Threesome with 2 HB8-9's from SA

[sazc]

It's not hard to tell when someone is enjoying sex.

It's not hard to fake it for a guy either.

These girls are full time waitresses lolololol

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's pretty obvious

The "con" in con man stands for confidence. You have to bolster the mark's confidence first, then that makes him easy to separate from his money.

Like I said, I'm glad you had fun. I'm not trying to moral-shame you for buying hookers. But like other people here are trying to tell you, you're delusional to believe anything a working girl tells you.

 

[sazc]

The only places that I don't seem like everyone else is the bar or club.

Perhaps these places are fake? Perhaps people put on fake personalities when they go to these places?

No, the reason you hate the bars and clubs is because you do lack social skills and have already admitted that your mood changes when you drink, and not for the better.

If you really want to crawl out of your self imposed cave, you need to stay sober for the next 5 years and work on yourself. You can re evaluate the alcohol situation after that.

People who drink and get angry, and uncontrollably angrily mutter to themselves, and lack the self control to stop muttering to the point of being thrown out of a bar, don't need to drink at all. Seriously.

Step 1, stop drinking
Step 2 read, learn, listen
Step 3 apply
Step 4 work out at least five days a week to help with your mood
Step 5 grow as a human being

That's how it works buddy

 

[Atom Smasher]

I appreacite the response from you sir. There’s a few things I’d like to point out. If you wouldn’t mind AND when you have time please showcase(in private messages) where I’ve benefited from this leniency.

Secondly as you can see. I’ve ceased to interact with Richard. Does not mean I’m blind and don’t constantly see the forum filled with these trash posts.

I would also expect to have a more broad wiggle room. Check the track record I’ve consistently provided valuable information and advice. Numbers don’t lie

Also telling me how a REAL man acts and that REAL men ignore others and their bull**** is bull****. There are real men who deal by ignoring and deflecting. There are others who deal with situations head on. There’s no rigid way to being a man

You certainly DO have more wiggle room, hence my letting more slide.

My point would be that this isn't a "situation". There all all sorts of types and personalities on a public forum, and when we engage with those whom we have little respect for, we always end up sinking to a less than stellar level in terms of arguing. I think it's all too easy to assign too much importance to this place and to get too invested. The whole thing is rather comical when you detach and realize that this place consists of a bunch of anonymous guys, each with an established persona, trading ideas and advancing the community at best, and spinning wheels in arguments at worst. None of it is all that important.

For myself, if I get emotionally tied up in conversations, I can't leverage this place to my advantage and use it the way I desire to.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

No, the reason you hate the bars and clubs is because you do lack social skills and have already admitted that your mood changes when you drink, and not for the better.

If you really want to crawl out of your self imposed cave, you need to stay sober for the next 5 years and work on yourself. You can re evaluate the alcohol situation after that.

People who drink and get angry, and uncontrollably angrily mutter to themselves, and lack the self control to stop muttering to the point of being thrown out of a bar, don't need to drink at all. Seriously.

Step 1, stop drinking
Step 2 read, learn, listen
Step 3 apply
Step 4 work out at least five days a week to help with your mood
Step 5 grow as a human being

That's how it works buddy

It's not worth it to put that much effort to impress them. The girls at bars are no less of wh0res than the ones I met at that apartment. I'm supposed to go on a lifelong mission of sobriety to impress girls that drink themselves?

At bars, even when girls ask me questions about something I could be potentially interested in, such as what do I do for a living, I just give them one word answers and am disinterested in having a conversation with them.

 

[sazc]

The whole thing is rather comical when you detach and realize that this place consists of a bunch of anonymous guys, each with an established persona, trading ideas and advancing the community at best, and spinning wheels in arguments at worst. None of it is all that important

Word

Keep the wisdom that resonates, ignore the noise, refuse to engage the garbage.

 

[sazc]

It's not worth it to put that much effort to impress them. The girls at bars are no less of wh0res than the ones I met at that apartment. I'm supposed to go on a lifelong mission of sobriety to impress girls that drink themselves?

At bars, even when girls ask me questions about something I could be potentially interested in, such as what do I do for a living, I just give them one word answers and am disinterested in having a conversation with them.

