldn't matter.

What mattered is he is a BBG and she was maybe a mudshark.

Body language hardly was a factor. His big blsck muscles and Big Black D1k was what they want.

Oh BTW he doesn't stand at the wall he leans against it with his arms crossed half the time.

Baffels my mind, I guess he is the equivalent to the hot blonde.

 

[Asasione]

It has more to do with looks .. like the fact he is a big black guy and they are sooo cool right now.

Standing in the corner with good body language alone doesn't make her wanna fvkk you all of a sudden compared to if you were slouching.

The big black guy could be crying like a puzz and it wouldn't matter.

What mattered is he is a BBG and she was maybe a mudshark.

Body language hardly was a factor. His big blsck muscles and Big Black D1k was what they want.

Oh BTW he doesn't stand at the wall he leans against it with his arms crossed half the time.

Baffels my mind, I guess he is the equivalent to the hot blonde.

Seriously you read Reykhel's post and you didn't understand his point at all and are bringing up an outlier to prove a point. He's simply saying being comfortable with good natured joking around with guys is necessary to be able to handle the sh*t testing and other stuff women dish out. Learning to have thick skin is basically what he's talking about, I may be oversimplifying it and if so @Reykhel can correct me on that but that's what I understood from his message. Has nothing to do with verbals per se but attitude.

 

[El Payaso]

Seriously you read Reykhel's post and you didn't understand his point at all and are bringing up an outlier to prove a point. He's simply saying being comfortable with good natured joking around with guys is necessary to be able to handle the sh*t testing and other stuff women dish out. Learning to have thick skin is basically what he's talking about, I may be oversimplifying it and if so @Reykhel can correct me on that but that's what I understood from his message. Has nothing to do with verbals per se but attitude.

Exactly. Some people are drawing too many literals from his post.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Seriously you read Reykhel's post and you didn't understand his point at all and are bringing up an outlier to prove a point. He's simply saying being comfortable with good natured joking around with guys is necessary to be able to handle the sh*t testing and other stuff women dish out. Learning to have thick skin is basically what he's talking about, I may be oversimplifying it and if so @Reykhel can correct me on that but that's what I understood from his message. Has nothing to do with verbals per se but attitude.

Ummm... no your wrong.

 

[Urbanyst]

How many more OBVIOUS threads are you going to create? lol.

Reykhel's next thread title: "Eating too much will make you fat".

 

[Urbanyst]

this might be common knowledge to most of us, but there is literally young men in the thousands that dont know these things. which is why theyre here

That's what "The DJ Bible" is for.

Is it not?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Ummm... no your wrong.

‘Uh oh, someone made a comment that actually made sense. But I CANT be wrong, I just CANT! What do I do??? Ohhhh!!!!’
No your wrong
‘That was a good one MillionBillionaire, he cant ever think of a way to beat THAT’

The lack of social skills to read between the lines, likely why Tyrone the black dude has better game than MillionBillionaire the keyboard jockey without saying a thing. Probably why Mr. Big-Black-Dude can slay more easily, he just gets it. Or perhaps he’s likely just a drug dealer or a pimp cuz you know, standing in the same corner of a bar all the time waiting for people to come up to him without him saying a word. OMG VERY WOW HOW IT COULD BE REEEEEEEEEEE

 

[byers90]

the amount of posts with common questions is a clear indicator they dont read the stickied threads and required reading material

Or they don't bother putting into practice what they've learned and see for themselves. Being armed with all the knowledge is useless without actually putting it into practice. Some are more content to speculate and theorize then actually succeed.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

‘Uh oh, someone made a comment that actually made sense. But I CANT be wrong, I just CANT! What do I do??? Ohhhh!!!!’
No your wrong
‘That was a good one MillionBillionaire, he cant ever think of a way to beat THAT’

The lack of social skills to read between the lines, likely why Tyrone the black dude has better game than MillionBillionaire the keyboard jockey without saying a thing. Probably why Mr. Big-Black-Dude can slay more easily, he just gets it. Or perhaps he’s likely just a drug dealer or a pimp cuz you know, standing in the same corner of a bar all the time waiting for people to come up to him without him saying a word. OMG VERY WOW HOW IT COULD BE REEEEEEEEEEE

Lol.. please the black dude having more game than me hahaha.. Do you know what game is?

He gets more chicks than me because he is physically attractive, no mattter if he talks like Forest Gump.

And wtf is this saying I have no social intelligence?...

Now your just being stupid.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Lol.. please the black dude having more game than me hahaha.. Do you know what game is?

He gets more chicks than me because he is physically attractive, no mattter if he talks like Forest Gump.

And wtf is this saying I have no social intelligence?...

Now your just being stupid.

“Hurrrr durrrr you’re stupid hurrr hurrr hurrr”

You know who else was really attractive but talked like RichardTheFrog? Elliot Rodgers. That dude didn’t get laid for **** so he turned into Tenacity’s rage and anger and shot a whole bunch of women up. Bad people person skills the whole lot of you

 

[Reykhel]

agree with everything you said.

but i will add one caveat.

this shouldnt be confused with having dominance over men. and dominance over men also doesnt equate to mastery over women.

just a complicated way of saying learn how to bust balls with other men and how to stand up for yourself when you really have to

Becoming one of the better posters here on sosuave. Reykhel appreciates your presence..

 

[Reykhel]

Coming from a guy that types 1,000 word emotional diatrabes. CTFU!

Yawn

Forever alone loser who contributes nothing

 

[Reykhel]

been gone for a while

i never needed to say much before with the poonkings, bradds, and burroughs being a daily presence

their absence is now noted

I hear you.