No, your supposed to put your health FIRST, stay sober, and figure out your sh1t.

You walk around these boards, whining, moaning and groaning about woeful you, but you won't help yourself.

You realize that, if you didn't have that angry-drunk- always-a-victim-in-life personna, you would have no identity. You wild be LOST.

You say you hate it yet you cling to, and justify, standing still in it.

We're you molested as a child? How long have you gotten a payoff for playing the angry-victim role? Daddy and Mommy respond to it, don't they?

You'll never change what you don't own.

 

[guru1000]

It's not worth it to put that much effort to impress them. The girls at bars are no less of wh0res than the ones I met at that apartment. I'm supposed to go on a lifelong mission of sobriety to impress girls that drink themselves?

If they're worthless, why bang them?

If you have a desire to fvck them, then they have value (to you). But if they won't fvck you for free, then you have little value to offer.

Get it?

Thus, you need to get better so you have value (other than paying them) to offer.

 

[skinnyguy]

Congratulations, you had sex with a wh0re.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If they're worthless, why bang them?

If you have a desire to fvck them, then they have value (to you). But if they won't fvck you for free, then you have little value to offer.

Get it?

Thus, you need to get better so you have value (other than paying them) to offer.

What do you, or anyone, offer other than that?

You mentioned your looks and ambition as to why some girls like you. That's it? How could ambition be better than actual money? That certainly makes no sense, especially at your age.

And your suggestions to improve were all aesthetic, but most places I've gone to have suggested not doing facial fillers.

 

[guru1000]

Many guys bang hot girls for free. Why can't you? What's missing?

 

[sazc]

What do you, or anyone, offer other than that?

You mentioned your looks and ambition as to why some girls like you. That's it? How could ambition be better than actual money? That certainly makes no sense, especially at your age.

And your suggestions to improve were all aesthetic, but most places I've gone to have suggested not doing facial fillers.

I'm willing to bet that most men on this site can offer empathy, companionship, the ability to emotionally connect on a deeper level than surface, engaging conversation, support, levity, a sounding board, being interested, genuine concern, attention, admiration on some levels, etc.

Either they can offer it, or they know how to fake it well, if it doesn't come naturally.

There's the beginning if your list. Get to tackling.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Many guys bang hot girls for free. Why can't you? What's missing?

That is a damn good point. Some of us do it without having any money, either.

 

[sazc]

And don't try and slither out of answering my direct question.

When, exactly, in your childhood, did you realize that being defiant and playing the victim had huge payoffs for you?

You found that role combination and ran with it, for life.

I recall you posting that you got framed for stalking and went to jail... You victim you, be angry about that, eh?

My uncle got framed for running pounds of pot accross state lines. Grandma says he was railroaded because he was only there to "inspect the merchandise" .

I've heard all the stories.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Many guys bang hot girls for free. Why can't you? What's missing?

You tell me.

Is it for the reasons @sazc mentioned below?

The first thing on her list was lack of empathy. I could see that.

 

[guru1000]

You tell me.

No you tell me.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

And don't try and slither out of answering my direct question.

When, exactly, in your childhood, did you realize that being defiant and playing the victim had huge payoffs for you?

You find that role combination and ran with it, for life.

I recall you posting that you got framed for stalking and went to jail... You victim you, be angry about that, eh?

My uncle got framed for running pounds of pot accross state lines. Grandma says he was railroaded because he was only there to "inspect the merchandise" .

I've heard all the stories.

I never said I got framed for anything, so I don't even know what you're talking about.

 

[sazc]

I never said I got framed for anything, so I don't even know what you're talking about.

Oh, so you WERE stalking the actress then?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

No you tell me.

If I knew, I wouldn't be on this forum, would I?

Several days ago, I thought flying to Vietnam to have my legs broken would solve my issues, but that sounds ridiculous now.

 

[guru1000]

If I knew, I wouldn't be on this forum, would I?

Several days ago, I thought flying to Vietnam to have my legs broken would solve my issues, but that sounds ridiculous now.

Do you think you're sane? Or you know something is a little off?